Would you be mad when you hear a family member talking about you having an anxiety to someone?
If you trusted your family not to share it with anyone, I would be livid. Before I shared my condition with any others (only 4 families and one of those is my brother) Unless I had made it clear it was not to be shared, and I believed them when they said it woulnd’t be would I share it with anyone. Both my brothers and my sister in laws know of my condition, I have 4 nephews 1 9 years old, 3 others, 18, 22 and 26. My nephew Zachary, 22, is a cadet at West Point. He is the only family member who is younger than 50, who knows about my condition. My family got together for Christmas and he was told once he got back about me. His brothers know nothing about my condition. He was told, the good, the bad and the ugly about my condition (yes so I am a big fan of Eastwood films). He doesn’t treat me any the less.
Why did my brother stop talking to me?
I am a teenager and my brother is 2 years older than me. he stopped talking to me about 3 years ago, for no reason ,and everytime i tried to talk to him, he wouldnt answer me. eventually i stopped trying to get him to talk to me, and now i feel very akward and uncomfortable when i am near him, just like if we were enemies why does he hate me? why isn't he ever going to talk to me again? this is driving me crazy because i cant do anything about it! was it something i did to him? i dont know anything i did wrong to him when i was younger, and we used to be so close, too, when we were younger. PLEASE HELP!
Do you have friends or family members that are "clingy"?
I have no clue as to why people are like this but I do know it drives me absolutely CRAZY. I have also come across friends and relatives who expect me to be at their beck and call, but Heaven forbid if the shoe is on the other foot and they are busy...then it is a totally different story. I always maintain kindness as I try to explain that sometimes I just have other obligations. But there are still those that become offended no matter how kind I try to be. My mom is VERY clingy, to the point where I have actually said to her..."I am sorry mom, but I am not here on earth to entertain everybody" I have tried to get her involved in other things, but she still insists on having me for her every need. I suggest that you just continue to be firm but remain kind. And offer to give them time at specific times when you are available. Good Luck
Husbands ex girlfriend still talks to his family members? plz help!?
I don't get it. She adds them on facebook, and talks to them. At first i didn't really care until she tryed to contact my husband and "congrat" on our baby. I didn't like it at all, i just don't think its right to have ex's still a part in your life. I seen somewhere in his high school memory book that she was his first love... that's why it has got me ticked!! I told him not to talk to her anymore and told him how i felt, and as far as i know he hasn't and respected what i said. His ex still talks to his family members and i seen that my sister is law called her sis...little tings do not bother me but this has got me ticked! What should i do? Advice needed bad!
How do you handle a situation where a family member slams doors loudly but doesn't want to talk about the problem or even to you?
Obviously, she has an issue with you. My father would often slams door and walk away when he can’t express what he feels.Confront her. Does not matter if it will turn into a fight, does not matter if she will yell at you. She will most likely confess and tell you her issue. When she does, you can talk her out to freely express her emotions next time she will have an issue.
When someone suddenly stops talking to you without any reason what does this mean?
It could mean a multitude of things !1)They used to enjoy your company and your conversations but now they no longer do .2) You did something that upset them terribly and they don't think its worth explaining to you what the mistake was.3) They had an ulterior motive right from the beginning and that's why they started talking to you ! Now either the purpose is solved or it is no loger necessary.4) They had a crush on you thinking you were single but they realised you are comitted and are no longer interested in you .5) They just now got to know a part of your character that they completely loathe.6) They were your pen or chat friends, you met recently and your face-to -face personality and behaviour was completely different from what it used to be over messages, and they don't like it .7) They hated you from the beginning , wanted to teach you that it hurts to suddenly stop talking especially after you’ve been close.8) Your common acquaintances said something really bad about you that they no longer want to talk to you .9) They want you to miss them .10) They're playing a prank .11) They want to give you a surprise in the near future and they think not talking to you for sometime before that and then attempting a thoughtful gesture , adds to that element of surprise .12) They're reeeeaaaaaaallllllllyyyyyy busy .13) They are somehow mentally depressed and are distancing themselves from everyone not just you .14) They made a huge mistake, don't have the guts to own up and also can't bear to hide it from you when you talk , so they avoid you completely .15 ) They already told you the reason symbolically before they stopped talking , but you didn't catch it.
What if someone suddenly stops talking to you without even giving a reason?
I might be really odd to find out that person you left normal yesterday has turned in to a stranger, I know how you feel and you must be thinking that what could possibly go wrong . As a result there might be a couple of reasons if someone suddenly stops talking to you without even giving any reason.First of all you need to understand that talking to someone is a way of communication, if someone has stopped talking to you that means He/She doesn't want to communicate with you and you need to find out the reason why.One of the foremost reasons could be that the other person finds or have found something really offensive or have not enjoyed a major part of the conversation with you , and instead of confronting it to you they are being polite and just cutting off their communication with you.Another reason might be that the person had confronted the reason that might be an excuse for blocking the communication but you haven't realized it subconsciously. Note : this is in a case when the person has not told you directly of what He/she was offended fromOne more reason could be that the person might have told you the fact the does not feel comfortable with something but you never took it seriously and now is the point that the other person thinks that you are just being ignorant.This is the most important reason. There are many cases when people are overly depressed and thee best way out they see is to cut off social contacts. This is one of the most common things happened in my cases. So the whole not talking to you thing might not even concern but it just might be something else that must be bothering you. I’ll just give you an honest advice. See, life is very unpredictable, I might die the moment I press send after writing this article. So just g and confront the person, Sitting back thinking about the possibilities wont result anything good .The best part is that you still care about your friend =) Most of people have ego issues and they don't, You're a nice person Best of luck !