What do I do if my best friend doesn't want to hang out with me anymore?
You think of all the things that you could have done wrong. Did you mess up big time some time in the past? Or did you do something small that hurt the person in any way?When you do realise it, you try your best to make up to him/her. You apologise because you are truly at fault.But mind you, at no point are you to cross the line where you have to go below your self respect to get this person back.If this friend really wants you back in your life, he will meet you half way.If not, then I guess there is no point trying. You did what you could and its important to know when to walk away.Second scenario is when you have no idea what you did wrong.This could either mean that you actually did something but don't remember it, or there’s some misunderstanding of some sort.Either way, everything can be sorted out by approaching this person and asking directly.In case they fail to provide you closure, and act arrogant and mean, trust me, they're not worth it. Just walk away. Its their loss anyway.Happy Thoughts. :)
What do you do if your best friend doesn't want to be with you anymore?
I have been in your situation.Not once, but twice.When the same person who you trusted a lot, the one who used to share everything with you, the one who literally has other friends because of you, for the one you did all that you could ever do turns out to be the one who stops talking to you, not just this, the person refuses to give you a reason and ignores you constantly. It sucks, it really does.But that's how most of the people are.In my case I tried everything, called them pinged them, confronted them, only to face ignorance.Not every one is as sensitive as you. I felt so bad initially, I didn't give up. I wanted my friend back at any cost. No matter what. But there is a slight boundary between ego and dignity called self respect and you must respect your self respect.Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that people don't need you anymore in their life.Their work is done, maybe they are just bored of you. Accept their decision and move on.Also remember one thing, too much of attachment can be really really harmful.Sometimes, it's better to embrace solitude rather than cribbing over the fact that people don't need you. You need yourself. It hurts but You are stronger than that.
My best friend doesn't want to come to my graduation... Am I overreacting?
Hey Guys! This is kind of long, but I really need advice (And you WILL get your 10 points!) My friend and I have been REALLY good friends for 2 years. I would seriously do anything for him. We both go to school in Denver (I'm from Virginia, he's from North Carolina), so when we're at school, we're the only family each others' got. I'm graduating from college 2 years early and it never crossed my mind that he wouldn't be there. He knows exactly how much this means to me. But tonight, he took me aside and said that he may not be able to go. His mom wants to buy his ticket home to North Carolina for June 2nd, 2 days before my graduation. Our dorms close on the 3rd, so I told him that he could stay with my family at my uncle's house (who is super ballin and has a HUGE house). I then told him that if he didn't feel comfortable doing that, I would pay for him to stay in a hotel. He basically refused, saying that would be awkward staying with my family, and he was facing a huge fight with his mom if he didn't go home. He's acting like staying 1 extra night would kill him! Plus, I guess his mom didn't want him to stay with me because I'm female (please, like I would make a move with my ENTIRE family in the house). I told him that if he wasn't there, I was going to be really upset and not talk to him for a while. Then, we got in an argument and I kicked him out of my room. I know I was being a witch, but my feelings were SO hurt. If things were the other way around, I would move heaven and earth to be there,and absolutely NOTHING would stop me from going. When he received this prestigious award at school and his family couldn't come, I was the one who went, even though I really couldn't afford to pay the cost of admission to the ceremony. When his drunk roommate threw up in his room, I'm the one who let him crash in mine. When he needed something from the store and I was already there, I bought it for him. I helped him fold his stupid laundry when he needed help. I have never asked for anything in return, and he pulls this? I know he loves his mom, but is it too much to ask that he stick up to her FOR ONCE to be there for me? I texted him and told him it was his choice whether or not he wanted to go, but if he decides not to, things won't be the same. If he needs something, he better not come to me. If he has something special going on, I won't attend. I'm not going to be there, unwavering like I always have been. Would I be overreacting?
My best friend doesn't ever hug me?
lol im da same way. im just not a hugger! like, i love all my friends, but i dont ever rele hug them, and when i do its brief and usually a side hug. maybe she is just the kind of person who has a personal bubble and just isnt comfortable with that. or maybe ask her.?? or try and hug her and see what she duz. maybe shes just worried that you will push her away? for all u know, shes asking the same question!! she could just be nervous!
Why doesn't my best friend want to come over anymore?
My best friend and I have been friends for 7 years. We'd always sleep over at each others' houses. We still hang out frequently (not as often, since we both have jobs now). Since this past autumn, she hasn't wanted to come to my house at all. She's fine with me going to her house, but any time I ask her to come over, she has some excuse for why she can't. It's sometimes inconvenient when I have to wake up for work extra early because she wanted me to come over instead of her spending the night. I've asked her if she hates my house or something, but she got defensive and said she doesn't. She and I have always been very close, as neither of us really have friends, and we're not the type to go out and make more friends. Does anyone have any idea why she doesn't like to come over anymore?
Does my best friend not want to be friends anymore?
Okay, I have a very, very best friend that I met 2 years ago. We did everything together. I always went to her house. And we text 24/7. After school she would say Hi and all that. But in march of 2007 she wouldn't text, or call me anymore. Or not invite me over anymore. Everytime I texted her she was never doing anything. And I asked her why she doesn't talk to me anymore she said: because. She wouldn't give a reason. And she gets mad at me, mean, and she cus at me for no reason. I did nothing to her hurt her. Doesa she not want to be friends anymore? she sayu's she is still my friend. But I dont feel that way. Please help me. What should I do? :(