I throw up every time I deepthroat my boyfriend :( Help!?
Sounds like he probably likes what you're doing if he wants you to keep doing it. If you're having issues, but still want to do it, there are throat sprays that kind of numb your throat that are supposed to help with that issue. Also, that surprisingly is normal and I've heard of that happening before to women, so you shouldn't feel bad. However, if you don't want to do this, you certainly don't have to. If he's trying to force you or make you feel bad if you don't, that's not okay and he has no right to do that.
I throw up every time I have a fight with my BF(girl) or if i even see her after long time... HELP !?
If you have been to the doctor and they have tested you for physical problems and all of those have come back negative, then it sounds like it's an anxiety issue. My daughter suffers from an anxiety disorder and it manifests itself thru nausea and vomiting. She throws up whenever she has an anxiety attack. It sounds like your "friend" initiates anxiety in you for some reason. You should start going to therapy and figure out why your friend causes you so much anxiety so that you can start working towards fixing it. My daughter's therapist was able to help her figure out what causes her the most anxiety, and coping skills to minimize her symptoms. She has gone from throwing up almost every day, to once every few months.
Girls...I threw up on my bf during oral...help?
Okay, I tried oral sex on my boyfriend for the first time a couple of nights ago. But I found that I have a really really weak gag reflex. So, when I would "go in", I would always start gagging and then, it happened. I threw up. He was surprised, and I felt so embarrassed as I helped clean it off. But he wants to try again. God, I'm so embarrassed about this...the gagging, the throwing up...ughh... Can anybody give me any tips? Should I breathe a certain way or something? A friend advised me that, when I feel like gagging, I pull back, let my throat calm down and just kiss and pat the head, but idk. Any tips?
I love a girl who told me that she had feelings, but not anymore. I don't want to give up, I want to get her feelings back. What are some suggestions about that?
Before I answer your question, let me tell you my story.I dated this guy for about six months, but we broke up. I missed him like crazy, and I still miss him so much. I tried talking to him several times, but left me on read. I thought that I could still make him love me again, and didn’t stop trying. I was really dumb now that I think about it. I should’ve known that his feelings turned away long time ago, and I should have really stopped it there. I feel like I ruined our good memories together because of how I acted afterwards. I still like him, but I know that there is a 0% chance that we would ever be together, so I’m not hopeful anymore. I learned to be a little more chill and not care so much about him. I miss him to the point, where if I’m talking to someone I like, it feels so strange because it’s not the person I’m used to. It makes me want to stop everything and just tell my ex that I miss him and love him so much. Many times I had to stop myself from calling him. But I need to let it go. I know that it won’t work out, so I need to let it go. I regret so much of the wrong things I did to him when he was next to me, but there isn’t a point of regretting anymore. I learned my lesson from him, and I just need to stop making more. It just pains me that we won’t ever be the same, and he cannot be the one I can cry to, and say I love you to.Okay so your question, I think that maybe you should stop and leave it the way it is right now. It can ruin the good memories she had of you, and she might even grow tired of you. I know that it’s hard, and you want to seize the chance every time you can, but you gotta let it go. It takes awhile, and it might even take a couple of years. You’ll get better as time goes by, and it’ll slowly start to get dull. Her feelings are gone, and there isn’t anything you can do to make her fall for you again. You need to act naturally and live as the person that she liked before. You cannot force her to like her, but you can make her fall for you again naturally. She did love you at one point, so you just need to know what kind of you that she liked. Don’t text her or call her, no matter how sad you are. Be the same old you and if she falls, she falls for you. If she doesn’t she doesn’t. Find another woman who will love you. I can really relate to your question.
I threw up during oral sex. Help!?
I'm kinda dating this guy named Dallas. We've had sex and stuff too. He has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, but we are pretty much dating without an 'Official title'. I'm 16 & he's 17. We've been together for over 6 or 7 months. Thursday night[we didn't have school friday], We were messing around at my friend's house because they were out of town. [She's 19 and live in an apartment.] After we had sex, I decided to give him head because he hadn't came yet. So about and a hour into it, he keep pushing my head down to make me deep throat him. I did it really good the 1st and 2nd time. But, the 3rd time I stopped, cover my mouth and threw up....all over him! I hardly ever throw up either. I immanently started to cry and told him I was so sorry. He got up, went into the bathroom and asked for his phone. I brought it to him and ran away because I was crying so hard. He called his sister and asked her to bring a change of clothes and to come.. I called my best friend and she picked me up. We didn't drive there because you had to have an sticker for your car. As I waited all I could do was cry, he told me it was okay...but I know it wasn't. When I finally got him I text ed him this long text to apologize and tell him how stupid I was. One hour later, I get a text from him saying that he 'needs time'. So yestersday, I went out of town so we didn't talk. But about 5 minutes ago, He was texting my best friend and told her about it. [They tell eachother about everything with her boyfriend so he told her this.] She told me he said that he wasn't mad at me but he needs a 'break.' What do I do.? I'm so embarrassed by this. I cried myself to sleep both nights. I think I'm falling in love with him too. My bff said that she told him to text me later on. Please help me!
Do you feel badly after throwing food away?
I feel bad if its a large quantity of food that I'm wasting. Like if there is and entire pot of spaghetti in the fridge that I let go bad and now I have to throw it away. I also hate when people get lots of food that they know they are not going to eat, and then throw it away. I used to work at an ice cream shop and this little girl (about 13-14 years old) fought and fussed her parents to allow her to get a triple dip of ice cream on a cone. They gave in and let her, and the girl ended up going to the outside table with her friend, eating some of it, taking her hand and pulling off the top 2 scoops and throwing them away, then she ate the last scoop of ice cream and showed her parents and they really thought she ate the whole cone.... Another time a couple weeks ago my little sister had a friend over and we were having tostadas. Her friend (14 years old) had never tried them so I let her have some of mine and she liked it, so I made her one just like mine. She took ONE bite and let it set because she said I 'put something spicy on it' when it was the exact same as mine!! THEN, she proceeded to ask for a bowl of butter pecan ice cream and I fixed her a tiny bowl (Breyer's, the good stuff) with barely a scoop in it and she left it on the table and let it melt because "it tasted different than the kind her mom gets'.....the whole time she left it on the table I kept yelling her name and telling her to eat it and she said she would, but then she didn't and just let it melt and go to waste when my sister VOLUNTEERED and said she would eat it before it melted and her friend wouldn't let her! Wierd.... but thats the kind of wasting I hate.....DONT ASK FOR IT IF YOU DON'T PLAN TO EAT IT!!
My boyfriend always leaves when we fight, this time should I just let him?
I see that you requested my answer, so fear not, milady, I am here to help!Short note: my advice is what it is, an advice. You can do what you want with the advice, so as long as you know what you want to do.As I view it, this relationship you're having is a lot like my previous relationship. He's possibly stubborn and doesn't seem to regard the arguments as something to be reconciled urgently. He even leaves when he can't take anymore of it. In other words, this thing that you're having with him is what I think of as a toxic relationship.Hear me out here. You two love each other, of course you two do. If you two didn't, there wouldn't be this thing between you two called a relationship. But in all honesty, love does not justify a relationship.He breaks your heart when he leaves you mid-argument, does he know that? What constantly leads to you two having an argument?A healthy relationship is known to have arguments here and there, but what seperates the good relationships from the bad are the types of arguments the two “parties” have.Confront him. I mean it, confront him. Especially if you two haven't argued in awhile. Ask him why he keeps putting you in such a position, whether he still loves you. Have him affirm his position as your boyfriend, as your significant other. You love him, it's clear from the fact that you even ask the public of this. So make sure that if you want to call him your boyfriend, he loves you too.The title of “girlfriend” and “boyfriend” isn't a title you throw around. Love is love. Nothing more and definitely nothing less.So leaving that person you love even in an argument is not acceptable. At. All.
Girls...oral sex question...?
And its not just with oral. Whenever she's eating something and it tastes bad, she starts gagging. She hates ketchup, so just the sight of it makes her start gagging and once, she threw up. But when were doing oral, she was BURPING, GAGGING, and DROOLING a little even before we began but she said that she could do it and she tried to focus and breath through her nose. I tried talking to her while she was doing it, but then, it happened: she threw up. Now, she's all embarrassed and everything. I've tried a lot of others things like shaving my pubes and somebody even suggested to masturbate in front of her to show her how only the tip has to be worked. To help with the taste, I've been told to dip it into whipped cream or chocolate and have her lick it off and maybe do like a little ritual with the dipping. Would that work? (Please don't answer: Don't do oral or don't gag her with your penis. I've addressed both of these issues.)