Im sick of my best friend calling me a nerd, help!?
Okay, I am fifteen years old, and there are two things i love, that I am really passionate about: fashion and history. So to most people you would have no idea that i love history, but whenever i tell my best friend Im going to the reference library or something like that shell say things like "have fun" and start laughing or call me weird and stuff. and Im like i am REALLY sorry i do not care about skipping class, failing classes and smoking weed and drinking during school, but I have INTERESTS. so sue me. what should I do? im sick of being made fun of for something im interested in!
Feeling really sick at my friends house at 4am? please please please help?
Hey guys, so currently I'm sitting in the bathroom at 4am at my friends house. Because I feel sick to my stomach and I'm shaking and if I lie down I feel even worse. And calling home is not an option.
Spun around too much now I feel really sick help!?
So I'm 14 and me and my friend went to the park and she told me to sit on the tire swing and she spun me around way too much. But I couldn't exactly stop it sooner when she finally stopped I was sweating and I didn't know why. Even after that I was still sweating an I felt really how and sick and it was awful but we were on my way home. So I walked in and my mom said I looked really pale and sick. I'm drinking water and I'm. Starting to feel better but what else should I do! I get dizzy extremely easily and I want this horrible feeling to be over it feels like I have a fever and I don't want to get sick ?
I think that my friend is sick of me!?
give her space let her call you for a while. absense makes the heart grow fonder (Works with friends too)
Im so sick of all my friends....?
Sometime you need to let go & enjoy yourself. Not everyone has ulterior motives when they ask you out other than to find out how you are doing. Until & unless you go out & meet these friends of yours, you'll find that your circle of friends becomes smaller & smaller. By meeting your friends perhaps you can also get to meet their friends. Eventually you'll find your own circle of friends that you can click with,,,,,
What are some kind words to say to a friend with a sick parent?
Personally, I would perform the surgery than put a band aid to the cancer. Meaning that I would offer advice to my friend, rather than being nice. Since being nice does not solve the problem nor does it prepare your friend for an unexpected crisis.If I was nice I would say:"Don't worry, we are all here for you. You won't go through it alone. I'm here for you, your friend is here for you, and even this person is here for you. You see, we all care about you, we want to see you get through this.”If I was offering advice, I would say:I do not know what to say, nor do I know what to do, but I know neither of us wants pain. I know you are in pain, but I have not been in your situation, so how can I fully empathize? It is not that I do feel pain, quite the contrary, I feel it just like everyone does. We all have wailed, wept, sulked. The pain you feel is from a different source, I can only subside your pain, not eliminate it. You are to be alone in this journey.
What can I say to support a friend having a sick mother and he feels guilty for not doing enough for her in the past?
Most people have forgotten that nothing is permanent in this world. Everything will change even our emtions and how we view the life we had. If your friend did not do enougn for his mother in the past, and he is doing what his mother needs in the present, there is nothing to be quilty about. His mind must have been fosused into some personal issues in the past, which is normal, that he forgot to do enough for his mother. Your friend is like any other human being whose limitation cannot be thought of as something to be guilty of.His mother had done her obligations for her children, and for your friend to be guilty is not right. Do what is necessary now that his mother is sick. And you, as a friend, knows what support you can give to your friend who is now in support of his sick mother. I view it as something very right for the situation. Good people often feel guilty if they think they had not done something for people they love. Because if they are not good , they will not feel that guilt for lesser mistake. So, just move on. Life has so many to offer, and later, things you had given so much fussing before may also take a new perspective, which means you are learning…
Why would you think if your best friend never asks “how are you feeling?” after you’ve been ill? He is supportive in all the other ways, but never after I am sick. What gives?
I was ill once. I’m not exaggerating or being non-literal. One time I was ill and in the hospital for three whole weeks. I never get sick so this was really weird. Everyone thought I was going to die or even that I had died. I lost my company and all my jobs because of it. But when I got out of the hospital I was so refreshed from all that rest that I couldn’t wait to get back to my life. Only to find that all these well-meaning people had replaced me because they thought I was dead or too sick to ever work again. (I was 32!) when I’d see people I worked with before (I didn’t really have friends, it turned out, only employees) they’d peer intently into my eyes, rub my back, and say in a soft voice “how ARE you…?” I wanted to smack them and say “I’d be a lot better if you weren’t touching me,” but instead I just got really really good at sensing when someone was about to touch me, and I’d execute Gumby-like moves to avoid it.If people hadnt been such creepy weirdos I probably could have gotten back to my life a lot sooner.Count your blessings you have friends at all, and that they aren’t weird touchers.If you need a bottle and baby blanket right now, get it yourself. Tell your friend you need time, or space, or some ice cream, or whatever, and invite them to join you or not. Whatever works for you.You can’t expect your friend to read your mind and do what you want. Communicate!
Help me - I get sick everytime I go to sleep over at my friend's house?
Well, I think I kinda know why I get sick. A couple of months ago I had this episode where I was sick with the stomach flu, and the day before I got the flu I slept over at a friend's house and there was lots of candy and stuff. So I'm sleeping over and suddenly in the middle of the night I get really sick and all night I never call my mom or dad because I'm too tired after throwing up. It also doesn't help that her parent's smoked and the whole place reeked of it. And eventually I got over the flu, but now everytime I go over to a friend's house to spend the night, I start to feel really sick and so I have to make up some excuse and go home. And my friend is having a birthday, sleeping over party tomorrow!! what should I do?