My friend is mad at me and I think our friendship is over since she's started doing heroin.?
I've known her over 14 years, we're 29 now. She started doing heroin earlier this year and she called me while she was on it. I was pretty upset with her and since she is married and has a child, I thought she was being pretty selfish. She ended up doing it over a few months in secret and finally went to rehab. I visited her in rehab and helped support her. She got out and we all thoguht everything was fine. Until she called me from a motel room needing a ride because one guy she had sex with and another that didn't show up with the dope had bailed on her. She met them in rehab. She's been on prescription pills and generally acts like a selfish teenager and I get mad at her selfish actions and she gets mad because I am judging her. She is very hurt that I have judged her for this last incident with heroin and thinks I make her feel less of a person. I think she needs to grow up and realize she has a child she needs to focus on and to make something of herself. She hasn't worked in years and still needs to finish her ged. I've tried supporting her for years to motivate her, but nothing works. Does she have a point? Is it wrong I am upset that she acts like this? How should a real friend act since she doesn't think I'm a real friend?
I think my friend is mad at me?
Ok this is a sensitive friend that i normally don't like talk to or like that much. She invited me some where and i said no, and im like do you have anyone else to go with and shes like no;( so o feel really bad and she isnt asnwering my texts ( i think her phones dead anyone lol) but is she mad at me ? and if so wat should i do???? plz help
My Friend is Mad at Me!?
First off, the whole situation is very very childish. If someone was your friend, and good friend at that, then they wouldn't lose a friend over something this ridiculous. What I think you should do is this. If you want to keep him as a friend, then you should def. talk to him. I mean even if he won't talk to you, facebook message, text him, leave a voicemail, just to explain your situation and say that you are sorry for the mix up. Then let things slide...if that doesn't work then maybe after about a week you should talk to his parents since they think less of you because the situation and explain yourself. Then at that point, you move on, whether you're still friends with him or not, because like I said it wasn't a real worthwhile friendship.
Sit them down. Ask them if they will be honest with you because you have some concerns about your relationship. Assure them (and follow up with that promise!) that they can discuss anything with you and that you are open to just listen to whatever they have to say. (You want to make it safe for them to open up to you) . Then ask them if what you’re sensing is correct. “Are you mad at me?” And if so, why… and then LISTEN. Don’t get defensive if you don’t like the answer. Take it in. Empathize with them about their experience. And if you need more information tell them, I’m listening … Tell me more … until you understand it from their viewpoint. If this is something that you need to take a look at in yourself, then make the necessary adjustments. If this is something that is entirely made up on their end … again, appreciate that is their experience about it … but, ask them if you can respond and then share your experience about it in a non-defensive way. They key is that you both want to be understood.
I think my best friend is mad at me!?Help me i dont know what to say to her?
Okay it all started out the night she stayed at my house& my boyfriend broke up with me the other day.So i started talking to my friend,and i kinda liked him.Plus he told me he liked me,and i was happy again.i asked my friend if i should go out with him and she gave me a weird look and completely blew the question off .So i text ed her and asked her if it was okay if i dated him. She kept saying she didn't care.i made her swear to god!So i said yeah to him ,then i told her and now she wont text me or answer my calls!I have no clue what to do,i feel bad ,but why should i?And i didn't know if she liked him or not she said she didn't like any guys at the time?Please help me!
Why is my friend mad at me?
my friend has been really rude and she has been avoiding me. Like today at lunch she wanted to sit next to my friend Sally (not her real name) but my other friend Molly (not her real name) was already sitting next to her. She was just standing there and i looked at her and she clearly whispered to me friend Sally "but i don't want to sit next to Allie". Also she is like obesessd with sally. When she texts me she always asks me if i am with her. She also never invites me to anything she will only invite Sally and everyone else. she also texts me these really weird things like "e. pp" when i asked her what that was she didnt answer... WHAT SHOULD I DO??? HELP!!!
How can i get one of my friends to stop being mad at me?
so my bestfriend & i got in a fight a few days ago, on Wednesday the 3rd. and he was all in a "good mood" like he was acting really mean but he thought he was funny. & we were bagging on each other in class and i was kidding, and i took it he was too, but i don't think he knew i was kidding. so after class i normally walk him to the lunch area and i start walking to my next class. and we did that on Wednesday but he kept acting all jerk-y. He kept calling me a b*tch. but in the joking way and the last thing he said was "Love you b*tch!" and i called him a b*tch back [but i was joking] and then the next day he came to my seat in 4th period & told me he was mad at me because of how i was acting yesterday. & i said "well i'm sorry if i'm on my period & i'm acting a little b*tchy. But you were acting like a d*ck too" then he just walked away. and on Thursday i saw him after school & he just looked at me while i said hi. and he started walking away and i said "Ryan [not his real name haha] i'm trying to be nice to you" but he just said "it's too late for that now" & i was like "why?" and he said "because you're a b*tch" and i was really shocked. because everything i did & said, i didn't mean. i was joking. & he should've known it. Then on Friday we had a sub in 4th period and the sub called my name for roll & "Ryan" said here for me but in the rude way like he was trying to mock me. & i just looked at him giving him a dirty look like WTF was that for? So now i guess we're not talking anymore because of Wednesday. Like i wanna talk to him again, cuzz he's a cool dude, but not if he's gonna act immature and call me bad names or accept my apologies. So idkk what to do. Should i apologize again or leave him alone?
My friend is mad at me? What should I do?
Just tell her it wasn't about her and that your sorry for the misunderstanding, but you didn't write it about her. I'd have pointless arguements with someone I'm not friends with now, but I mean whatever happens, you'll figure out who good friends are in their actions. I hope the best for you guys and hope you and your friend get more mature in handling situations. The best way is to talk it out, not just ignore each other, because it will never get resolved if it can that is. And it takes both sides to do so, but if only one handles it right you mightt be better off not friends. But good luck to you two!
Possible steps to take depend on:whether she expressed it directly to you or you heard about it through your friend,whether you have some kind of acquaintance with her or she just knows you in passing, andwhether there is a need to redress a wrong because of something you did or because of an incorrect assumption she made.If you can give that information, specific help in your circumstances could be offered.Sometimes anger has to pass and it's mostly about the person feeling angry, in which case you would continue being respectful and trustworthy until she changes or speaks with you directly.If you made an error through a bad choice or unskillful action, you might consider how to admit it honestly, explain how you will do better, and ask for forgiveness. You can do that by writing a letter — hard copy, totally old school, but very effective.Keep breathing and living as an imperfect human, with a new chance always available to make a different choice!