I think my sister's boyfriend beats her. Do I say something or not?
No easy answers here obviously. I think staying in close contact with her and letting her know that you love her and are there for her, is really important. Abusers tend to isolate the victim and make them believe no one else loves them or cares for them. If it were me, I would try to find some way to bring up that I am worried about her and concerned about her in a non-threatening way. Let her know she can always talk to you. Do anything you can to build her self esteem and to let her know what a wonderful, truly unique person she is. Abusers make even the smartest, most beautiful women feel dumb and stupid. They feel like they can't do any better or no one else would want them. I would also bring up concerns about her child. A woman may not stand up for herself but most women would never do anything purposefully to hurt a child. How long before he looses his temper and hurts your niece? Not to mention her witnessing the abuse. I would rather my sister be mad at me for caring and trying to help then try to explain to my niece why her mother is in the hospital or dead.
My boyfriend beat up his mom. What should I do?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. I love him! There is a tiny age difference, I'm 24 he's 36. We have had our ups and downs but we work them out. And we go out and have a lot of fun together. I know my boyfriend has a temper, he says he's working on it. Well yesterday something happened that upset me. I was at his house (he lives with his mom) and he and his mom were fighting. They were fighting over the phone bill or something stupid. She got in his face and then he pushed her. Then she pushed him back and then he tackled her somehow (it was really fast I don't remember) and started punching her the face. I yelled stop and then I managed to pull him off of her and I asked if she was ok she said she was and then we left. In the car I asked him why that happened and he brushed it off and said it happens all the time because she's a *****. I feel really bad for his mom that this happened. I love him so much I just don't want him to hit me. It's been three months and the most he's ever done was throw my juicer through a wall. I just need to know, can I make this work or are we doomed? Please help!
My boyfriend beat up my mom? help?
I told my mom i was pregnant than she called me a fast girl and smeared my makeup off, pulled down my belly shirt then asked me who my bf was i would'ent tell her so i told her to get out of my face then she pushed me, she did not thow me down but i fill to my knees. Then she went in my room and took all my nice stuff out and said i was never going out again. I was in the living room crying on my knees the hole night.. so she went to work the next day. My friend came over i told my boyfriend not to come over but he did anyway after i told him what happened. I lied a little bit and said my mom punched me in my belly but he was mad eather way. I fall asleep and lost track of time to make sure he left but it was to late my door was shout then my mom came in my room and saw my bf sitting on my bed and was yelling at him telling him to get out but he would not and kept saying "the hell i'm not *****" then she came close and kept yelling then he pushed her head down in the bed he kept hitting her at first i was laughing than i started screaming when he would'ent stop he even pulled her hair. Finnaly i threatened to leave him and kill his baby so i walked him out and he left..help? btw i'm so shocked this happen,I saw my bf get mad beat up bad people but he would never hurt me or any woman my mom is in rage now her ex wants to beat my bf up..btw we our both 20 i'm 20 he is 19
Beat up my moms boyfriend?
I'm a 17 year old boy and my mom is 3 months pregnant my mom has been acting strange lately and i came from school to find my moms boyfriend hitting her across the face I'm bigger and stronger than him so I beat his a** and now he's gone my mom is a wreck what should I do to help her.
My mom's boyfriend hits me and threatens me? What should i do?
I don't like my mom's boyfriend. One day were nice the the next were fighting. I TRY to be nice with him and be friends but he gets on my nerves and controls me like a f*cking soilder. Today we had a fight again. Then he punched my head hard while we were in the car driving home after i just had a WONDEFUL day at the mall with a friend. Then at home he grabbed my arms and pushed me against the wall and sreamed at me. Is this illegal? My mom and her boyfriend have been togeter for 5 years but keep breaking up and making up. He cheats on my mom alot and lies but my mom is always so stupid and forgive him for everything. When i was little, he choked me cause i didnt want to take a shower at the time he asked me. I told my mom but she just said he was trying to scare me, he wasn't choking me. BUT HE WAS. What's called, hands around a person's neck squeezing it? Yeah, its called choking. My mom NEVER listens to me if its about her boyfriend. She's always on her side. Idk what to do. I told her boyfriend if he hits me one more time i am calling the cops. Then he took my phone away and said its not illegal. he beats up his son all the time and asked the cops if it was illegal and the cops said it wasnt so now hes gonna beat "the living ****" out of me. Please help? Im so deppressed with him around. Im happier when hes not here screaming at me and telling me what to do all the time. Hes not even a friend. hes more like a stranger to me. We never do anything together.. Hes always too busy in my moms bedroom with her f*cking.
My boyfriends mom beat me up?
My boyfriends mom beat on me and threw me down a flight of stairs, i wasnt seriously injured. the whole started because her nd my man got into it about something else that had nothing to do with me, i was outside the apartment room with only one shoe on, she told me to quote on quote get the **** out, i said to her calmy that i just needed my other shoe along with my purse because it has my inhaler in there, i live in the MA, its December...its snowy and freezing outside, i couldnt leave the apartment *building* with no shoes, and no inhaler, she got mad, and did what she did...my man doesnt seem to be all that concerned, and its concerning me. my thought is, you know your mother more then i do, you know how crazy she can get, why take that chance with your girlfriend? My question is, what would you do, would you consider leaving if you dont feel safe with his family? Keep in mind, he is ALWAYS with his family, what would you do? plz help me out- im only 17 my mans 20nd his momis 50
Should i beat up my sister's boyfriend?
My older sister has been crying nonstop for the last few days because her ex boyfriend my former friend has been harassing her and leaving her threatening messages on her phone threatening to kill her if she leaves him she already decided to break up with but she's too scared to confront him so i told my sister that i will be there with her when she confronts him so i could protect her if things go bad i know im her little brother but im bigger and stronger than her and i don't want her to get hurt am i doing the right thing?
What should I do if my girlfriend’s father is beating her?
Next time you see or talk to her, find out if she wants to get help, or have her father charged. If she only wants help, then call up child protective services or a domestic violence shelter and find out where she can go, or what her options are. The police have resources as well, and can let you know who to contact.If possible, have her stay with you, this wouldn't be the first time another family helped someone who is being abused this way. When her father goes to work, go with her and help her pack her personal belongings, and take them to wherever it is youve decided is best. Even staying with you temporarily will help her think with a clearer head, and make better decisions.If she's over 15, she is old enough to decide where she wants to live. Talk to her, and let her know you want to help her, and see what she says.
How do I get my mom to break up with her boyfriend?
My children got me to break up with a boyfriend by letting me know that the way he treated them when I was present was far more respectful than the way he treated them when I was not in the room.When I wasn’t present it was clear to them that he wanted them gone.Although I hadn’t seen the behavior, after I ended the relationship he attempted to fight back and convince me that they were adults and should be on their own. It became clear that his view of adult child relationships with their parents was nothing like the relationships I wanted with my adult children.I have a lot invested in my relationship with my children. I’ve been thinking about the relationships I want with them when they are adults since before they were born. That was, and remains, far more important than any relationship with a boyfriend.
Girls, I beat up my moms boyfriend?
If this is true, then awesome for you, for sticking up for your mom like that. As for the question, what's done is done. He cheated on your mom, and doesn't deserve nor to be with her, so you shouldn't feel anything for him. She'll be grateful for your act and things will blow over soon.