My daughter wants to move out, advice?
First of all.....start being the parent. Do not continue to take your stress and sadness out on others. (especially your children) Next... tell your daughter you's prefer her to stay until she is older and has more practice in making wise, adult decisions. Then......tell her if she moves out you wish her well and would still love to keep in touch. Keep it positive. She needs to see that you are someone that she can come back to.
Advice on moving out at 17...?
okay heres the situation -my dad is a paranoid skitzo -he and my mom have my life hell for the past 16 years -i called the police station and they said i can live independantly at 17 -so im outta here as soon as im 17 and get a car which will be around fall 08 i need advice on getting an apartment that will rent to me, and just advice in general ya know? i plan on saving pretty much every dime i make in the next 10 months and im gonna work a 2nd shift part time job and a 2nd shift full time job in the summer....do u tihnk i could have someone over 18 sign my lease even thought they wont be living there? how would i pull that off? i live in van buren county michigan by the way and im turning 17 on july 7th
I'm 18 and I want to move out?
I pay for everything except my phone bill and house bills because I live under my parent's roof. My mom checks my bank accounts and gets mad at me for getting bad grades. I currently have b's in my ap classes. My mom is mad because I don't have straight a's. I can't focus because i take care of my little sister most of the time. I have a boyfriend and my mom said she will keep us apart if i get b's on my report card. I'm so scared because of my grades. She even sets a curfew to see my boyfriend. I cant even leave the house because i have watch my little sister. My mom thinks i am still a child even though i pay for everything I want and need. I want to get out of my parent's phone plan but my mother wont let me. I am going to do it anyway. I'm going to college in a few months and plan to move out. Any advice? I also fulfill my mom's responsibilities such as paying for my brother's school etc. i literally am independent now except for the fact that im still on their phone plan and i live with them and they pay for my insurance. I want to get my own insurance too but my mom wont let me because she wants me to be under her. But i dont see the point because even though im under their insurance and stuff, i pay for it. So basically its just under their name. Please I need advice.
Advice on Moving out at age 19?
Ever since I was a little girl I was pretty much outcasted from my family. My mom calls my brother her "Golden Son" and me..I'm just Michelle. My father has been very rude to me and selfish. He made me do all the chores and never appreciated me. He would always swear at me when I didn't do something right. Like if I left my bowl in the living room he would say "hey buddy wana move your **** out of the living room?" He intaganized me when I was little and when my mom wasn't around, he would follow me around the house and shove me. Yesterday was the straw that broke the camels back for me, he got angry for me because apparantly I dont pull my weight around the house with chores, which I do. He got really drunk and angry and he followed me around the house yelling and saying I was a piece of crap and he wanted me to "get the f*ck out of my house" My mom got worried when she saw him attacking me, she got in the middle of the fight and he shoved her, and I couldn't take that. She defended him after the argument and said I should have kept my mouth shut. So now that I am realizing that my mom doesn't care about his abuse and sticks up for him.....I think that makes her as low as him and I just want to get out now, plain and simple. So I was wondering, Whats my first step? I live in Toronto Canada and I want to move up north somewhere. Any advice on how to look for places to rent? What do I do for health insurance? Any advice from experience would be great. Sorry about the long story, I just wanted you to know my situation. Thanks Guys
I need some advice on how to move out of an apartment and move into a new one.?
Are you and your roommate both listed as tenants on one lease? If so, you may both be required to vacate at the same time in order for you to get out of the lease, even if it is month to month. Check your lease. Generally, there is a joint and several liability clause. This clause holds you both responsible for the rent, damages and notices. If you give notice, but your roommate stays behind, you can be named in an eviction suit if she fails to pay rent. Generally, a 30 day notice should include a full rental month. You should probably have a chat with your landlord to find out exactly what is expected of both of you.
What is some advice for an 18-year-old moving out with only a high school diploma?
Your goal is to find work where you can add value and enjoy the work. That's the magic formula...and you can start with any job...learn from it...give your employer good value...and if you don't find opportunities to advance and learn more, then move on to other places. This is an exciting time for you, Millicent, as you will quickly (withing a couple of years) hone in on where you add value and where you enjoy the work. After that, with two years of accomplishments and growth in your resume, you can decide if you want to take an online degree program. Good luck!
I'm moving with my boyfriend at 18. Need advice?
i'm currently 17, but im turning 18 in March. I'm moving out either in June or in March. My boyfriend is 20 and already has his own house. I really wanna move in an apartment, while going to college instead of a dorm. But with my lack of money that probably wont happen. He told me that he would move out of his apartment and move in with me to help me pay my bills. It sounds good to me, but alot of people keeps ttellingme that its to early to move in together. Some ask why i just ddon'tlive at home, and i told them because i hate my mothers rules, i wanna be independent. I need some advice. Is 18 to early to mmove-out And is 18 to early to move with my boyfriend?
What advice would you give to someone moving out for the first time?
I moved out when I was 21 years old, which is six months ago, and this was a rather important step that I had to move forward with. I never lived alone or away from home and this time I was moving to a different country on the whole. Here are some of my observations that might be of help to you.Carrying 3–4 months of expenses in the beginning is a very good idea. I did the same thing and I was glad I did not have to worry about paying the rent and other expenses as soon as I moved out.You might have to spend a lot in the first month on miscellaneous expenses which may include important daily needs. To figure out what you might have to buy, start mapping your day from the morning as soon as you wake up. For example, the first thing I need is a toothbrush → Toothpaste → Dental Floss → Coffee mug → Err, where’s the coffee powder?If you are going to live alone, get used to waking up on time, with the help of multiple alarms. You don’t want to miss an important class/test.Depending on your interests, you could stick some posters to make your room look better, at least for your own tastes.Since you are going to live alone, make assumptions on what groceries you might need and get them accordingly. You don’t want to get a gallon of milk and end up throwing it after a fortnight because it is past its expiry date.You’re away from home for the first time, find some good friends. Friends are like family away from home!I believe that living alone opens up a new side in us, which teaches us how to manage things on our own and act responsibly. The past 6 months have been amazing and I really like living on my own now. I hope your adventure goes great too!