I hate my summer camp, I want to go home!?
I'm at a CTY summer camp right now. It is three weeks long and it's only the fourth day, I have two weeks and two days left. I HATE it. I hate school, I'm not sure why I came because I find school so boring. And I have no friends, my roommate never talks to anybody and everyone else is friends. The days feel like months, this is horrible. I miss my mom and my dog and my sister and my dad and my other pets and I'm so homesick. I know that this is "normal" and whatnot but I KNOW that it will not get better. I don't have any prospective friends or anything. I want to go home! What should I do? I don't want to text my parents because they will think I'm being irrational and not like me because I usually don't get homesick, and say again that it's "normal" and stuff. PLEASE HELP ME????!!!!!! :'( :'(
Why do I hate being at home?
Home is not the reason to hate. It maybe the environment, the household meaning, the people who are wit you and it maybe also, bad memories. I will accent on the one by one.The environment includes primarily the neighborhood and the highways and by-ways. You are now sick of the area and the people. The people? Yes, You have not found anything worthwhile talking or visiting them. There are not much of activities in the immediate surroundings perhaps. Had you a badminton, Basket Ball or Volley Ball court then there’s regular company of playmates. But in the absence of such, life is a drab and dull monotony.Next, the household. The same folk even if they are the nearest kin, it would drive you made without variety and thrill within. Same face staring at you everyday without any emotional pep, the routine life and movement under the same roof also can make you miserable. Worse, you cannot have all your way!Bad memories sap out all your positive initiatives like a balloon being pricked by a thorn. If you have been in that vicinity from your childhood and there have been instances, although having outgrown, that keep haunting you every now and then. Say, a relationship ship wreck. Your best friend and you would have had a bitter episode that crashed down your rosy dreams. This could tormenyt you when you return from your wor outside in the City or even after a long journey.These are few possibilities. And there would be many such reasons. However, I don’t suggest that there is no way out. You can still replace all these thoughts with something new or someone new and create new activities to overshadow these that cause hate to be home-bound.
I totally hate my "home" country and never want to go back to it. Am I normal?
I don’t think you are un-normal, you may be just “un-common” but still normal.Personally I find people is not supposed to love their born country just because they were born there.. to love a country according to my opinion, we should feel identified with the culture, appreciate the folklore, and accept the up’s and downs of the system that runs in that country too. So it may take (I think it should) some time and deep thinking to choose which country you actually love and feel proud about more than just loving it because you were born here or there.For example, I was born in Peru, and lived in France, Italy, Germany, Austria. I don’t accept or love any of them totally, so I can’t say “I love” about any of these countries (I don’t love either my born country even though I lived in there the first 23 years of my life, bc it doesn’t totally rappresents me) but I wouldn’t say I hate either any of them. Each country has good and bad things and for me is really hard to pick just one, which doesn’t mean that I “hate” any of them either. The same can happen to you and if you lived in two countries, you may tend to pick the one you are currently living in. Of course that will happen if you find yourself accepted and integrated in that country (which is normally uncommon for most immigrants) and if that happens you may find yourself totally in opposite with your born country, so you may start hating it, but finally it is not a “hate” itself.. it may just be a “not loved” country on your list.
I hate dorming and college! I wanna go home?
About 5 months I moved into a college about 2-3 hours from home. I was optimistic at first but after moving in I found I did not like it at all. I started a new job which I did not like the people, environment, or any aspect of it. I have 8 roommates and I don't get along with any of them. They like to party every night and I do not so they don't like me. I am miserable up there but told myself if I stuck it out things would get better. I stuck it out until winter break. I got to come home for a month, and go back to my old job. I was instantly happy again. I loved the break but it went by so fast. No I've been back at school for about two weeks. It's awful I'm depressed I miss my family I want to go home. After being back at school I went home for the weekend after only 5 days. Then I had to go back and I hate it. I'm so depressed and I'm wonder if I should stick it out 4 more months or make myself happy and go home.? I know I'll dissappoint my family but honestly it's my life right? And if I do go home I won't entirely be quitting school. I would go to a community school by my house next fall. My question is is this realistic? Should I stick it out 4 months or go home? Anyone have similar experiences?
Why do I hate coming home?
I'm 20, male, currently living with some buddies out in university which I absolutely love. For the past year or so now I've really begun to hate coming back home, like absolutely dread it. Everytime I feel like coming home a big feeling of depressed emotions comes overtop of me like a blanket and I feel weighed down from the moment I leave my university home to the moment I get back. I've tried putting on a "happy face" when I come home but I can't seem to hold that on any longer. I was home for new years and spent the entire night in tears in my room alone just absolutely emotionally drained. I'm now home for 1 night for easter and have been in my room the entire saturday night, and just cancelled my plans with friends because of how shitty I feel. I tried seeing a counselor in the summer but that seemed to just drive me more crazy and felt repititive. My mom is a good mom but does way too much for me, I used to get anything I wanted if I really tried and if I got caught doing anything wrong had NO discipline whatsoever, including when she caught me stealing the car and smoking pot. My dad tried to be a good dad but always drove himself to anger which eventually got us all upset. We never had a family vacation that didn't end in more stress and more bullshit than when we left, because of this reason. I'm so tired of this, and am tired of feeling like this. I feel there's no hope and just feel like never coming home and seeing my family again... This is obviously not a rational option. I'm truly at a crossroads here..... Any help would be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you so much for reading my bullshit
When I'm home I want to go out, when I'm out I can't wait to get home. What is wrong with me?
Thanks for A2AIt used to happen with me alot! So I tried to think what's wrong with me? Then only I came to the conclusion that there is nothing exciting in what am I doing.So I used to hang out with my friends in a park and got bored after a while so after that as we all have smartphones these days, we started playing games on a LAN! These days we play mini militia and with a phone only 5 can connect so every evening everybody is eager to come and start the game!At college, sometimes we get really bored so we take out cars and explore the city! Find new places to eat and hang out, play some sports like paintball shooting or go carting.You just need to change the things you usually do like instead of going to the bar you can go at any park that provides skateboarding arena and start it! You can go play the sport you like or just explore the city like I do!I hope this helps.
I hate going out. I like staying home. What to do?
I hear ya........There's no place like home, Dorothy! *S* But sometimes we have to force ourselves to be sociable. Make it a point to go out at definite times during a month, so that ya don't become a hermit. It's ok to refuse sometimes. But not ALL the time.....as hard as it is......You can agree to go, and request that you need to be back by a certain time. You can always change your mind, if you're having a good time. That's usually the way it goes.
I hate staying at home but I have nowhere to go. What can I do?
It may make sense to you but your question could be taken two ways. So I am not sure how to answer and whether you are a minor or adult is important too.You could be saying that you have no friends to go hang out with which would be away from home. You could be saying that you do not have any hobbies where you could get out and join a class or a group that meets with same hobby or interests, or You could be saying that you are a minor and home life is either really bad or not to your liking and you want to find a way to get out of the house away from it but have no idea where to go, or you could be a young adult, living with the parents still but want to get out on your own but can’t swing it financially and are desperate to find a way to leave the parents home.I will give a few answers which may not answer your question .As already mentioned, volunteering somewhere is a good excuse to get out and it doesn’t have to be a big commitment. My husband and I volunteer every Tues. to go to a local church to help prepare a meal for that evening to feed the elderly, homeless and anyone else interested. If we had alternate plans or were ill, we didn’t go. But its a good way to be a volunteer. Or if volunteering doesn’t sound good to you, think about what your interests are and find other people in your area with the same. The way to do so is by looking We are what we do. I typed in the name and it changed to ‘we are what we do’ and I guess its a link to the site.If living at home with parents but wanting to get out on your own, check with all people you know to see if they are planning to move out also and perhaps sharing an apartment with one or two others will help. If you can’t swing that, near community colleges, people will rent just one bedroom to college students or those of that age. Also, my oldest daughter tried the following and it worked. She attended a different church than we did. She told her pastor she wanted help getting out on her own and not living at home anymore. She had turned 18. So they announced it at church and one of the older ladies said she could come and stay for practically free, other than paying a little to cover whatever water or electricity she used. That is the cheapest way I know to get out of a parents home.If this is all wrong, try rewriting your question with more details so you can get the right answers or helpful ones.