My gf wants me to spank her? HELP!?
I really don't know what to do...my girlfriend of 2 months just called and said she wants me to spank her. She's coming in about an hour and I'm freaking out! I have never been spanked/spanked a person before and I'm not sure if I feel comfortable doing that to her. I can't imagine putting her in pain, and I'm worried that I'll do it wrong. I really like her, and I'll do whatever she wants me to, but how do I spank her???? I don't want to hit her hard, but what if SHE wants me to? Does she want to be over my lap, or in a different position? What if I hurt her? Please help!! How do I do this? PLEASE don't say to spank her with a brush etc., I would never do that.
Help me give some tips... I love her so much... i want to tell her... but donno how to start...?
i get to know her online. after some time of chatting and i asked her out... we have only met in person for 1 time only... we had dinner 2gather, watch a movie 2 gather... i wanted to tell her my love on our first meeting... but i did not tell her... i wanted to know more about her as well as for her to know more about me. i do not know whether does she has the same feelings i have for her? we did really had a good time 2gather... i'm planning to tell her my love soon in our next meeting but i do not know how she ll react. i do not know how to express my love for her? where should i bring? what type gift should i buy for her? i really want help her in acheiving her dream... she wants to become a fashion designer, want to work in paris... i have been searchin for universitys in paris for her to do her masters there... i got the infomations ready but haven't told her yet.i want to give her that as a suprise... help me... what should i do? how to tell her my love for her?
How do I tell my parents that I want to seek mental help?
Hi.I completely understand your situation. Let me tell you a few things that might help you.Convincing parents that you need mental help can be tough. Hence I recommend you to sit and talk to them about how you are feeling. Tell them how you feel on a day to day basis, tell them any physical discomforts such as chest pain (the one you have mentioned) that you are facing on a day to day basis. Talking to them about your problems out with them will help them realise the struggle you are going through.Gently ask them if they have any suggestion. Listen to them patiently. If they say “cheer up” or “it’s just a phase” or even things like “oh don’t worry everything will be fine eventually”, then make sure to show them some educational videos. I usually suggest the Ted Ed video because it explains depression in common terms. You can find the link here :It is important to make them understand that depression cannot be gotten over just by trying, exactly like how you cannot get well from fever by just “trying”.Make them understand that depression is “Curable”. The person only needs medication for 6–12 months (if the person is mildly depressed) to come out of it and live a normal life.If they are unwilling to listen or understand, then I would suggest you visit a “Psychologist” by yourself and explain your family situation to him/her. Convince your parents accordingly to come along with you and talk to the psychologist to understand your situation better.Look up psychologists in your area on Google. If you are a person who resides in bangalore then I would suggest you visit Dr Vidya Satyanarayanan in St. JOHN’S Hospital. She is available every Tuesday/ Friday. Make sure to calla nd take an appointment before you visit.Hope things work in your favour! :)All the best! :)
I want my teacher to know that I really appreciate her Help?
I already talk to her everyday. I always give her stuff and do her favors whenever she wants. But I don't want her to get the impression that I have a crush on her but I simply love her as a mother figure because im not really close to anybody else.
Girls opinion wanted- I want to tell her how I feel?
This is kind of long, but if you read it you are automatically awesome! There is this girl that I met a couple of months ago at college. I like her.... a lot. Like I can't stop thinking about her. She is awesome! She is so sweet and friendly. She is the coolest girl I have ever met by far. I just want to tell her how I feel even though I don't think she feels the same way. Right now we have a pretty good thing going because we are taking a hard class together and we need each others help. I don't want to mess that up. I think it would be pretty selfish if I screwed that up for her because honestly I am helping her more than she helps me. I was going to tell her sometime this week, but next week is spring break and she is going on vacation and I didn't want to do anything that might ruin that for her. But, now I don't know if I should even tell her. Would you want to know if someone felt this way about you? I know I would, but I think most guys would. Should I just tell her? Any suggestions would be very helpful because I am lost! By the way, it's not like she doesn't know me. We have each others numbers and we text every couple of days. We sit next to each other in class. We actually have know each other for about 8 years, but we have never really talked before this year. Thanks!
What should I do? I want to help her....but I don't know how?
I am so sorry you and your girlfriend have had to suffer at the hands of a truly vile person. You are not unworthy, or weak, or any of those words, okay? You are both just victims to this f**ked up world. You don't have to tell her if you don't want to - but know that if she loves you, she will not think any the less of you. But she did reveal her past to you, so call her when you get the chance and tell her you love her, and that you'll be there for her. If you want to tell her about what happened, that's okay. I find that talking things out with people who have been there, who can understand you, is really good therapy. . Honestly is a good thing. It's going to be okay.
My best friend has been sad. I want to help her, but I don't know the problem and I want to give her space. What do I do?
It’s hard for people who are so caught up in their own problems to see that others love them. They hurt too much and turn inward. They create isolation. Sometimes they strike out and hurt the ones they love the most or who love them the most. No one expects you to say the perfect thing all the time so if you say something thoughtless, apologize, offer to make amends and move on. If they refuse your true and heartfelt apology, just move on. They are choosing to hold the grudge for whatever reason. If you love this person - you say you are best friends - then let them be angry, ignore anything hurtful they say as part of their problem and just be there. You need not say a thing. Just be there. Bring a tablet or a book and just sit nearby and read. Many times when people hurt they need to be within themselves, but it’s a lonely thing. Your just being there, without even saying a word, is a source of enormous unseen comfort and when they do get the strength or the courage to look up, there you are, ready to support them and listen to them. That’s what friends do. They nurture their friends even when their friends are hurting enough to strike out at them. It’s hard to be the butt of their pain and anger and it’s hard to be ignored but sometimes being a friend means taking one for the team. No one expects you to be the consistent whipping post - at some point even you have to leave a situation where a “friend” is constantly abusing you. But if you believe in the friendship, you can leave on friendly terms for awhile, tell them you will give them space, and that you will check in on them soon and let them know you are there for them. Real friends will allow this kind of love and support to settle in deeper than their pain and eventually recognize what you are doing for them and acknowledge it. It’s noble that you want to be there for your friend - but that doesn’t mean you have to do anything but just that - be there.