I want to disappear forever?
The only thing anyone can do and leave! I know you're having a bad time, but please remember it's temporary! We've all been where you have at different times in our lives. I know myself about the caged animal feel, I was like that too. But, do not fear that you'll explode! You won't! I ended up leaving my home at 17, moved in with my friend and her parents. Stayed until I was 20 and moved on with my life. It made me stronger somehow. And I did not fail either! I got a full time job, got a real estate license, a drivers license and finally bought my own home! So, as I told you earlier, it's all temporary, this all will pass. Just remember, you don't have to feel like you do and when you have the will, and I know you do, you will find your way! FYI, you should've seen the expressions on my families face when I accomplished everything I did, hehe, it was PRICELESS! You can do it to! Keep in mind, if a 17 year old girl did it, so can you! Good luck and never let anyone drag you down so low again. Regardless of whatever the blood line says!
Do you want to disappear?
What is stopping you? What is interesting, is that although you ask this question, and you did nicely detail what you meant (and I appreciate that, believe me)... you left out one important part. Why would you leave out what was making you feel like you couldn't?Picking up and starting over is actually easier than people think. Those who have done it more than twice, know exactly what I mean. We are aware of the fact that we would be severing ties. We are aware of the fact that we will think about what we left behind. However, because we've done this more than twice, we went through the initial OMG OMG the first time, and realized it wasn't all that bad. We realized though, that if it happens again, we'd be really sure. Then, after that second time comes.... it's not that big a deal. If it is necessary to leave, we leave.Now, I all of that said... and I am saying that more than twice (actually, far more than twice) I have packed up and moved. I'm not talking about Across Town. I'm talking about the fact that I've lived in just about all four corners of the USA (Maine, and most of New England, Florida, Las Vegas, Washington state... and a ton in-between). When I say lived... I don't mean that I went there on a vacation. When I say moved, I don't mean I was in the military.Through all of this, I never wanted to disappear. I never thought of it as running away to start over. I'm me. No matter where I go, I'm still me. All of my problems, stem from me being me... so running away from my problems doesn't work, because I take them wherever I go. I'm not about to re-invent myself. I don't want to be someone different. Pros and cons, strengths and weaknesses, I like me. I've spent my life learning to like me, and be the me I want to be.So... packing up and moving to some distant location? Easy. Disappearing and becoming someone new? Not so easy.
Can you disappear forever?
Yes and NO. Yes from the point of view of “the many”. No from the point of view of the “WHOLE.”There are different ways to “disappear.” For example, we can die and rot, and who can see us?But, that is a third dimension world view. A third dimension dweller usually has the mentality that the ‘past’ has vanished, the ‘future’ is a not yet existent event, for a very narrow perspective of the ‘present,’ similar to Plato’s Cave. (philsophically: ‘presentism,’ the ‘present’ is real, but the ‘past’ and/or the ‘future’ is not real.)Then you have ‘eternalism’ the view that ‘past,’ ‘present’ and ‘future’ are all real. Here, those that dwell in this dimension, nothing disappears. Everything is still there. If we can imagine a simplistic hollywood film like universe, every frame is in its respective place.But some sets of frames can’t see the other frames on either side, so it would, from their perspective “disappear.” But if you can “fly” above the film strip, and stare as if having a celestial seat in the clouds, you can look back and forth on the movie and point.
Is it normal to want to disappear?
Absolutely. There are so many times in life when people don't want to face life's obstacles. Even myself for that matter. Sometimes, in this fast paced world, where we're consistently given new tasks and expectations to reach, we just want to stop and breath. And disappearing seems like the best solution. There's so many nights I've wanted to disappear into a beautiful location, where there's no expectations, no pressures, no comparisons, no negativity, and absolutely no sadness. It's 100 times easier to simply escape into nature and relax and forget about our responsibilities. Every person. Every object. Every action in this world must have some sort of reason. We were given this life for a purpose and disappearing is an simpler way out of this game called life. It’s not wrong to disappear, but I wouldn’t say its completely right either. Disappearing is like pressing the pause the button on a Nintendo game. But why be the person who pauses the game, when you also have the power and strength to conquer the game. Harness the power and talent within you. It's crucial to train our mind to work harder, get back up and conquer the game of life, and I'm sure every single person has to power to do that to their best potential. We control our mind. Our mind does not control us. Most importantly, its essential we appreciate every moment of life, the good and the bad, and live every moment of life to its fullest potential. After all, life is too short to disappear.
I want to disappear so much ? help?
i want to die but i know that suicides wrong and such, but there's so many time when i dont know how to handle whats in my head. just two days ago, my friend stood me up on something, she always did before but herself never really cared or noticed, shes a nice friend, but i felt like she didnt care about me at all and i told myself that i wouldnt worry about anything like this,but a few minutes later i dont know why but tears rolled down my face. i usually just forget things on my mind and think about hw and study to get my mind on things. i feel like the world seems so empty because no matter how sad i am i never could find anyone to talk to. for 2 years i was depressed but never could talk to my friends, and now when i see them sometimes, they seem to talk with each other so well, much more closer than i am with them. i dont even know how to talk with them and feel left out that i just want to stop being friends with them, i feel like im a bother to them because they're great people and dont really need me, since they have other friends . in 2 years im moving to another country , where i;ll probably never see anyone again , everyday i wonder if its really worth it to have friends anymore, and what are friends really for? help?
Do you ever feel like disappearing?
I don't know about dying yet. But I know I just feel like disappearing. Everyone in my family relies on me for money/support/counsel/nurturance. And when I make a mistake they make me feel like complete **** and my father always puts me down, even though I give money to him without question. And my mother always compares me to her sister and says that I'm weak. I'm tired of my life and I just want to get away from everyone. I cry every night and just want to die some nights. I have no one to talk to because my brother's girlfriend throws fits when my bestfriend(my brother's ex) comes over and I feel very isolated at work because I work with his girlfriend and she talks about me all the time to everyone, even though there are very few things she could say about me because I have tried to help her since she has had my brother's child. But she resents me because she can't control me or manipulate me. And I just quit that job and feel good for once but I don't know if I should feel good about quitting. Everyone in my family is capable of working and I've been working and helping out since I was twelve and now I am twenty two years old and my dad gets angry with me for not being in school but it was impossible to go to school and take care of my family so I took a semester off and now I'm enrolled again but I don't know if it's so wrong to leave my family because they are all so reliant on me for money and I cheer them up everyday because they feel bad about losing our house but it's been a year now and they won't come out of this depression.
Why do I feel like I want to sleep forever/disappear to just get away from the world and my life? Should I be worried about this?
Pick up “The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F***” by Mark Manson.One of the key points the author makes is that most people either 1) ignore and avoid the fear that they face in life or 2) remain paralysed unable to move forward due to that fear.Whichever it is for you figure it out. And then take massive action to move past it. Tackle your fears. Invest in a coach/training or whatever else is required to move you out of the stagnant place you are currently finding yourself in. Once you tackle your fears and make some progress you will start building up courage and confidence. From there you can start chasing your desires and your dreams rather than just facing your fears.Setting up a compelling long-term vision is also really powerful. If you get excited about what you could create in your life, you are more likely to go out and get it.
Why do I feel like I want to disappear?
Low self-esteem? Guilt and shame? Feeling unloved? Depression? Do you feel you do not belong or fit in, or do not add value? Remember you are COMPLETELY UNIQUE!!!!! THE UNIVERSE HAS A COMPLETELY UNIQUE LIFE PATH FOR YOU! You just need to find meaning and purpose. Find self-worth in your self by watching inspirational videos, finding a religion or belief you are comfortable with (it really does help!) and if it is your life situation or circumstances remember : you are not a tree rooted the ground, you can move, so change something; That being said “Accept the things you cannot change and change the things you can.” If you lack love and need it - LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF! Perhaps your self, thoughts and emotions are the only thing you can change right now but have faith that in doing this good will come. Beliefs are VERY POWERFUL. Listen to : Abrahami Hicks, Eckhart Tolle, Teal Swan, Alan Watts, Tony Robbins, Demartini for inspiration.
Anyone wish they could just disappear once and forever?
Yes, sometimes I feel the same as you do, this past two years have been the hardest for me to bare, I almost died, and to top it off my Husband who has Diabetes had his left leg amputated and had other chronic illnesses, so I had to make myself strong and get somewhat better to care for him, which thank the Lord up above for giving me strength to bare it all after all the suffering we passed through. But getting back to you, I don,t know you and viceversa, but you should not feel bad about any situation you might be in, we have to take the bad with the good, we are not immune in this world for whatever mishap we find our self in I hope that you will one day find hope for whatever it is you think you deserve to die for.
I want to disappear for awhile and reinvent myself how do i do it im 18 HEAR MY STORY?
i wanna disappear from this world for awhile to loose weight and fix my mental state of mind im going through critical sonic horrible depression im fighting not because im fat (well alittle but thats not it) i wanna stay away from every one and reinvent myself kinda like a butterfly i was molested abused neglected as a child i had my teachers/classmates constantly laughing at me make me feel like a alien now im getting older im getting some "niceness", "prettiness" they say i have i wanna lose everything and start fresh how do i disappear form society i go straight home after i finished my lessons and workout (i do alot of research on fitness) i barely ever go on facebook (im thinking to deactivate my account) i have a few good friends i love but if its worth it to stop talkin to them awhile its ok and i dont go anywhere anymore i withdraw from everything and trying to fix my mental health n depression