I Was Used And I Feel Horrible Help Me

I feel so horrible about myself:( HELP?

So i went to the high school to get my schedule and i was supposed to meet my friends in the school. So im in 9th grade now im not used to high school yet. I was walking in at this large group of guys were staring at me and saying horrible stuff. LIke your fat and a donut and yeah:( but i didnt know the guys, they seemed like they were in 10 or 11th grade. Im 5'8 and 170 pounds. now all i feel like doing is starving myself. But i dont know if i shoud because my friends said thats how guys think your gonna talk to them. So maybe they wanted to talk to me. but i dont know nothing about guys in high school thats why i need lots of HELP. Thank you

I feel horrible and fat, please help me :'(?

The problem with this thinking is that weight is the end all factor in your health an appearence. As a guy, I am actually trying to gain weight. I know this may seem odd, but the same volume of fat weights significantly less than the same mass of muscle. And from the activities you do, perhaps you are actually reducing fat, and gaining musicle. This is not unhealthy at all.

Now, if your diet sucks, here is a verry simple way to evaluate a new diet. Real food doesn't have a long shelf life. Real Food is fruits and vegitables, nuts, and things that are not processed. Do not come in a bag, a can, etc. Buy fresh FOODs. Not processed garbage.

My mom is making me feel horrible! Please help!?

My mom is a very depressed and up and down person ever since my dad left and her friends betrayed her. She works all day and when she comes home she is exhausted. I help her cook dinner by making different courses and she never likes to get up once she's lying down so I normally turn off the tv or the lights for her or put in her favorite movie. I try to be as good as I can to help my mom but maybe I'm doing something wrong. She had just finished watching her show and I needed her to sign some school forms. When I asked her she went crazy! She told me that she works all day and when she gets home she does everything while I sit down at the computer! She keeps saying that if she dies than everyone including me will be very happy if she's gone. When she says this I feel like the worst son ever. But sometimes she blames me for things she does. She had been exercising lately and her body is kind of sore. When I asked her to sign my form she kept on saying that her body is so painful and it's my fault because I keep asking her to do stuff. Then she sent me on another one of her suicide/dying guilt trips. She swears at me and one minute she tells me not to do something and the next she yells at me for not doing it! My mom is nice again just a few minutes later and I feel horrible for fighting. Can you please tell me how to treat my mom better so she can stop making me feel bad?

I feel horrible. Can someone please help me?

gosh. i'm sorry. try not to beat yourself up over it. you can't help your feelings.

here's some quotes :

1.What if i said you never mattered
that i never lost a moment of sleep
what if i crushed all of your dreams
and broke all the promises you swore to keep?
Tell me how your life would be
if i did to you what you did to me.

2.You did it again. You broke my heart again.
You promised you wouldn't do that.
Promised you'd always be here for me.
Promised you'd never hurt me.
And I trusted you. Again.
I was really stupid wasn't I?
- Jacqueline Kelly
Without you, I’m nothing. Without you
I’m suffering. Without you, I’m not whole.
Without you, I have no soul

3.Love is almost like suicide.
You give so much to that special someone
that you sometimes end up killing yourself inside

4.All I want to do is sleep because it
doesn't hurt when I can't think of you.

DON'T say all guys are pigs though, because as hard as it is to believe there ARE some good guys out there, and you'll come across one that will love you and treat you like a queen :]. Good luck!

I feel HORRIBLE! Someone please HELP me!!!!?

I'm not doing well right now, can someone please give me some advice?

I just moved to another state and started my senior year of high school. I love a boy back home, and we we are planning on enrolling into the same college and picking up where we left off. He's exactly what I've always wanted. :) Here in my new home I met this boy. He's very sweet, and funny, and respectful. He's a good friend. We went to a school event and were waiting just the two of us after for rides. We were joking around and having a good time talking. Then he hugged me and he kissed me on the cheek (that is a big thing here, it's the way of saying "hello"). He looked at me and I laughed and said "we already said hello!" and he said something then he kissed me. On the lips. I want to make it clear, I did not AT ALL kiss him back. I just pulled back. Then I felt really bad, I feel like I cheated on my boy back home and I'm not in a good mood right now. I didn't kiss him back! I pulled away and kept walking. Do I tell the boy back home? I'm upset at the thought that he will leave me. I couldn't handle losing him. Please offer some advice!!

I need help plz help me im beeging u i feel horrible?

First i wanna say congrats (maybe!) on the baby!!!
You sound like a good person, and you lead a good life, and although ive never had a depression problem ive dealt chronic anxiety and panic disorder for years....im only 24....you said you have been to a doc and they gave you some pills which didnt help, but did they give you the RIGHT meds? I dont wanna sound like a pill pusher but you COULD find the right medicine that would help you sooo much, but like in my situation it took trying so many different kinds to find the right one, it was hell, then finding the right dosage to fit your needs. You said it made you more depressed....big signal that it was totally wrong for you!!! Believe me if this happens with you--finding the right medicine--you will be so glad you did!!!
Sometimes meds arent always the answer, i agree w the person above who posted before me, find a doc who will just listen, and give you techniques to help you out and help you deal with how you feel. You like it because its what your used to ya know? You know your gonna be okay...hang in there,you got alot to live for. Im just glad you know it ;-)

I already feel horrible, please help feel a little better?

Please do not give them away on Craigslist! Dog fighters look for bait animals there, as well as people who are barred from adopting from shelters. Most animal shelters keep files on people who have gotten in to trouble for abusing and neglecting animals. When someone comes in to adopt, they fill out an adoption form, before they are allowed to leave with an animal the files are checked. So chances are people who come to you are doing so because they can't adopt.
I agree with Lynn. I love kitty's, but every day 7,000 cats are euthanized in America because there just aren't enough homes. They are not better off being left in the wild either. Cats have been bred to be pets. They are our responsibility for allowing the population to get out of control. Outside there are so many awful ways to go- starvation, exposure, predators, disease, cars, sick people who shoot or poison them...
So, I know it feels awful, but you are doing the responsible thing as well as giving them the kindness of putting them down without pain.

I feel horrible... and i can't tell anyone. Please help me.. random people that i've never met?

Wow, that's a lot of things to cover. Anyway, thought that a guy's perspective might help. First of all, when a lot of guys 'hit on you' or whatever and you don't respond that shows everyone around you that you are not available. I know that it sounds funny but if a guy that you like notices that you are turning other guys down it is going to cause him to fear the chances of being rejected as well. You said that you really don't like any of these guys...then again how to you really know? Meaning that when someone asks you out they are probably nervous and not really being themselves anyway if they are halfway normal. It usually takes a while before people start showing who they are, give them a chance even if you are not interested. It will help you to understand more about how the dynamics of a relationship work and....I am not trying to be funny here...it will also help you to find out what you don't like if that makes any sense. This does not mean that you are desperate, it will show you the guys you like that you are available and will encourage them to approach you. You know, it is something funny about guys if we see a woman who has other men around her it means that she is desirable and maybe worth sticking our neck out for. There is a lot more that I could say, but last of all....as far as your guy friend goes he may have hoped for something more than friends but been afraid to make a move. that change of attitude could have been because he lost hope of that....I have done this myself and know a LOT of other guys who have. As far as your friends go, you can tell a true friend anything without having to worry about being ashamed of it....if not they are probably the type who would ditch you if things went ill. I would tell them and let the chips fall where they may, at least then you would know who your real friends are...and you could be underestimating them. Anyway, hope that helps....next time you hug this guy friend just try kissing him on the cheek, I know two 'friends' who ended up married because she dared to pull that one on him. Best Wishes -Leaky

Why do i always feel horrible? do i have depression? please help me!!!?

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im 19 years old and female and i think i need help...i think i have social anxiety and/or depression AND INSOMIA I THINK TOO. im pretty shy to begin with. i have a job in the public so i work with customers all day...and i hate it. i look more like 17 and so i think people dont take me seriously....even though i dont act childish or anything. i really hate it. i feel like im just a joke...and people look at me like im alien...im not even deformed or anything..i hate it. people always rush me and stuff. im starting to feel more and more uncomfortable too. i can barely stand being in a social situation anymore. and i pretty much feel like giving up on trying to make friends. i feel really embarassed...and people who used to talk to me, talk to me less and less. that always happens. i feel like i did something wrong. i feel so terrible and sick now. im not in college so i work full time. im going to college in the fall. anyways...i get kind of nervous, and sometimes blush but not badly in social situations or i look down and i just wanna hide and i feel like i can barely talk. i pretty much feel like dying almost 24/7. i dont have any friends. i pretty much just sleep until 2pm then get ready for work and i usually get home at 11 30 pm then repeat. i keep sleeping way too long ....and i dont do it on purpose. i feel so tired...i usually dont have time to eat before work. i feel horrible. i have trouble sleeping at night. i dont even feel i have the energy to try and make friends in college. any kind of relationship is just too hard. no one likes me and i can barely function. its getting worse everyday. i want to be able to feel rested and get good sleep and fall asleep and also feel relaxed in social situations and not so worried but i want people to like me. im not mean at all...just people are embarassed to be around me for some reason. when i wake up after sleeping too long, i feel crappy like a truck hit me or something....

what to do...any medicines to take for this? i cant take it much longer. also i have nothing to look forward too except "oh yay i get to go to work where people dont like me and i get embarassed in front of customers all day and feel crappy" then go home and sleep. fun.

please help...i want to die i hate this so much....