Is it normal to want to live alone forever?
I basically have never had a gf and never kissed a girl I don't have any close friends really I do have family but all I want to do with my life is concentrate on work and retire and then basically die on my own I know this may sound depressing but I dont mean it as sob story i just wanted to get peoples opinion of is this a really bad thing to do or not? I'm 18 by the way, I Mean I do like it when you see people in love and with family but I just think to myself that as long as there is other people who are happy then I am happy
Why do I want to live alone forever?
So I'm 21 I live in New York in my own apartment I work as a medical assistant. (Still in school to become an rn) I love living alone and on my own! I love cooking for myself and watching movies . Me and my friends always dance every Saturday night. Its amazing my life. But I know I'll eventually need a partner. But I don't want a man honestly. Nomatter how incrediblly cute the Guy who asks for my number I always say I'm taken which is not true. I just don't want relationship cause its too much drama and stress and I love being on my own for now. When do you believe is a good time to find somebody and settle down? I'm thinking 35 or older if possible.
Is it safe for a man to live alone forever?
Is it Possible? - YesIs it Safe? - If you are living in a place, which is calamity or terrorism stricken then your chances to live are dwindled, but if you are in a peaceful countries I know still there are few of them, then you got a good chance to survive.Is it Right? Again it is not about being right or wrong, it is decision and what makes it right or wrong how you lead you life based on this decision.Will you suffer?: Emotionally, yes there will be one day when you’ll see others families provided that you have not a forest inhabitant, that day you’ll feel bad, but then again you can weigh the pros and cons of having family and friends.Will you Die ALONE?: YES, Human life is ephemeral that what makes it so precious, death is inevitable and everyone meets it alone.Thanks,Shri
I want to be alone.. forever?
It's a a taboo. People don't want to be "forever alone." But why do I? I picture myself traveling the world, sightseeing, and living alone. If I spend too much time with friends I start feeling.. trapped, so I distance myself. I find that when I am alone, either walking around in a store etc, I am more aware of life. I do eventually want a child, but I would want to be a single parent.. I don't mind. Actually, I'd prefer it. Why do I feel this way? It's not that guys don't like me, because they do. Actually, quite a few guys have tried starting something with me, but no matter how good looking or perfect, I find myself pinpointing things I dislike and eventually end up ignoring them and making them hate me. It's not only relationships.. it's the same thing with family. I don't feel love. I don't believe in it. I feel like I never want to get married.. or date or hang out with friends. It's not that I dislike people, because I don't. I like having people around, it's just people who try to get close to me that bothers me. Sometimes I feel like they know too much about me and end up pushing them away.. Why am I like this? and if I did end up being alone forever, would it be strange?
I m not functional in society, i want to live alone forever?
I hate being around people they make me uncomfortable. They always try to talk to me when i m clearly being silent and don t want to be bothered. Then they ask "Why don t you talk?" That s the question that makes me want to beat the **** out of them. Then there s teachers always wanting students to present and i m fvcking horrified of presentations, but they always say " i used to be shy to" when they don y know what it truely feels like. I m depressed in public and prefer to be home all the time. I m a middle child. Parents want me to get a job. I told my kom about my anxiety, but then when i fail to do a presentation in class she yells at me when she refuses to get me checked out for some type of anxiety disorder. Then she yells at me because i don t want tl talk in public and call me crazy because i m different from other people. This may sound cruel, but when she says that i just think of twisting her head and hearing her neck snap. I m have weak emotions so when i m supposed to be sad i don t do so, because why fake who you are. I m not sure, but i think i may have either sociopathy, middle child syndrome, schizoid personality disorder, social anxiety, or avoidant personality disorder. I don t want to live in society anymore. IT S EATING ME ALIVE AND I WOULD RATHER LIVE IN A MENTAL INSTUTUTION!! HELLPPP ME : (
Is living alone forever a foolish thing in life?
This is Rembrandt’s “Philosopher in Meditation”I believe that solitude is the way of the wise, who are in a continuous state of contemplation, deep thinking and meditation. This is why hermits (or, in today’s terms: loners), who are alone most of the time, are considered as wise people both in folklore and popular culture (take Yoda in the Star Wars original trilogy as an example).I cannot see why living alone can be considered a foolish deed. In my solitude I wrote not one but 6 books of my personal philosophy, along with 2 novellas. If I weren’t alone most of the time, I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to write so much, and being so productive in general. If I had the option to live alone forever, I wouldn’t hesitate to do so as long as my safety is certain.I also read so much while alone, and in general am an auto-didact. Being in solitude has made me a wiser, happier and more satisfied person. I use extensive solitude, for example, as a time to concentrate on preparing for tests in university. I remember when I read my study books for an entire day in my room, going out of it only for getting food and water.Does writing books, being productive, learning on one’s own and preparing for tests can be considered as foolish acts? Remember: Solitude is like an empty paper: it is you who decides what’s going to be in it.At the same time I could’ve wasted my young life at social hangouts, partying, nightclubs, and other hedonistic pursuits. I don’t think I could’ve lived with myself if I reckoned I waste so much time of my life in unproductive, fruitless social hedonism. I think it is foolish to sacrifice one’s inner potentials just for the sake of joy and nothing beyond, as expressed in an active social life, which I didn’t had for years and not going to let myself have.
Is living alone forever bad? I'm young and I don't want a family or a relationship. I just want to live, work, and have peace with friends.
Living alone in my opinion is not a bad thing at all.Its like you can do what ever you want.You are bounded with your own boundaries and rules.You do what ever you want.These are the merits here.But at times it becomes difficult to live alone the entire life so for such a case one has to be around some people I want to say that if you do not want to be social at all then atleast try to be around some people or few that can understand you that can understand what you need what u feel and what you want.But then you have to give them that importance too.Its like give respect and get respect formula.And you know what the above mention people can be you best friends or family .And about relationship and all I donnt think thay a person wont be able to live a happy life if not in a relationship.Trust me you feel open feel free if not in a relationship.Thumbs up for the way u are passionate about work friends and all.
Is it okay if I want to stay lonely forever?
Hi. i would say that it's perfectly fine if you would like to be alone. I don't think there is anything wrong with that at all especially if you feel that's what would make you most happy. There is tons of people living just like that and they're fully functioning You're still young and remeber you never know what may happen a few years (or even months) down the line.
I want to be single forever,is it normal?
i don't want to get in any type of relationship ,i mean what's the point of it if you gonna die one day. i just want to avoid "love",i have suffered alot (seen lots of deaths of my dear one's).i want to live alone all my life and don't want to make any connection with any person . my parents are so upset about it ( they want me to get married especially my father ) but i will stick with my decisions what's wrong with being "single forever",no tension,no commitment ,no kids,no wife etc everything will be perfect and i will die earlier too (married men live longer than single men) am i normal?
What does it feel like to be forever alone?
Sometimes I remember just how lonely I am, how deprived of physical or emotional intimacy I am, and it just leaves me with a cold, numb, empty feeling that radiates from my core to my extremities. Sometimes I think back on a time, any time, that agirl smiled at me, or laughed at a joke, or any basic, every day, little social cue that she's potentially a little interested, and I'm overcome with frustration bordering on rage because I couldn't bring myself to do anything about it. When that happens I might just sort of growl/moan to myself if I'm somewhere with other people around, but if I'm alone (especially in the car)I'll scream at the top of my lungs, either a stream of profanities or just a wordless bellow.When I see or hear any sort of reference to sexuality or romance I just want to bash my face in against the corner of a wall somewhere. Kissing scenes in movies, couples doing couple-y things in public (seeing teenage couples is hands down the worst,nothing like knowing you've got less game than a sixteen year old), even just seeing a picture of a hot woman can make me feel like shit sometimes. I feel like at this point I can't even show an interest in women, any women, like I'm incapable of it, or not allowed to. It's like I've been in this fucked up situation so long that my brain has rationalized it, and I've concluded that I'm supposed to be alone, that I deserve it for whatever fucking reason.Back in college sometimes when I rode the bus and it was crowded, I'd get a girl sitting next to me. Just feeling our thighs touching lightly, or our shoulders, and it would be the highlight of my day often. sometimes I'd even stay on past my stop just to keep that brief, fleeting moment of human touch going, however meaning less and unintentional it all was. The worst part about that was when I'd get a boner, and I'd feel like some kind of horrible, perverted creep, which would play back into that whole "I deserve to be alone like this) kind of mindset.Basically, it seriously fucks with your head, and puts you in a mental state where it's almost impossible to do anything to fix how lonely you are.Checkout what this person wrote this about being Forever-Alone. It hit me pretty hard. This was one of the best things I've read in a long time.