I have feelings for my best friend?
So i have feelings for my best friend! She knows that i have these feelings and she has said that shes got some of the same feelings. I keep trying to walk away from our friendship because we have such a unique friendship. shes go a boyfriend that doesnt like the fact that i am around and we have a great friendship. But she wont let me walk away what do i do?
I told my best friend I had feelings for her?
It is cristal clear. Ok? let me explain to you. There are two things it could be. Number one, we girls are not like you men when we have a best friend we may be madly in love with him but we'll never act one it. Because we are scared of losing that friend. She may have stong feels for you but because you are her best friend she'll never do anything, unless you have a long sit down with her and tell her no matter what you'll be friends. Number 2 when you told her that you like her odds are you sent her confidence through the roof, and she realized she does have some feelings for you and does not want you to get involved with anyone else because that would mean your taken and that could be for life....what you did wrong is you landed yourself in her best friend category and that is a tough spot because you may never get out and she values you now more than just any friend and as always love can take a negitive effect and she dont want to lose your friendship. if you liked her from the start you should have never gotten so close to her where she'll be scared to date you and break up and lose you. My advice is go see the movie if you like. But you should have a very long talk with her. tell her how you feel, that you want to be with her something terrible, that you feel sad a lot because you cant. Tell her that you promise that if it does not work that you and her can still be best friends. But dont sound desperate just be you. but you have to slove all her worries about break ups and harsh feelings and all that and see what she says. But stay on good terms with the girl that asked you out until you get it sorted out with the girl you like Also she may be playing hard to get especially now that she knows you like her. But she may not realize that odds are this will irritate you rather than intice you to chase her. We play hard to get because (well some of us) we like the idea of a man that likes us so much that they will give chase. And basically it means that yes she is jealous i think she likes you. Good luck
I think I have gay feelings for my best friend what do i do?
haha i was in the same deal... then i kissed my best friend and we had sex.... and he had always said he was "straight" oh and dont listen to that guy above.... theres nothing wrong with being gay.... he sounds like an *** hole
I have feelings for my best friend's boyfriend?
Please read this before making snap judgments. My best friend, her boyfriend, my boyfriend, and I used to go on countless double dates. Ever since my boyfriend and I broke up, nothing has changed and I'm now a third wheel for my best friend and her boyfriend. Lately I've had some strong feelings for her boyfriend. He's pretty much one of my best friends, too. Now, I avoid them so I don't have to see their PDA and because I feel terrible about it. I don't know what to do. I've tried everything from avoiding him to going out with someone else to replace him. The feelings just won't go away. What would you do? It's so hard when they talks to me about her problems with him, or how much she loves him, or vice versa. I just don't know what to do anymore.
I have a bad feeling about my best friend?
Okay so I have had this major feeling only one other time and it had to do with my sister, I had a bad feeling about her and she had a seizure the next day. Now I have this terrible feeling about my best friend. He just moved and now I feel like I guess you could call it a "connection" I see him in my dreams but something always happens and now I am starting to see and hear his name everywhere! I don't know what to do and it's freaking me out what should I do?
Should I tell my best friend that I have feelings for him? Edit: I am female.
If you are afraid then my answer is no, you should not tell him your feeling. The general rule is that before you tell some one you have very strong feelings for them ( like you love them) you should have a pretty good idea that the other person feels the same way or at least they will not be put off by your announcement. If you are afraid thT he might react badly. Then there is a possibility that you will be right and then you will be worse off than you were before.And for what? What do you gain by telling him?A risk which is not likely to help. But which has a possibility of hurting, sounds like a bad deal to me.But in any case stop and think what it is that you would want to happen at best. The fact that you want to tell him means that you are hoping that something different would begin to happen in your relationship . It might be good if you think about what this could be.
How do I stop having feelings for my best friend?
Been there my friend ! The thing with bestfriends is that you do not draw a line and you never know when you are crossing it. This isn't gonna be easy. You cannot let go of that person nor can you stop having feelings for them hence , end up hurting yourself . No matter what people tell you and if she/he doesn't feel the same ,you are gonna go through a slightly tough phase especially if she/he is attached to you on a wayy deeper level. So obviously you do not wanna tell your feelings cuz you may either get all of it or none.Complicated shit right?Oh , and also avoiding that person is a really bad idea cuz they did not do anything do deserve that. It isn't their fault that you caught feelings for them. Friendship was the root of your bonding, your feelings can't get in your way.Telling you from experience, go through your emotions , sulk if you want too, do not avoid your feelings cuz eventually you will accept the facts with time and move on. Time does heal everything.Goodluck
How can I put my feelings aside with my best friend who wants to have benifits?
The thing about "friends with benefits" is that, often, only one person gets all the benefits. Among the young, who typically do not yet know how to establish equality or mutuality in relationships, "friends with benefits" frequently functions to service the physical needs of boys while overlooking the more subtle emotional needs of girls. Women are pretty much wired to form emotional attachments to men they are intimate with. That's why having friends with benefits can get confusing. The feelings will kick in eventually and the rest is a train wreck. You will feel attached to him, expect him to feel the same about you and you will want him to demonstrate some caring. But he won't even recognize a relationship. Result: You will be distressed. It's not the sex that makes friends with benefits a bad bargain for young women; it's the nature of the deal—lack of equal emotional involvement of the partners. At least you'll salvage your self-respect if you stop the flow of benefits to him completely. Maybe then he will begin to pay you more attention, maybe not. But you will have learned something important: It's best for your own soul to reserve sexual intimacy for relationships where there are clear signs of affection both ways. Otherwise, you're just going to keep going down the same one-way street named disappointment.
I have really strong feelings for one of my best friends, and she is getting serious with another guy, how can I get over her without cutting her off?
Well, you already know what is like to be with someone that you really want to be with but unable to be together, so if you want extend that suffering then stay by her side. As much as you like her, you are important too and if you are looking after her well being by not cutting the friendship….you should consider looking after yourself as well. I personally would share my feelings if I were you and then tell her that this is the reason why you are making some space…