I am thinking of committing suicide. What should I do?
Are you asking for help to commit suicide or help to not commit suicide?First of all, if you are already decided to commit suicide, nothing you do from now to then matters. I’d take it as an opportunity to call a suicide prevention hotline just to see what it is like. I mean if you don’t like what they say it won’t matter but if you do like what they say then the world doesn’t lose you.As for you committing suicide you should consider quite a few things.What happens to the people that love you when you commit suicide? I’ve witnessed the devastation first hand. I would never cause that much pain to anyone else because I gave up.Where do your current problems go? Frequently, once again, your problems are just shifted to those close to you and potentially ruins their lives.Everyone has potential. What are you stealing from the world that you could have provided? You likely could make a significant impact in either one person’s life or many people’s lives. You are stealing that from them by making yourself cease to exist.It’s impossible to know, from your question, what your reasons are. If I were you I’d seriously contact a suicide hotline or take a trip to the hospital and tell them what you are thinking. I can guarantee that things aren’t as bad as your brain is making them seem and you just need someone help you to see that. Again, if you’ve decided to kill yourself then what does it hurt to talk to someone? Maybe you’ll learn something valuable in the process.
I might be subconsciously suicidal. Do you think I am?
no you r ok it may be a subject u r interested in but not interested in doing we all r curious your own words are "not enough to want to commit suicide" if u really were thinking on doing it you would NOT be telling anyone or even posting this. i think that you should get in to counseling to find out what is bothering you about your life now. there r "free" counselors out there look up social services in your town. Good luck!!!!!!!
I think my boss is suicidal, can I pull him aside and tell him I'm there for him?
First of all let me say that it’s great that you are keeping an eye out for signs that someone might be suicidal. It is extremely important that we all educate ourselves on this.Now to your question: it sounds like you are not certain. How about asking him? People often say things like “I’m here if you need anything” but that’s both very broad and very vague. Someone in distress might not guess that you mean “I’m here specifically if you need to talk about your suicidal thoughts” or they might not want to burden you with their problems, thinking you can’t do anything or that you wouldn’t understand. So spell it out: Point to the reasons you think they might be suicidal, express your concern, ask if that’s what’s going on. Say “You keep saying you can’t go on and I might be wrong but am worried you might be thinking of killing yourself. Is there something you would like to talk about?”If that seems like a lot, consider leaving an anonymous note on their desk with your concerns and the number for a suicide prevention line, just in case.Whatever you do, don’t say “I’m here for you” if you don’t mean it. It takes a lot to reach out when you are so distressed, it would not be fair to your boss if they wasted that effort only to be disappointed. If you don’t think you can have a frank conversation about suicide, pointing them to someone who can is fairer to you both. Be kind to them, encourage them to talk in general, refrain from shallow comments about “looking at the positive side of things”, acknowledge what they say and what you have noticed in their recent behaviour, ask how they have been eating/sleeping/how their health has been, if there is someone they can talk to, if there is something you can do. Read this for more.
I think i might have OCD and i have suicidal thoughts?
I compulsively am washing my hands and have a fear of germs. I don't mind kissing, and sharing drinks, but i do mind holding hands, hand shakes, touching doors, my friends not washing their hands, rubbing of the eyes, and using public phones and things like that. I don't get along with my family...at all. I get good grades, i never swear, i say no to drugs and beer, but they still don't treat me like they do to my sister (17, swears all of the time, gets credit card when shops, biggest room, expensive cloths, failed math etc.) and my brother (20, still lives at home, never leaves, goes to community college, sickish job, talks back etc.). I have plans to become an apple technician and i am studying to become one now and im only 13. My dad told me he doesn't think i can do it and i wont pass the test. this made me feel even more worthless, and when i am in a better mood it makes me feel like pushing myself harder to prove him wrong. Today we were having a garage sale and they put out my nintendo and my favorite hula hoop (even though they see me playing with them constantly). some lady tried to buy the hula hoop and i said "oh im so sorry! but thats not for sale! im not sure why thats out here!" she responded by saying "then why is it out here" and im like i don't know? but my sister and dad came and said "it is for sale maddie be quiet." i loved that hula hoop. and i hate to know that some one isn't going to take care of it like me and that my father is selling my happiness. coming inside crying i hoped that my miter would comfort me but she looked right at me and was on the phone with my aunt. she said (while looking at me) "maddie has a new attitude, now i have to put up with her until she is 18. god help me." how do you think i am going to act if they treat me like ****!? and i have jaw problems but we "cant afford it" were moving into a 500,000 new house and getting new flat screens but we cant afford a mouth guard. im disgusted. i soppose i need some one to talk to. i like to think about how i would commit suicide and the note that i would write to my parents and their reactions. i don't think i can ever put myself to actually do it, but it seems like an easy way out. i cant wait until i am 18 to move out and it truly is the only thing that gets me through the day. please i need some one to talk to my friends don't understand. thanks.
Planning my suicide?
i feel so bad i wonna just end my life. i attempted suicide about a year ago, i was 13, it failed, was in hospital for like 1 + 1/2 day. i dont even know why i am posting this but everything sucks. its the one year mark on the 13th and i wonna just die. i keep cryin. im planning to swollow a bunch if pills. what if i had never let myself stand on that ledge would i be like this. my parents were so angry and hate me everyone hates me. WHAT SHOULD I DO i am cryin right now
Am I suicidal or what do I exactly have?
well, it sounds to me you urgently need the professional help of a psychiatrist -in real life- in your area - someone skilled in treating people of your age, with no further delay.... both your parents and some other responsible adult there: Family Doctor.... social worker...someone... have to immediately be fully aware of what you're going through.... ask for and timely get the help you need... I want you to understand you're at the utmost age of growing and flourishing in every way-on one hand- and a very difficult age, too, on the other hand.... an age of various changes, of definition of values, customs, attitudes, identity.... an age affected by a marked loneliness and by soul problems.... I want you to understand you're one of a kind: NEVER EVER was there ANYONE just like you -nor EVER AGAIN could there be such ... which is why your life and your quality of life ( rather that ideal one I think you're entitled to than the actual one ) are holy enough shrines to thoroughly be protected, whatever it takes..... please, refrain, repeat, REFRAIN from ANY form of even trying to self- harm or take your life - whatsoever.... heed the fact that such a ''try''-even a ''failed '' one -can leave you both physically and further mentally disabled for good... I'm sure you deserve much better than this.... stick to life...timely get the help you need.... inasmuch as you feel like hurting yourself GET NOW to the Emergency Room ...yeah.... and may life come your way.... may it smile to you in return.... may you find the power to overcome your life's hardships... and the power to make all your dreams come true... the best possible, dignified way here- in this world.... may you stay forever - blessed and kept safe and proof from all harm....