For guys, why do you ignore the woman you like after the first date? Even after you said you want to see her a few more times in the next month? Why show intention & then disappear?
I’m a guy and I’m guilty of doing that, here’s why.I’d been texting a classmate for a month now and it was nice until I realized I was the one starting the conversation and keeping it going. I freaked out a little but thought that maybe I hadn’t given her the time for her to want to text me, so I stopped texting her at all. A week passed and she hadn’t texted. Didn’t put much care to it and went with my plan of asking her out. I thought that if she was just texting me back to be nice she would definitely reject me asking her out on a date. She didn’t.After our first date I thought that perhaps she would reach out to me saying that the evening was nice or something of the sort. It didn’t happen, so 3 days later I texted her saying I enjoyed the evening and would love to take her out again. In my head she was bound to be a little more interested in me and start texting me. NOTHING.She agreed to a second date but still no outward interest from her. Here’s where I decided to distance myself a little. So now I’m not texting her same as before because I don’t want to seem desperate for her (I am but I want to be subtle.)Anyways, what I’m trying to say is that don’t make it harder for him (no pun intended.) And I’m not saying you are deliberately trying to make it difficult for him, but we men can’t take hints.So take the initiative for this once and reach out to him, we love when you women seek us.
Does ignoring a guy make him want you more?
Hey there little lady, I am sorry to tell you this, but really in some cases it does work and then in others it back fires. Little lady, all you need to do is live your life and not worry about anyone but you. Pretty much what has happened was that he felt something being there at that moment and he wanted you. You never mentioned sex in here so I am going to assume that there was none of that. But if there was, then thats what it was mainly about. But thats only if you and him had sex after the fact that he asked you to get back with him. But you have a whole life ahead of you, do not sit around waiting on one giy that may already made up him mind not to come back to you or wanting nothing then to be friends and maybe with benefits, thats one is up to you if you go that route. But work on you.
Is he mad at me because I ignore him?
I like him but I don't think he likes me back so ignore him because I thought it was a right thing to do (I don't want to be awkward or annoying). Eventually the next day he ignores me, too! He walked pass me without even looking at me and his eyes look forward. Normally he wouldn't do this, though...he at least look at me!
Should I ignore him after he hurt me?
Personally, I don't go for the cold, silent treatment: I prefer the hot, "Give-him-hell-and-kick-his-ass" version (not literally). I don't like guessing games—I don't think they're fair. How does he know what he did? Maybe there's a reasonable explanation—sometimes there really is a misunderstanding. I have a temper, but people know I'm a fair person and reasonable person, and I'll admit when I'm wrong. And I'll say something to your face.So I say: Lay your cards on the table. Life is too short. Let him know what's on your mind, and allow him the courtesy to respond. He isn't a swami, and you aren't the Dalai Lama, to whom offerings are made. Give the man a break.
Does ignoring a guy make him lose interest?
Okay so my ex and I broke up because his mom forced him too because of grades but, he told me he still loved me. Then the nest day I attempted to text him and he was just a complete douche. I tried joking around he was just like I'm really not in the mood. Tried asking him why he was mad wouldn't say. Pretty much he was just saying yea. Then I just stopped texting because he obviously didn't want to talk. But I just don't think I'm going to talk to him today and maybe not tomorrow either. If I just ignore him for awhile will he lose interest or will he miss me? and then maybe he would want to talk to me more. I'm just tired of starting the conversation and dealing with him being an douche. I want to make it work but I want to be treated better
I wish I agreed to have sex with him cause now he ignores me, what can I do?
First lets get everything you said out of the way and concentrate on the fact that he has not responded to you when you refused to have sex with him. You came to the conclusion that this means he must like you. Hun, all this means is that his interest in you was only for sex. When you did not comply he lost interest. Remember, do not get confused, his only interest was for sex, nothing more. He would have used you and then go on his merry way. Now, a guy that is interested in you for a relationship would have not put a road block by saying he had a fiancee. Get this clear, if he made it up, then so what, he said it because he was not interested in a relationship with you. Hun, You sound so anxious and desperate that I am afraid you are allowing all your emotions drive you in the wrong direction with this. You are not seeing the truth here. This guy is not interested so please for your sake try and accept this. It is his lost, so don't take it personal. Now save your time and energy on a guy that will truly work hard to be with you, not the other way around. Good luck to you!