I got my boyfriend sick and he's being a jerk about it ! Help?
I got my boyfriend sick . We kissed and I had a sore throat but I didn't actually think it was that bad & that he would get it . And when I see him at school he ignores me now and I texted him asking him if he was still sick and he said no but he is still mad . I get it , it's kinda my fault that I didn't let him know before that I had a sore throat but he was being a little dramatic , he was giving me one word replies and that really annoyed me . & I tried giving him a hug and he rejected it and said "get away from me" in a mean way he probably didn't mean it but it still hurt hearing that from him. & he kept ignoring me again , then he tried to give me a hug after school and I rejected it , so he hugged my best friend instead like what the heck . then I finally gave him a hug and he went off and he said f you while he was walking away , that's what my friend told me. I don't know what to do like I don't want to break up with him but he's being a total jerk and I told him that but nothing changed .
I accidentally told my boyfriend's friends that he has IBS/wears diapers. He won't talk to me.?
It's understandable that he's upset. From his point of view he trusted you and one of the most embarrassing things he could imagine has happened and he thinks it's your fault. He should listen to you but his anger and shame is too strong and he's jumped to conclusions. Give him some time and then try to talk to him. If he still won't listen try to send him a text after that time and explain that you had left your phone behind. It may be true that it would have been better that you hadn't left your phone, but did you have any idea that these were the sort of friends who would abuse your privacy in this way? Truly his anger and frustration are the cause of his friends who did not respect your privacy and chose to mock him instead of understand that he cannot help his situation. In a way he might feel it as easier to blame it on you for this happening than to blame and cut off all the people he wants to accept him.. it's kind of twisted but people can warp things that way when they are so devastated and angry. Give him the chance to calm down, try to give him the opportunity to understand the truth, and if he can't accept that then perhaps he's made the mistake of losing a great girl who understood him and supported him. About knowing not to leave a cellphone with a bunch of guys: That isn't a fact. Not every guy would jump to read a cellphone. It's a matter of trust and friendship and unfortunately these guys have shown how little class and worth they have as friends. What would matter here is if they had behaved this way in the past, or acted in other ways that would hint towards it... then yes, you should have taken it with you, but the blame still falls on their own actions and behavior. They probably would have gone into his stuff at some point, or investigated his disappearances and treated him this way regardless of your texts.
What to do if my boyfriend didn't pull out quick enough?
If you can get access to birth control pills right away, you can take several of them and it will stop a pregnancy. It depends on the brand, but you can take between two and six and it will work. The other option is if you can get a doctor to put an IUD in you within five days of this happening, and it won't make you feel sick and it will stop a pregnancy. It's hard to do, but call some doctors and clinics and ask. Pulling out doesn't work for this reason. Young men don't have enough self-control for it to work. The rate of pregnancy for couples using pulling out is one in four couples. So don't risk it. In your case, I would really get the IUD, as it won't make you sick.
Why does my boyfriend treat me badly and then get angry when I complain that his behaviour makes me feel sad?
Because you allow him to treat you badly, and you've fallen into the trap that many who haven't been around the block experience with these less than desirable companions: Feeling badly for someone else's bad behavior. It's like Janet Jackson once sang: "I know you USED to do nice things for me, but what have you done for me lately?"I'm not trying to be mean. I've been where you're at, and learned the hard way that love -or what poses as love, but really isn't- is an action. It's not just a word. For some of us with tender hearts, it's easier for the lesson to be learned when we put it in a context that we can grasp. If someone "says" they love you, then behaves in a manner that does not exemplify a true definition of love, then we must be brave enough to call it for what it is. Perhaps we don't have a way to articulate our confusion, but it's okay to say, "That's not love!" and walk away.Most of us are scared of walking away to preserve our dignity & self-respect. Why? Good question! I've looked at it from a zillion different angles & concluded that we are afraid....of being alone. Honestly, I'd rather be alone than spend time with someone who makes me feel crappy -when I haven't done anything to deserve it. We don't want to be the "bad guy".This is backwards thinking, and I dispensed with it a long time ago. First & foremost, we should love ourselves. If we can't, then we will attract people who will play all sorts of emotional games with us, then blame us when we call them out on it! Why waste time on unhappy unions?Your bf gets angry because he's using classic deflection techniques on you. These leave you feeling badly (for HIS bad behavior). They leave you confused, when there really is nothing confusing about the situation you're in. And guess what? You have choices: You can stay, and continue to be treated badly, end up feeling badly, and confused. Which is the same as doing nothing. OR...you can set him -and yourself- free. Let him go find someone else to abuse, and you are now free to find someone worthy of your time, attention, affection, and LOVE. Love yourself enough to demand that he change. Absent him changing, you know you have choices.
Can I get sick from my boyfriend licking my asshole then kissing me?
Nope, he would just be exposing you to possible pathogens you already have. Now, if you have hepatitis A, he would be at risk of infection. The oral fecal route of infection is applicable between people but not "within people"...See this article: Can You Eat Your Own Poop?
My boyfriend gave me a bath?
So i was feeling sick and when i was at my boyfriends house i fainted and i woke up to see my boyfriend kissing me and wiping me off with a clothe or something, and so he said i needed a bath to help me feel better, so we went up to my bathroom, he undressed me while i kept my eyes on his. And then he put in the jacuzzi, and he washed pretty much every inch of me. He started at my face, and then breast, then stomach, and he washed my feet and legs and stroked my genital area with a sponge to make me feel comfortable, and then brought me out of the jacuzzi and dressed me up in my pajamas and it was like midnight and he put me to bed, and he slept with me and made kissed me like every 5 minutes :) he was very nice to me! But.....was he doing it because he likes seeing me naked? and likes touching my genitals? or did he do it so he could help me out, and make sure I'm ok? He is very nice to me and i want to know how to thank him next time i see him at my house. So ummm heres my questions 1. Why did he do that for me? 2. How am i supposed to thank him next time i see him? (we are both 19 and he has never seen me naked until last night)
My boyfriend saw me naked after I fell in the shower....?
So my boyfriend saw me naked a couple of days ago after I fell in the shower. See I blew out my knee about a month ago and I have a big removable leg cast on and my boyfriend is being really great helping me out and nursing me back to health. But earlier this week I decided to take a shower without using the shower stool the dr. told me to use (big mistake). Anyway my boyfriend was making me lunch and he heard a big crash come from the bathroom... which was me after I tried to climb over the tub edge and slipped. I fell and immediately there was a knock at the door and he was asking me if I was ok... I told him I was fine but, he said if I didn't come to the door to prove it to him he was coming in. So since I was still trying to get off the shower floor (in enormous pain) I couldn't come to the door. He came in to find me on the floor of the shower crying so hard I couldn't really talk (partly because of pain but, mostly embarrassment He picked me up off the floor gave me a towel & got me my robe but, I was still really upset not only because he had to pick me up off the floor I ws also upset because I felt it made me look really weak to not be able to get up by myself & it was a stupid decision to try to stand in the shower. Anyway my boyfriend has been kinda mad with me since and we haven't been getting along lately and we haven't talked about what happened since. Should I just act like nothing happened? And I'm still embarrassed that he saw me naked (we decided early on in our relationship that we were not going to have sex because I'm still a virgin.)