Is It Wrong For A 13 Year Old To Date A 17 Year Old?
When I was 14, I was really interested in this 18 year old guy. I mean he had the looks (the hair, the eyes, the smile, everything) and a really good personality. My moms rule was no dating anybody over a year older than you and no dating anybody younger than a year younger than you. Well, obviously, I couldn't date this 18 year old guy with my mother knowing, so we started dating behind her back. I thought he was really great at first, he made me smile, and laugh, and...if I say much else my husband will be jealous. Anyways, we really had fun times together. Well, this being my first relationship, I was really really naive and clueless about different things, so my boyfriend at the time kept getting really frustrated with me and dumped me for being to naive about relationships. I am not saying this guy that you are interested will do that, but I think it would be better if you stick with guys closer to your age. Usually they will be more on your level and you will be naive and clueless together. Oh, by the way, your height doesn't have anything to do with it. It is just the age difference. I get where you are coming from though. Trust me it will be better if you stick to your age group.
Anyone broken their childs toy out of anger?
It happens. I've done similar. It's not right, but you can tell your son you realize you weren't right, and then strive to change how you handle things from that point on. True his behavior wasn't right either, but as parents we are supposed to be a model of how we want our children to be. Address his behavior too. It's a work in progress. All parents have weak points that need to be worked on. You're not a bad parent or a bad person. You made a poor decision, but you can change how you react from that point forward :)
Is it wrong to hug my mom and kiss her on her cheek? I’m a 23 year old man. I’ve been hugging and kissing my mom on her cheek and forehead all my life. My dad says it’s vulgar! I tried to hug him, but he pushes me off. Is what I’m doing strange/bad?
Father, your time is over. My mother, she is my queen.Whenever I am home, its time for big means very big hug. She will always pat on my back and whisper “Trim your beard, you are looking like a baba (saint)” and great laugh begins.Who cares, what papa is thinking? Let him be jealous. :PSorry, I don’t have any picture of hug. I love the looks she is giving me.
What would you have done? 17 year old caught having sex?
My daughter (17) and her boyfriend (19) have been dating for over 7 months now. I trusted him into my house and he stayed over night a lot in the guest room. Yesterday at around 4 in the morning i walked to my daughter's room and she wasnt there so i go check in the guest room and there she was naked! I made them dress themself and kicked out her boyfriend to his house 30 miles away at 4 in the morning, they tried to talk to me (since im divorced and her father is away) she told me that it was their first time and that she decided to give her virginity to him because she loves him, i yelled at her and sent her to her room. Then while kicking her boyfriend out he told me he knew that he disrespected my roof myself and my daughter and that an apology wasnt enough but that the only thing he wanted was for me not to forbid them of seeing each other because he is in love with her and its very special. I told him that i cant promise anything. After he left i went to my daughter and whooped her and hit her really hard in the face i made her shower and wash the bed sheets at that hour right before school(she is a 4.00 gpa student) i took her phone and all the privileges she is not going to her prom and she will have a curfew in her dorm at college i told her boyfriend he couldnt get any close to my house or her school. What else should i do? Did i exagerated? Her boyfriend texted me today saying that he was reaaly sorry about the situation. I did not answer and not planning on.
My 17 year-old daughter cried and refused to give her brothers a piece of chocolate because she “bought it with her own money.” Her brothers are 14 and 8. She feels jealous of the 14 year-old so much. Is this normal? She is not the jealous type.
I got my first job when I was 19. With my first paycheck, I went to the grocery store, bought food that I liked (since there was very little that I liked at home and could travel with), labeled with my name, hid the food, and planned on taking it to class and work so I wouldn't be hungry all the time. When I arrived home from class the next day, all the food was gone except for crumbs in the cracker box.My brother had eaten all the food I had earned with my first paycheck, I had nothing to take to work to eat, I was hungry, my entire family harassed me for weeks that I was selfish for not sharing, and no one paid me back for the food they ate. Not only was I extremely angry that they were harassing me, I was angry that they had stolen what was mine and saw nothing wrong with it. It also made a long term, negative mental connection that my efforts at everything were just going to be taken away.In many ways, you did the same to your daughter. I cried after my food was taken. It was a special treat that I had worked hard for, had taken the time to go buy, and had been looking forward to for hours. You just showed your daughter that you don't respect what is hers, you don't respect her, and you treat the younger children better than her.Now, if she was bragging about the chocolate to her brothers and harassing them, then she either needed to leave or share with them but that would have been her choice- not forced by an authority to give up what she had worked hard for.Another way to look at it: If you saved up and bought yourself a new car and were driving it around, there is nothing wrong with that. If you were bragging to other people about it, they wouldn't want to be around you or they would want to enjoy the car too.However, if people saw you driving the car, they told the police they wanted it, and the police forced you to let them use it, you would probably cry too. You just did the same to your daughter, except you were the police and your sons were the other people.
My 4 year old daughter keeps lying to me?
And her aunt all the time. She lies and tells us that it was her brother or cousin or whatever kid was around we caught her numerous times even with the other kids are not even around her. I have tried time outs and spanking and nothing works I've also tried to calmly explain to her why lying is bad. Its really frustrating because now I don't know who did the wrong. And I honestly don't feel its right to lie to my child to show them a lesson.
Should a 30-year-old date an 18-year-old?
No … not even if