I’m 18-years-old and I’ve never had a boyfriend. No boy has “hit on me” or asked me out for a date. I’m not fat or chubby. Does that mean I’m ugly and why I don't have a boyfriend?
No, you’re probably not ugly. I can’t tell you you’re not because 1. Everyone has their own idea of what is attractive and 2. Idk what you look like. However, even ugly people get boyfriends so don’t worry.I’m going to be blunt with my reasons though:You don’t meet boys. If you don’t come into contact with boys then you won’t get a boyfriend. They’re not fairy godmothers.Your personality. Maybe you’re not appealing because of your personality. A lot of guys will be put off by certain personality types. That’s not saying your personality is bad, but that you haven’t come into contact with someone it gels with.People know you’re just looking for a boyfriend. If you’re just out there looking for any old guy to fill the boyfriend slot in your life, they’ll know. No one wants to be picked because they’re just there or show interest.You don’t have any interests in common with them. People like to have things they both like and to be able to communicate with one another.You’re intimidating. Maybe you’re very pretty or too loud. Or always with a group of friends? People can find that intimidating and won’t approach.I would suggest jusy not worrying. My first serious relationship wasn’t until I was 20. my first boyfriend was at 16 because he was one of my close friends and the only boy I knew well. My second boyfriend at 17–18 was a friend of another male friend.Even my first serious relationship at 20 was a guy who was housemates and friends with my friend from work : it was just coincidence of meeting someone I gelled with.You may not meet anyone like that for a long time, or you might end up having a guy show up who fucked up five years ago only to sweep you off your feet and fall in love with him (my boyfriend). You never know. Don’t worry so much.Work on enjoying your hobbies, doing fun stuff, going on adventures and so on….you’ll be attractive to people who see you have your own interests and personality, and likely meet someone who also shares those passions.Also just don’t worry if you’re ugly. Everyone is kind of ugly when you think about it.
I have no friends at school, should i go pr prom?
i really want to go for prom, but i have not date, nor friends i can go with. i'm afraid if i go i'll be by myself all night. should i go for prom anyway? or just forget it? has anyone ever gone for prom alone? how was it like?
I've never had a boyfriend. Whats WRONG with me?
girl, me and u r in the same boat. but i am going to give u the same advice that i had hoped somebody else would have given me when i felt like that. i am sixteen, little older than u and i know that 15 years seems like a long time to have been waiting for a bf but it really hasn't and i also know that that doesn't help u at all. some people are just lucky when it comes to getting guys. and some other people are sluts. some people i have seen with loads of bf's are hideous and stupid, most guys at 15 like their girls stupid and easy and i seriously doubt that u are either of those. i wouldn't worry about it too much, just practice ur flirting and let mother nature take care of u looks, all things improve with time. in the meantime, this might help all of u who suffer from this same problem. Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree The boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
My girlfriend is going to prom with another guy as a friend instead of me?
Give her some space man! She wants to go to the Prom but for some reason wants to go on her own and not with you as a couple. Tell her you understand (even if you dont) and stop making life difficult for her.
My mom says I'm ugly, why?
I'm 17 years old, and my mom is always telling me I'm ugly, & that no one is ever going to like me, well prom is next week and she was like I don't know why you're going, you're ugly that's why no one invited you. Usually I blow it off but sometimes it does get to me, she says I'm dark, short I'm (5'2), skinny (100lbs) and that I have a big nose. It honestly hurts especially when my dad agrees, & she says my brother is cute and that I didn't come out as attractive as him, the kid is like 5'0 and he's like 125 lbs.
A girl asked me to prom, but I don’t want to go with her, but I feel bad because it took her a lot of effort to ask. What should I do?
I’ve had a lot of girlfriends, two fiancees, and one wife, and I can tell you right now that you don’t get here from there without taking women up on their offers for dates.Maybe you think she’s boring. Or ugly. Or not worth your time in other ways. Whatever. The fact is, however, no one else has asked you, which means that, to everyone else, you are boring, ugly, or otherwise not worth their time. But to this one person who is willing to take a risk and extend her hand in your direction, you’re an investment. Invest in yourself and accept this date. Make it memorable, make it fun, forget that you ever said that you don’t want to go with her. Delete this question.The fact is that if you turn down dates, eventually word gets around that you’re unavailable. Requests stop coming. You end up as one of these questioners behind “Why won’t women date “nice guys” like me?” and nobody wants that.So you take this date as an opportunity to sharpen your social skills and build up social credibility as someone who women want to date. Playing hard to get is a fool’s game. Take what you’re offered and make the most of it.
How to lose weight FAST for prom in 2 days?
1. First start by getting up earlier than usual. Around 5:30 AM to do some of you workouts. Getting up early shocks your metabolism because the body needs more energy to get going. Right? This will start your system on the road to weight loss. That early start with about 10 minutes of stretching. Have a cup of coffee to get the blood going also. 2. Do all the sit-ups you can. Just do them. 15 or 20 whatever, we don't have a lot of time to work with. Rest 1 minute repeat, do this for 6 sets. Already you are breathing hard and feel worn, because the body is working extra hard at being up earlier and then going right into exercise. If the early morning hour lets you get your cardio in, go ahead and do it. 30 minutes. 3. Diet. Cut all current meal portions in half, just cut them in half, nothing fancy or complicated, CUT IN HALF! Cut out all bread products, all gravies, candies, chips, night snacks, etc. If you crave at night eat a banana, other fruit or best a non-fat yogurt. There are some tasty ones out there. 4. In the evening do another 6 sets of sit-ups maxing out each set. Cardio again. The trick is to stay with getting up earlier. Yes it’s hard, that’s why it is so effective. Why do you think the Army gets up so early, it is intense training to the max.
Only person without a prom date?
I'm the only person in my group of friends without a prom date. Although there is a girl who I know who doesn't have a prom date as well, she is going with different people and we aren't that close, so I'm going to be that lone awkward girl on the end. I'm just really sad and kind of annoyed at myself because it seems like I should have talked to more guys or something. I've already been turned down by the only guy who could go with me. Also, guys don't really go to prom without dates, so there won't even be many guys there that I could randomly dance with or take pictures with. There is really no option for me but to go alone because I've already bought the dress and the ticket. And now tickets are done being sold, so even if I did magically find someone in the next 2 weeks who would be willing to go with me, they would have to already have a ticket. I'm worried about the photos, because usually the really nice ones that you pay for and your parents keep are the ones done with your date. So no nice professional photo for me. I was thinking of only going into the pictures with only girls, but even then I don't have a corsage to show, so that will cut me out of the few with the corsage concentrated ones. And it will mean a lot of time just standing around, doing nothing. Should I go in the "paired" pictures anyway? I just want to stop feeling so lonely and stop not looking forward to prom. It doesn't help that the only two guys that I've liked in the past 6 years and one is going with a very close friend, and the other is in love with my best friend (who is already dating someone) and will not go with anyone else. (they were secret crushes and neither very strong, but it still sucks). How can I stop dreading prom and feeling less alone? It's funny because even the most unlikable, ugly girls have managed to find dates. I'm not that good looking, but I'm nice when I do talk. If only I was less shy.