Do you think that saying "I love you" too often to your significant other makes the meaning of the words fade away?
Let me tell you a story.3 years ago, there used to be this girl, with whom I was madly in love. But now, things aren't the same way. We broke up. Drifted away, in this literally little world. But there used to be a time, when,Words used to fail, what I felt.Words used to be just the nails used to set up the plank of the love. The plank was love. It was a feeling.During those times, I still remember, there were days when we used to fight, like two supernatural forces. With such rigour and stubbornness in the hearts and words, it used to hurt one another in the measures of exponential levels. Yet, when the tempest rested, there used to be this nectar of love in the words, and there was this one night, which I remember vividly even now, after 3 years,The words were, exactly, non exaggeratingly, the below, with me swearing on any gospel, (for your sake),Me: I love you.The Girl: I love you.Me: I love you.The girl: I love you.Me: I love you.The girl: I love you.And so on, it went like ten minutes, and during those ten minutes, there was no utterance of any word ever. Only 3 words. Which have the power of a universe congested in simple 8 letters. Or was it meant to indicate us naive humans that love is infinity. ( The sleeping Eight).Before diverging anymore, let me get back to you,I love you.Has the Power.Grace.Simplicity.Excitement.Anguish.Sadness.Belief.Grief.Euphoria.Every single damn thing!All these words can be put into those 8 letters and even then, what we feel can't be put in words in the least.So when you ask me, if saying I love you everyday to your significant other will fade away the value? No.Even if you are parroting like an infant who doesn't mean the things, it wouldn't do you any harm.But if you just, mean it enough, it is enough.No gift ever can. No surprise ever, can sweep her feet like the words which made their way out of your heart.So, make it count, every single word of the phrase, before you lose the other half of your heart. If once, she/he drifts away, you can't even if you want.
I'm so shy, but i love her so much..?
Just tell yourself your not nervous, your excited. Don't think about it and just do it. She's waiting for you and just talking to other boys. It's not like they kissed or has a boyfriend. Go out there and talk to her. She wants you and will love you too. You can win her.
I think I love my girlfriend too much?
Me and my girl have been going out for almost 3 years and she means the world to me. Over the last year though we have gone through a lot... i went away to university and since shes a year younger than me she stayed at home to finish her last year of high school. while i was away we got in a lot of fights but it was mostly because we missed each other so much and we were mad that we were apart from each other. i also got pissed when she went out which i know is wrong but i cant stand the thought of other guys hitting on her or even talking to her or risking anything coming between us. anyways i finally got back from university and things got really crazy... i know i have a jealousy problem and when she went out one night with one of her guy friends we got in a huge fight and the cops ended up issuing a restraining order. we still see each other because neither of us agrees with the court order but now whenever we have sex and we finish she gets really distant and turns her back after and doesnt like when i touch her or come near her. i know that she still loves me and she tells me that every day and that she never wants to break up and i feel the same way. but when we are forced to be apart from each other (which we are sometimes due to the restraining order... her parents would not allow us to see each other) i cant even function. i love her so much that it is destructive to our relationship. what do i do?
I think I love my dog too much?
My family has a lot of pets, so this is going to sound awful and like I'm favoring her, but one of our dogs in particular has been my baby since the day we brought her home when I was 12. I'm 20 now so as you can see we've had her for a while. She's a German Shepherd that because of me, is spoiled rotten. Sometimes I feel like something is wrong with me because I literally love this dog so much. I love her like a child, I would do anything for her. I jokingly tell people that she's like my four legged fur-daughter. If my house was on fire and she was still inside I would risk my life to go back in and save her. Maybe that sounds stupid, but she's always been there to cheer me up when I'm sad and she's the only thing that is guaranteed to make me smile no matter what. She acts all protective of me when people come over and she's fiercely loyal, she follows me around the house/stays with me. She even tries to come with me when I get in my car to go somewhere. I've had some people tell me it's perfectly normal and others tell me it's odd that I love a dog so much so that's why I'm just curious. Honestly when I think about the fact that she's getting older and everything I get so upset that it hurts and I have to force myself to stop thinking about it. :/
I got dumped because I loved her too much?
My girlfriend has just recently dumped me because I loved her too much. She wants me so much to move on, but I just can't get over her. She thinks that I'm doing fine because I told her that; but when I poured out how much I loved her things went bad... Is there something I'm doing wrong? What should I do?
Am i too much in love with my girlfriend?
I am head over heels for my girlfriend. it feels like there is a heavy weight in my chest when she is gone. i just want to hold her all the time and be with her. We've been together over a year and a half. we have had ups and downs but i dont ever see myself with anyone else. i dont even SEE anyone else. i feel like i'm probably just like crazy and need to relax a little bit, but i get upset because i feel like she doesnt love me the same. For example, when I get my one night off from work during the week, all i want to do is hang out with her...but she (knowing this is my only night off) made other plans, i guess right now i'm just really upset about it...but is there such a thing as loving and caring about someone too much. or am i just not recieving what i'm putting into the relationship?
My girlfriend said I love my car too much and it's either her, or my Chevelle. Which should I ditch?
Get a blow up girl for the passenger seat. No back talk, and the fresh vinyl will give it that new car smell.
Can too much love with your girlfriend be bad for you?
In my opinion it depends on how your girlfriend takes it. You see there are different types of people who can give different response for same thing. If you like the response you can continue. I have learnt from life that, investments should be made only there from where you get some profit. It does not apply only to money, but to most of the things that you can invest and yes love is one of those. Love her to your fullest but do not forget to check how she responds back as I said every person is different. Sometimes if you love someone, they respond very gratefully by loving you back, by understanding and supporting you during crisis, by respecting you and obeying you etc, and you should do the same. But some people takes love for granted, when they are loved they reply with arrogance, disrespect or just by getting what they wanted in life like expensive gifts etc. Some people are really emotional and loving and they stay with even those who do not treat them well, but some people are really ungrateful as they always take the advantage of someone's love and many a times betray them during tough times. I know that love cannot be controlled but still before starting a relationship with someone, please have a background check to see if the person is worth your love or not. Try to analyze if the person is worth of your love and invest your love accordingly. If you find too much losses in your investments then better not to make investments at such places.