My parents don't understand depression?
To be honest, you can't. Some people (especially adults) don't believe in mental illness ( or don't fully understand it) because it was never brought up back then or talked about. I remember as a kid my mom was going through a horrible stage of depression and my dad would just buy her stuff, a new computer, makeup, jewelry and when she didn't get "better" he would get frustrated and angry, because he just couldn't understand why she felt like this. I feel like instead of trying to get them to understand, find support elsewhere because the most important thing should be you and your health, if they don't or cant understand, it's not your problem and it's only making you feel worse.
MY PARENTS DON'T UNDERSTAND MY DEPRESSION?
I am sixteen years old and apparently I have depression. I started going to a psychiatrist about a month ago but I just feel as if I'm getting worst. A couple days ago, she asked me how I'd feel about going on medication. All I want is to be happy, or normal at least. Idk if the medication would help. Nothing traumatizing happened in my life and the depression is not from genetics. The thing is my parents don't accept of understand what I'm going through. Most of the time, they're kinda pissed off and they say that I have everything and I should be thankful since there are less fortunate people out there. They think I can just snap out of it or stop feeling sad whenever I want to. I don't want to be like this. It's not my fault I'm feeling like this. It's not like I;m being sad on purpose. I've isolated myself from everyone. I've pushed everyone that's cared about me out of my life. I have no one anymore and I feel liek I'm nothing. My self esteem is extremely low but I can't help it. The mentality is taking over me. It's crazy because just 4 months ago, I was fine. I was happy. I never thought I'd ever be like this. My parents always asking me WHY I'm depressed but I honestly don't freaking know. It frustrates me a lot. I can't stand them. They don't understand this at all cause they never went through this. They tell me I have nothing to be sad about. And every time they ask me, I feel like punching through a wall cause it makes me so frustrated. Clearly they don't understand what depression really is and what it is caused by. I also have an eating disorder to put on top of this. But I stopped purging so much. They think that if I just think about the positive things and smile, it'll help. But it really doesn't. They're just making everything worse and adding to my stress. I can't concentrate or think straight anymore. My grades are slipping and they're always on my assss about it since it's my junior year. What do I do? What can I say to them to make them understand? I haven't really told them how I feel but I'm pretty sure my psychiatrist have told them a couple of things. I honestly have no motivation to do anything anymore. It always feels like there's a black cloud over my head. I have a "up" days once in a while but I have more "down" days. On my down days, I've tried to smile and act happy but for some reason, I end up breaking down into tears and I try to hide it.
Depressed - my parents don't understand?
So my parent's think that recently (in the last 6 or so weeks) my behaviour has been awful. I'm 15, I've been predicted all A*'s/A's/B's for my GCSE's and I attend school everyday. I have a good group of friends, although sometimes I wonder if they're actually there for me when it comes to it. We often go to parties, about once every 2 or 3 weeks. My parents havent been happy with me lately, because I have been doing really awful in my school work and I've started going out more and not really taken an interest in things I normally would. What they don't know is, I'm depressed. I've suffered really badly from depression for about 2 years now, its been getting better but right now I feel I'm at my worst. I've self harmed twice, and suicide runs through my mind quite often. I've spoken to a few people about it but haven't gone into any detail other than the fact I'm upset - I feel I have nobody to talk to that will understand, and I feel like nobody cares about me anymore. My parents want me to write them a letter and include all the reasons from my point of view why they dont trust me, why I'm acting like this and why I'm not taking school seriously. I've stopped eating and sleeping properly. I need to tell them how I'm feeling, but I don't know how, and I don't want them to think I'm asking for sympathy to get out of trouble. Any advice on how to talk about my depression and my feelings to them would be helpful and greatly appreciated.
How do I tell my parents I think I'm depressed? I'm really scared and don't know what to do.
Well, you need to figure out why you’re scared. They aren’t going to disown you for thinking you’re depressed. But, you shouldn’t self-diagnose.Do you have a school guidance counselor, nurse, mentor, or social worker you can run your thought process by first? If so, try them first. They might even be willing to be there as support when you tell them.I will tell you that most parents (and people in general) do not understand the complexities of depression. So, you’re going to want to make sure help from a therapist or clinical psychologist is an option too. You should see if there is any support for finding this either from school, church, or your parents insurance.
I have insomnia, but my parents don't understand?
The inability to get to sleep at night is a HUGE problem for many people. If you fall into this category, be assured there is hope to break out of the cycle. Herbal remedies play an important role in the natural ways to overcome insomnia. It is proven that herbal remedies contain certain alkaloids, which can trigger the neurotransmitters and hormones, which induce sleep. However, it is advised to seek the opinion of a physician, before practicing herbal drinks since it may alter the endocrine system of a person, having any serious complaints. The common herbal remedies include Hops, Valerian root, Passion flower, Californian Poppy, and Dog wood. Aromatherapy advocates that a bath in water containing the infusions of the herbs, before sleeping will help to avoid insomnia. Keep in mind, the best natural insomnia remedies will actually combine several herbs. This way, instead of just getting one benefit, you are getting a synergy of the most effective plants and botanics which target different areas of the brain and nerves to induce calming, relaxation and ultimately, fast sleep. Insomnia not only makes you sleepless but can be a sign of other serious diseases. Insomnia also affects your personality and general behavior. You don’t get sufficient sleep and as a result you feel laziness or drowsiness throughout the day. You may not be able to concentrate on work at office or at home. Confusion and inability for coordination are also related with Insomnia. Insomnia is not a disease in itself. It is a symptom of sleeplessness and may be a sign of other disease. There are many ways, traditional as well as medicinal, to treat these symptoms. Maintaining sleep hygiene, trying to live stress-free and adhering to adopting good sleeping habits will give you some relief from Insomnia. If these do not yield satisfactory results you can consult a doctor who will advise you the right sleeping aid. Hope I have helped. :)
What does it feel like when your parents don't understand your depression/ADHD and did it ever change?
My father has ADHD, OCD and depression. He's a perfectionist neat freak. I have ADHD and depression minus the fastidiousness. I'm a slob who overlooks the details in nearly everything. He and I didn't get along. Growing up, he make me feel like--in his words--a "worthless piece of shit." I wanted his approval so much but I was never good enough. For many years I mercilessly beat myself up mentally, and it was his voice I heard in my head.People my age (mid 40's) didn't get diagnosed with ADHD-PI (primarily inattentive) as children because it wasn't known back then. My parents thought my forgetfulness was "convenient" and accused me of lying when I said I forgot about a chore they told me to do. It would take me all day to clean my room or the basement or the garage and I was berated for my laziness and for not actually cleaning but just moving piles of stuff around. My father would completely lose it if I missed a spot while mowing the lawn. It turns out most of the things I got in trouble for were probably related to ADHD.A year ago I realized I have ADHD. My father realized he had it over two years ago, but he did tell me because I don't think we've spoken to each other more than ten times in the past 20 years. We're very much alike in many ways, but I've never felt close to him.Both of my parents now know and understand the difficulties I have with ADHD and depression, and I don't blame them for not realizing it sooner. They did the best they could with the information that was available to them at the time.
I’m very unhappy with my life.I think I am depressed but my parents do not understand that. I’ m addicted to my phone due to depression. Now I even hate my life. What should I do?
Talk to a professional. Go to your doctor and explain to them how you're feeling and ask for help.Your parents may be unable to understand because it's outside their experience.Talk to someone who can understand.And try to put down your phone. Put it in a drawer for an hour a day. Read, listen to music, go outside for a run or a bike ride. You'll be surprised by how much some exercise and fresh air can lift your mood.After a month, leave the phone in the drawer for 3 hours a day. Then after another month, try 6 hours a day. By that point, you may well wonder why it held such fascination for you.But still seek a professional to talk to. Someone who can offer advice on how you might move forward and escape your negative thinking.Do whatever you need to to get well again.
My parents don't believe im depressed...?
Ive been depressed for about 2 and half years. Ive self harmed but my parents don't know.. I tell my mom that im depressed but she says you were just fine, or your a teenager. im only 13. but i know what depression is.. i have all the symptoms. i need help, but they don't believe me... thanks.. any help would be good. =/