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I Tried To Play A Joke On My New Boss To Break The Ice But It Got Me Fired Was He Right

Can anyone tell me dirty jokes ?

i have one , but not that good , whats the difference between a woman and a car , you have to open the car to ride it , but you have to ride the woman to open her . do you have any ... plz tell :)

What are some slang terms used among police officers?

The most derogatory terms for the bad guys and citizens who are just pains in the rectum:A.H. = Adam Henry (A-dam H-enry) If you don’t get it…..sometimes you will hear it as “Jack Hole”…..now what starts with an “A” that ends with HOLE ?RICHARD CRANIUM= What starts with a “D” and is a nickname for Richard ? What is the non-medical layman’s term for the Cranium ? Do these clues HEAD you in the right direction ?

Does killing someone with Kindness really work? How can i be better at it?

You have to be very sincere about. It back-fired on me once and got me in trouble at work. I was a cashier and we'd have a few customers come in with chips on their shoulders and it didn't matter what I said or did; they'd snap at me. After practically bending over backwards for her, she called my boss and complained about my sincerity and just knew my smile was fake. I thought it was funny because I got in trouble for smiling too much. LOL

Yet, there were times, it worked. I would try to envision that they maybe having a bad day for some reason, such a quarrel with spouse, kids acting up, a relative in the hospital, whatever. I would try a to engage them in some sort of conversation or small talk where they would let down their defend mechanisms. I usually find something to complement on, such as I like the way your hair is done, or I like that color blouse/shirt you are wearing. The majority of the time it would work.

But such as your co-worker, it sounds as though she is projecting whatever is making her angry on to you. And, some people it just isn't going to work. There is more to her story than she is letting you know and that is too bad. And, you can't beat yourself up playing guessing games with why she comes across angry at you. In cases such as this, you can't take it personally.

Continue to be pleasant; smile & say 'hi'. Maybe sometime if you run into her in the break room, buy her a coffee or soda to break the ice and she might loosen up & talk about what is going on with her. There are times when I have used this approach and we became friends.

Good Luck, you sound like you are handling it very maturely.

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