I Want To Do So Many Things . Help

I'm confused with what to do with my life, I want to do many things and see the world, but feel I can't acomplish my goal. Any help?

Sometimes having too much can be more of a curse than a blessing.You say that you have a lot of things you want to do in your life; that you want to travel the world and see the sights:But what is it that you really want?Is the question you should most likely be asking yourself.Men have desires. Sometimes, they come in the form of every day wants. But occasionally, we get — what I would call — the spontaneous desires. The ones that we’ll just wake up to on a Sunday afternoon, and feel like it's what we've been called to do.I like what Nikolas wrote. (Still rather new to quora, so I apologise for not linking the answer.) But sometimes, it's not about all the things that you want to do. Sometimes, all you need is one.When you have too much of something, it spreads you too thin; but when you only focus your sights on one true goal — one destination, the possibilities are endless.Don't concern yourself too much with all the little dreams for now. Dig deeper. Find that one thing that you've always wanted to do but had no courage to. And then trudge on ahead.I'm sure then, you won't be feeling as confused as you are now.

I want to do a lot of things at the same time and I end up doing nothing. It makes me depressed.Help?

Doing lots of things at the same time is not only your problem , it's a problem of lot of youngsters.Before finding any solution we have to Know deeply regarding the problems.So the problems are:-Our wants are unlimited.We want every degree in our name plate.World is so competitive that we can't ignore any opportunities.We lacks in perfect future planning.We want to become both famous and successful at same time.If we discuss regarding this problem then we could discover it in every person,At the same point of time we want to be a :-A good corporate manA successful businessman​A star with lots of fans buzzing around.A cool boy with lots of girl around.A sportsperson with lots of success.A billionaireA brilliant student in classA good singer even we have worst tone.Even so many people try to be prime minister.Of course a good photographer, clicking random pics of everything with a DSLR.Ok , these are sounds good individually but all the qualities with single person, nahhh not possible ( may rajnikant could do it)Can you imagine PM modi in a musical concert singing the song “naadan parindey” no ! No! No ! I can't even imagine it.Can you imagine bill gates in American football team and striking the ball for a brilliant goal( not possible)So , we want to be successful in our life, but in a single field it is good to be in two or three but not all.You can only be a good dancer or a good singer. If you want to try both then you will end up as average. Yes I agree that there are certain exemption but they are exemption.There are certain thing which will help you :-A proper future planningMeasure your pure strength.List the things which are favorite of your or you want to do.Do a proper market study reading your list.Rank them accordinglyChoose a certain number of things which are necessary.Schedule for each thing accordingly.Remember life is a race and you have to run wisely.Live life king size.Thank you.

I'm just 21 and want to do too many things in life. I think too much and unable to decide onto anything. what should I do?

Wanting to do a lot of things is not bad, however getting lost in wanting to do them is.Better to make a list of the things you want to do and then plan for each meticulously. Tick off each one after you have finished doing it. At your age you should actually plan to do many things and chart out those which you enjoy & discard which you don’t like.I am almost 30 and regret not being able to do a lot of things that somebody in their early 20’s can. Like going on a trip alone, sneaking out of home at night with friends and the likes. I am past the age to actually try some of these things like a mother of a 2 years old, I am independent and not answerable to anyone, my husband being supportive of everything I want, I can’t really sneak out of the house! JSo better be in a situation where you can say that you tried a lot of things than to regret for the lost time later

I want to do lot of things but I am unable to start. What should I do?

First I want to say that don't go for lot of things. The word “Lot”make us demotivated. When we know, we have to lot many things then we try to avoid that because seeing lot many things in front of us.I suggest that don't list many things at a same time to do. Go for one by one so that you do not feel like having burden on you. Don't take tension of future work. Just start by one and give your full concentration towards it. Do it complete and then only go for other. If you make limited list of things to do and then completed, you feel satisfied and will excited to do new things as well.Burden and tension this two things may be comes in your way. Firstly go for reasons why are you not able to start. Find the root cause and try to overcome that. May be you have other problems so that you are not able to do things properly. Do work on that.Don't do any thing just to complete it. Create interest in it ,then only you will happy with yourself and get satisfaction of doing something. When you were successful in past you will accept new challenges.If you are avoiding things then you never get another chance to do it. Every opportunity comes only once. So , use it and make it in proper direction.Don't put pending work. Doing things in right time is always good. Time is previous and you have to use it properly. Many people always do this things. They start lot many things at a same time and not complete anything. This is very dangerous. Accept such challenges which you can do. Don't go for such which are not affordable to you or beyond your capabilities.Do smart work rather than doing hard work then only you will get fast way to complete things.All the activities that we do all are dependent on each other. So that do the things in proper sequence ,you will get excitement to do other when you know about previous one.Go with easy things first rather than choosing difficult one. If you go for difficult one then there are many chances that you will fail. So solve easy problem so that you will get new desire to do next one.“kal kare so aj kar, aj kare so abi" always remind this means “ do it today rather than tomorrow and do it now rather than today” . If you follow this with full faith you will find that it's helpful .

I have so many things to do. What is your advice?

This is a universal problem. We have our to-do list which is ever getting bigger and bigger. The problem is not the lack of time, the problem is that we are not taught in the school how to prioritize.Why is prioritizing the tasks so important?We humans have a tendency to procrastinate until the last moment. Do you know more people file the taxes in the month of April than in any other month? That is because we do not have the true sense of time. Come January and we think that we still have more than 3 months to file the taxes. On top of that we get over whelmed by all the steps we need to take to file the taxes.The whole process seems so painful that we keep on procrastinating until April. Now not filing the taxes seems painful. We start seeing the consequence of not filing the taxes on time. The same task do not look so daunting now.This whole process teaches us a very important principle. I call this pain & pleasure principle. Our mind always tries to save us from any activity we associate pain with. In the example of tax filing. The activity is still the same in January or in April. The only difference is how we perceive it. We can use same principle in our advantage. Let me explain how you can use this principle to start taking action.Prioritize your to-do list based on how important it is rather than how urgent it is.Take the number 1 task from your list and write down all the negative consequences of not working on that task.Keep reading this list as often as possible. Within few days your mind will start associating the pain with not accomplishing this task.Once this stage is reached, taking action on that activity becomes easy for you. The antidote to procrastination is associating pain with not taking the action.I hope this will help you in taking action on your list.

I want to learn so many things at once that I become unable to focus on any one thing. What should I do?

I believe I do come in your situation most of the time. I also want to learn so many things at once that I end up listing down and spend the entire day and do nothing that day.Note: That day. But next day, I focus on the schedules and complete it and walk the road as long as it goes.So what did i do initially?I calculated my ideal hours of learning and practical hours of learning everyday.Lets say you have 10 Subjects to learn subdivided by 100 sub topics to cover each subject.I have 24 hours. [max].I sleep for 8 hours [atleast]I do all my bathroom stuff everyday, counting more than once [2 hours]I have breakast, lunch, tea, dinner [2 hours]12 hours gone by default.remaining 12 hours: depends if you are a student or working. This will include your to and fro travels and spending time in school/college/work.So what you will study, where and for how much long every day?Sort this thing first.I made 1 hour a day learning.[Anytime/Anywhere].10 subjects : prioritized from highest to lowest based on my requirementsPrepared an excel sheet for my 10 subject and 100 sub topics. Discovered how much time each going to take and scheduled my 1 hour every day for it.Every day I mark my attendance to that excel-sheet and see my progress as I see my next day everyday. One day I saw myself skilled with 10 subjects and in timely fashion.What else did I achieve other than learning 10 things in life?DedicationDeterminationDevotionFlexible disciplineSounds great doesn’t it? This helps you to learn more things in life in an organized fashion and all things fall right in your life.What is the most important thing you should have while you walk down the road ?INTEREST:)