My brother does drugs... should I tell my parents?
I was watching TV one day, and right before my brother went to work, he asked me to pee in a cup. A couple days before that, he was talking about some drug tests at work, so I suspect that he asked me to pee in a cup so he could switch the urine and use mine. My parents found out that he also goes out most nights and drinks the night away, and walks home before anybody wakes up so that no one notices he is gone from his bed. I don't want to have to tell my parents because my mom is already dealing with my grandpa doing drugs, so the last thing she needs is to find out her own son does them as well. He's not a bad person, I just think its the people who he hangs around with. Help would be very much appreciated...
I think my brother does drugs!!?
your brother is just smoking weed, or marijuana. no harm no foul. there is nothing for you to worry about. all weed does is make it ok for him to be bored. it is not that detrimental to his health, it is not a physically addictive substance. it will not turn him into a raging drug addict. like the ones you see on tv or the d.a.r.e. teachers talk about. he won't start stealing to afford his habit. weed is only illegal because nixon was an idiot and didn't want the hippies to have any fun. like i said, i wouldn't worry about it, it will clear up and make sense in due time. and if you rat him out, it is just gonna cause strife between you two. what he is doing is harmless, and marijuana is the one drug that has any chance of becoming like cigarettes or booze, legal. it is just gonna take some time. like i said, in your brother's case. no harm no foul. but like the others say, if it is bothering you or making you worry. then you should talk to him personally, there is no need to bring your parents or the police into it.
My Mom is a drug dealer. what should I do?
My mom sells Methadone, and pain medicine of very high milligrams to a friend of the families' daughter-in-law. I know it's wrong, not to mention illegal, but I'm 16 and I have a little brother who is 12. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do, Because she's my mom and therefore if she goes to jail we go to live with my dad in Louisiana. We live in Washington, and my dad has been estranged for about 9 years. I know I should turn her in, but she has asked me to text this lady to plan meet-ups, so I could also get into trouble, (this was before I found out what was happening). Can anyone tell me what in the world I'm supposed to do!?!
My handsome friend (crush) does drugs....?
You could be a positive influence in his life. Don't rule him out. Many adopted people have deep rooted issues surrounding their adoption, especially involving being abandoned. It is likely that he assumes everyone will leave him in the end and as dengerous as drugs are-they are consistant and are there when the person calls on them. They ruin people but are taken by more people than you would even believe He has been honest with you and opened up to you. Be his friend, don't try and change him but do aim to change his lifestyle. Be consistant and trustworthy, be a rock to him and he will feel that he is able to leave the drugs alone as he has a stable person in his life. Give him a cuddle too. He might not let you at first, but he will in the end. You are obviously smart enough to not take them yourself, so that doens't need to be said. Keep his vitamin intake up by cooking him yummy, healthy meals and buying him supliments from the chemist. Good luck hun xxx
My dad's a drug dealer?
Wow, I wish I had the magic answer for you, honey. First and foremost, NO it is not your fault! At least your dad is making an attempt to support you, regardless of where the money comes from! And where does your aunt get off saying that it's your fault "they" suffer over him? Sounds like she's the one that is having a problem! Your mom's sister, no doubt! And including herself in the mess! Does your mom have a history of drug use? Is that why your aunt questions her? Sounds like she's more interested in the money than your mom's welfare. Hold strong is all I can say. And no, it's not wrong to take his help or money, you deserve anything that you can get from him. I just wish your mom and aunt would step back and take a look at you and realize how fortunate they are to have you. Try to find comfort with friends who share your morals and beliefs, and maybe there's a teacher at your school that you can confide in. You really need someone to talk to and that can reassure you that you're the only sane person in all this twisted mess! Bless you!
My mom’s biggest concern is that my brother and I could do drugs, what can I do to assure her that I won’t?
You really can’t reassure beyond your words and past behaviours.If you are keeping your word on situations now that many other young people don't, this will go a long way to building reassurance. If your present behaviours show you and your brother are being responsible, this also goes a long way in building assurance.Mothers, who love their children, always have some worries about the choices they will make. Moms don't want to see or hear that their children are going through a difficult time. They “feel” they have failed as a parent.You might want to hold a ceremony, much like a wedding or a baptism. These are done publicly to show the seriousness of the commitment to be faithful to what you have said privately.Purchase a “I promise ring” and hold a ceremony with your mother.You give her this ring, necklace or broach that is worn to remind her you will keep your word.When you place it on her you can say “Mother, out of your love you have shown and bore witness to us by giving your love unconditionally to us, we today pledge to you:Monther, we love you and will love you always. We have heard your heart when you asked us not to do drugs which create offensive and addictions that hurt family and person. Mother, today we give you this token as a sign of our word to you, “Mother, we promise not to take drugs that harm us. We promise to be responsible with the substances that are available to the world but have many times been abused by this same world. Mother, rest in your love for us as we commit today our love for you with these words. Mother, do not worry. We hear your heart we will not take any drug that bring harm to us.”This may go a long way to assure her.DO NOT do this if you have any thoughts of maybe taking drugs. This is only to express your heart, not to manipulate your mother.
My mom is dating a criminal drug doing jerk how do i get rid of him?
tell him your uncle is a cop
My parents accused me of doing drugs?
She is scared you become them...Do the test and when it comes back negative - cause i am sure you don't take drugs - ask for an apology and reassure your mum you will not do drugs... Also you would not get put to jail as you were not caught with drugs/or taking drugs and they would do a test and if it came back negative they could not do anything... Also if you live in UK, she could not make you do a test also with the pregnancy it would not be up to her to choose (say if you were preg) cause you are 16...