How can i become a better muslim teen girl? 10 points!?
Assalamualaikum sister :) Being a good Muslim just sounds and seems hard, though it actually isn't. About the praying: set a timetable kind of thing for yourself. set a time for prayer and follow it! i also felt really lazy for getting up for prayer,but put the fear of Allah in your heart. Remind yourself when u r in the middle of some activity, "is this activity more important than pleasing Allah?" Read more about the benefits of Salah and bad consequences of not praying. Think, can you not take out 10 minutes of your time, just pause your activity for the sake of pleasing Allah Subhana WaTa'la?It is Allah who has given you whatever you have right now and can take it away anytime. Please Allah.Do what he has instructed. That is the only way to succeed in life. Just make prayer a routine. did you know that if you do something religiously for 18 days, it becomes a habit on the nineteenth? start with only the fard rakah and start sunnat and later nafil. No offenece, but you're a teen girl and every teen girl wants to look prettier and have wonderful skin, right? I do too :D think of wudhu as a way to clean your face. Wudhu really has many benefits. I recently started wearin hijab too, Alhamdulillah. When thinking about hijab, i made many excuses to myself. my friends would think of me as 'weird' and stuff. but seriously, you're doing something for Allah, it might seem hard at first but Allah will ultimately make it easy for you. i hope you dont think modest clothing is non fashionable clothing. if you do, you are SO wrong :) hijab does not mean stopping fashion. check out these youtube channels for hijabi fashionistas: amenakin saimasmileslike saimastyleslike nye armstrong No one knows when they're going to die, so its better to start to improve right now. Forget what people might think and say.Please Allah and he will give you everything. watch islamic lectures on youtube.search 'zakir naik' many great personalities are hijabis. shelina zahra janmohammed,naima b robert, sarah joseph. http://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Good-Mus... its not too late now, but it might be in a moment.Allah is merciful. seek forgiveness and you will become a better muslim Inshallah. Hope i helped. any more doubts/advice, feel free to ask me more :)
How can i be a good Muslim?
1)first get rid of ur friends who influence u to do haram, becuz the prophet PBUH said, an individual follows his friends religion. So first, watch for ur friends, and stay with good company. 2)Stay at the mosque and the ppl at the mosque, they may guide u to the right path. 3)ask ur local sheikh for help, and inshAllah he will guide u 4)read the quran, read the quran, read the quran 5)pray 5 times a day, this will help u definately, im sure of it 6)avoid places like the theatres, bars, clubs, ur friends house to smoke, stay in the mosque, ur house, and a religious freinds house 7)STAY WITH GOOD COMPANY I love u bro cuz u are looking for the truth YOU MUST REPENT, AND KNOW ALLAH IS MOST FORGIVING, IF U R SINCERE HE WILL WITHOUT A DOUBT FORGIVE U, START A NEW PAGE, ASK FOR FORGIVENESS, AND FIND NEW FRIENDS(THAT IS THE HARDEST PART), AND PRAY UR DAILY PRAYERS.
Trying to become a better muslim HELP!?
SALAM all well i know i ask this q. already but i still have more Q. i really want to become a better muslim i get alot of advice but it still won't help i watch viedo and lecture of how to became a better muslim and read article on and on! i read the quran and sometime read the meaning of it i say BISMALLAHI RAHMANI RAHIM when i fell mad but i just can't help it that i get angry very easily like last night my mom said " do u know what fatima u are a very good person but the only thing that is worng with u is u get angry very easily!" i didn't say anything because tears were coming in my eyes and trying ppl not to see it everyone was quiet but i pray and pray ask 4 forgivness and help my mom but im still not a good person i know what my intension is and it has always been to become a better muslim a better person but latley it seemed that it was never going to happen so plz any advice. plz help me! and if u can make dua for me inshallah wasalam and EID MUBARAK!!!!
ISLAM i need help, i want to become a good muslim...i need to change and there are lots of other things aswell?
Salam Alakum dear sister i hope you are better InshAllah first of all i would like to say that the prayer is what distinguishes us muslims from non-muslims, so it is important for you to pray sister. when you start to pray InshAllah yo will become a better muslim. when you pray it is like your standing infron of your Lord. if you want to be close to Allah SWT start by praying sister. second i would like to talk about the hijab. when i first started wearing it it too felt a little weird to wear it but when you think about it who cares about what others think of you. who cares. what matters is what ALlah SWT thinks of you, what your husband and what your family thinks of you. if people dont like you becuase you wear a hijab then that is their problem not yours. who cares what colour our skin is, who cares what out culture is who cares if we wear a hijab. when you think like that wearing a hijab will be alot easier. just tell yourself that constantly that their opinions dont matter then it will become second nature and you wont even take much notice. if you go about your daily life without worrying and looking around if people are staring at you wearing a hijab will be alot easier. it is better for people to sater at you becuase of you hijab or your modest clothing then stare at you becuase they can see the shape of your body. the hijab and modest clothing are there as protection becuase people have nothing to look at so it protects you. and also sister i know your life may be hard but be greatfull with what you have instead of what you dont have and it will allow you to appreciate life alot better. stay with you family if you run away you will only regret it. many people dream of having children, dream of getting married dream of other things that you have. so just be greatfull sister and focus and appreciate what you do have rather then what you dont have. and for some Surahs recite ayat Alkursi http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVMUofvyA68 it really many times brings me to tears that ayat when i recite from my heart also some other surahs al-ikhlas An-Nas Al-Falaq Al-Kafiroon i hope this helps Allah SWT bless you and you family and giode you further to the right path Ameen Salam Alakum
How do I know if I'm a good Muslim?
Islam is about Faith and Good work.Good Muslim has a strong faith in God, and he preforms his obligations and prayers as prescribed.He also strive to do good and help fellow human, and refrain from doing bad and harmful things.He takes care of his outward look and his morals and inside.He is always positive, in good times he is generous and spending of his money for charity, and in bad times he is patient and hardworking.Wherever he lives he makes the place better for himself and the people around him.A good Muslim is a good son/daughter, a good brother/sister, a good mother/father, a good neighbor and a good friend, and humanbeing.The prophet SAW said:” The best among you is the best for his wife/family”.He also said : “ The best among you is the most helpful to other people”.He also said:”The nears to me in the day of Judgment among you are those with good morals”