I stole something and i feel guilty, what should i do?
They'd probably have footage of you which they may review. And if they can tell you didn't indeed put them back, they might print out a photo of you with a note to look out for you as a suspect shoplifter. You don't want to start getting a record over stupid shoplifting stuff. It's really not worth it and can permanently mess up your life. Even if you returned the headphones, they can't really sell them to someone else now. The best you can do is try and pay for them. You can send them an anonymous letter which includes payment for the headphones. Up to you what you want to write, and if you want to admit you shoplifted intentionally or not, and feel bad about it and want to pay. Some might just say I'm sorry I left the store without paying for something -- this is what it would have cost. Whatever you do, don't ever do it again. It's a really really dumb way to get a criminal record, and it's not worth it. You can permanently screw yourself up for education, for jobs, you name it.
Why do I feel guilty for buying something "expensive"?
I have learned that I need not spend a lot, to obtain something really nice.I went out and purchased a new car a few years ago.It was a really nice, really reliable car. It was not long after I purchased it, I was sitting still at a traffic light one evening, when a vehicle plowed into the back of the car.Although it appeared to me that it was not damaged too badly, it was determined that the car was a total loss.A matter of some days later, I found a beautiful used car. It was an incredible vehicle, luxury car, fully loaded.It had high mileage, but I was not discouraged by this. Luxury cars are built to last. It was less than half the cost of the new car .It is going on four years since the accident. I am still driving the used vehicle. It still looks amazingly new at fourteen years old.
Why do i feel guilty for little things?
Why do I feel guilty for little things yet others can do terrible things and show no remorse? I can simply lie a white lie, or say something completely rude and feel like I'm a bad and mean person. It'll keep me up at night. But other people can steal and hurt others with little or no concern about consequences. Im really frustrated I'm 20 and I've been this way all my life. Never understood why..I need advice.
I did something really bad, how do I stop feeling guilty?
I don't want answers which begin with WHORE or SLUT or anything, I don't want to be judged because I simply made a mistake. It's quite a long story but I'll summarize it as much as I can. I joined this school 7 months ago and I started liking this guy and he liked me as well but because he had a crush on my really good friend before me, he started dating her. I got really mad at her and we had a fight because she knew how much I liked him.But I forgave her because I hate drama and i just wanted everything to be normal. I started getting over him and well, I am. We began to talk as friends and then I met him at his house one day when she was out of town.. We were just hugging and sitting on the bed when he was teasing me about having a little fat and i said I wasn't. We were just joking around and then he put my shirt up a little bit and i started putting it back down. But then later, I mustn't have been thinking about the consequences and I was fidgeting with his shirt button. He undid all of them and lifted my shirt up even more. We were just hugging on the bed and then he took off his shirt and started touching my breasts, we continued hugging and kissing on the neck maybe once or twice. I didn't stop him but we never kissed, not even once. We realised at the end that what we were doing was wrong and I didn't want to hurt her and it wouldn't happen again. I've seen all over the internet that whenever this kind of situation arises, the girl is called a whore for doing this but I'm not like that, not at all. I can't tell her because she's been in this school for 4 years and she's extremely friendly with everyone and they're all like her best friends, no one will talk to me and I'll have ruined their relationship. I know he loves her but we had a connection and I feel horrible, I hate feeling guilty but if i tell her or anyone, it'll just make it worse for myself and him, everyone will form judgements about me and I've been so stressed out this year I don't think i can handle everyone hating me for something I'm not. I made a huge mistake and I know that but I'm not that person, I feel so bad for her and its no excuse for what happened earlier between us. I just want to forget about this whole thing and never speak of it again. I'm scared that everyone will find out, I just want to live a normal life at school without being called names. How do I stop feeling guilty? Please no mean comments, I'm really confused.
I feel guilty after buying things for myself?
I am the same way. Today, I bought a fashion magazine I've been wanting for a long time, as a reward for acing a big exam. But instead of feeling proud and happy I just felt TERRIBLE. The whole time I was in the store, I was nervously flipping through the magazine wondering if it would be worth it. The whole train ride home I felt bad about myself and my stomach hurt. I didn't get a haircut for two years because I felt bad about spending the money. Some days I don't eat any food because I feel like it would be a waste of money to buy groceries. I need new glasses but I am too scared to spend money on a new pair. My family is not poor AT ALL, but growing up I was pestered a lot by mother when I wanted her to buy me things. She made me feel so bad about it and always went to extremes when it came to saving money (what a JERK). My friends happily reward themselves when they do well in school but I just end up crying or hating on myself the few occasions I actually do buy something for myself. But whatever, I am not going to let some childhood mishap with my mother ruin my mood. My advice is, THE HELL with whatever or whoever made you feel this way. Your money is your business only and nobody has the right to dictate what you do with it. As long as you are responsible enough to put away money for necessary things (like you did with your paycheck) there is no reason why you should not be able to buy a little something for yourself every now and then. Maybe you can make up some budget plans; Food, Rent, Utilities, Bills , Fun stuff, etc etc. That way you can set aside money for doing fun things. That money will only be used for doing fun things, in the same way that the food and rent money are only used for food and rent. Personally I try to pay off all the boring stuff first (rent food etc etc) and if anything is left over I try to use some of it for something nice or put it away for future stuff I want. Please don't feel bad about yourself for this. You deserve the best!! :)
I want to commit suicide but I feel guilty?
Here's what I want you to do, think about where you were ten years ago. How much different was your life then? Likely it was MUCH different. That's the beauty of life... though things may suck right now, your life will keep changing and you have the power to make it better and better. Stick with it. Who knows what exciting things you will be doing ten years from now.
I feel bad after I buy myself something, why?
Because you think that you could have utilized that money somewhere else or you put yourself very low on your priority list .If you have sufficient money to purchase the commodity and you are not cutting down your expenditure on something else for that purchase then there is honestly nothing to be guilty about.You need to realise that your needs are important to you and that you are the only person who can fulfill them and hence tgat transaction .It is very alarming that something so simple is bothering you so much . We all do feel guilty sometimes for worthless expenditures ,or expenditures that later on turns out to be not useful . But one should never feel terrible about themselves . You have surely not committed a crime .Remember that one should conquer all their desires because this life is too small to wait for the right moment .Trust me there will never be any better time or person other than now and yourself to spend that money on .If you are not spending your own money and you feel terrible about spending hour spouse’s or parents’ money than rationalize your expenditures on the basis of your standard of living .Live life KING SIZE. Unfortunately, this world has been developed in a way where one needs to purchase almost everything from water to experiences .And you are as important as any other person on this earth ,LOVE YOURSELF. And what the hell is this terrible feeling ? ;)