I am fed up with current situation i have in my life?
hey guys since last few days I've got bored with my life the way am living, i have a full time job 8-4 after job am just totally free wana start back my University but when ever i am thinking of study i'm getting Stacked, in fact i have much choices to do but when i am planing to do one of them i can't do them ,meantime something else is making me really confuse and thats love, i had a friend relation was just friendship then she proposed me of love and i rejected her because i didn't want to get married, now i am always thinking of her i am also fallen in love and still the problem is that i can't marry her finally i wanna forget her but thats sounds like impossible for me Any Idea to change my Life please!!!!!!!!!! sorry for bad English
Would you choose Career/Education over love ?
If you're in love with the right person, you want to make an effort to fit him/her into your life. And in the right relationship you shouldn't have to choose between that person or your career/education. In other words, if the person you're with is right for you, he or she shouldn't demand so much of your time that you have to drop your career or put off your education, but by the same token you shouldn't be so career-focused that you ignore your partner's needs. I've chosen to have both a career and love. I'm happy. If you're not ready to share your life with someone else right now because you're busy, then it's best that you're honest with yourself and other people about that. But, trust me, when the right person comes along you'll want them to be a part of the life that you're building.
Do you regret choosing love over career .... or career over love?
You can have both. I am an attorney and married to the only man I ever dated. I met him when I was in law school and I let him court me the old fashioned way. He was already a successful attorney. We got married after I graduated. I was a virgin on my wedding night. We have been married for 10 years. Never sacrifice your education for a man. You need to have your life and career or at least the option to immediately start a career BEFORE you become a wife. Good Luck!
My stupid thoughts are about to ruin a good relationship.. HELP?
I am divorced, and have a boyfriend now for 3 years. I have some trust issues, while I was never cheated on, he lied to me, and I feel like my ex didn't really love me but used me. anyways, I have all these stupid thoughts that my current boyfriend is doing the same thing and will leave me when he finds someone better or he is cheating. I know this has to do with issues from my past. I mean my boyfriend isn't very social, he has a few friends and rarely goes out, when he does go, he goes over to see his brothers or sister, he spends his time at home or with me. I currently know the password to his cell phone, I didn't before but he got a new phone several months ago and showed me the password when we were playing around with the phone, he lets me play games on his phone if I want, it isn't common I can't reach him by phone or text to talk, he wants to switch keys for our houses and we are discussing moving in together.. ( he is currently unemployed and wants to have a job and have things more together before we live together- although he has slipped once and said he could move in to my small house with me where before it was a complete no because I have 2 kids there is just no room left - we talked about it and he said he was just scared at the moment, thinking worst case scenario. but i have told him many times I do not want to move in or get married because we want to save money or for any other reason than we simply want to and he agrees and respects that ) He also considers my kids. and the fact I have kids and knows my kids come first. Prior to him losing his job, we were planning a trip out of state and when I said did you want to fly for a long weekend or take longer and bring my kids- he chose to drive and bring the kids. anyways, I have issues I need to resolve for my own sake.. I know he isn't cheating and loves me.. I mean- do you see any reason why I should worry about him cheating or leaving? so how do I stop this stupid way of thinking?
A couple who loved each other truly had to get married to someone else due to family pressure. How do they feel about it now?
The couple loved each other still got married to someone else…this happens in many cases..some of the couples end their life because they cannot see their partner living with someone else..they only want to live with each other.Some of the couples move on after geting married…they cannot completely forget their love..but when they get married..they have their own family..so they try to be happy as they are..It is very very difficult to leave your loved one and get married to someone else…only the ones who have experienced it can tell exactly how it feels…when tou are in love with someone..you imagine your every moment with them…you feel as if you want them every second…you cannot inagine living with someone else other than your partner….But because of the family pressure..some couple have to do this…i think this is the familys mistake…when you separate two loved ones…God never bless them..it is the worst sin i suppose..Being seperated from your partner is the worst feeling ever…i cannot even imagine a single secind without my girlfriend…she is my breath…wherever i will go..she will be with me…and i am gonna marry her..thats for sure…It is the responsibility of the family members to understand where their daughter or son is happy..if they are happy with a particular person…they should let them marry to him/her.People should try to understand the beauty of love…because it is the best experience abyone can have..:it is the best feeling anyone can ever feel. It is the best of all.Hope it helps!:)