Erection while grinding, do girls like it and how do you dance with it?
I was at my first high school dance a few days ago and everyone was grinding. I've never really had any experience with girls before this dance, besides getting rejected. Although I did manage to grind with a few girls that night, but every time I did I got a *****. I asked my friend about it and was shocked as if it was the worst thing anyone could do. I did read that if the girl keeps dancing with you after you get hard that means she likes it. It seemed at the time that most girls liked the feeling, but I was wondering if there was anything one should do differently when they have a ***** or if they even liked it at all?
Does a guy getting hard while your grinding(dancing) bother you?
I was at a dance and girls were grinding .so i started dancing with her and during the song i got hard but it was tucked in a flat like position so it might give the girl the idea it was a beltbuckle.Just wondering Anyway the questions are can you feel the erection Does the erection bother you And how do you dance like ( i know at my homecoming dance some girls were like bent fully back grinding on guys)
What are some dance alternatives at a High School instead of grinding?
this is humorous which you asked that because of the fact I basically had my 2nd senior promenade on Friday... and my first final weekend. properly i've got been to 4 homecomings and 2 proms in Texas and Georgia. the two colleges that i attended have been very strict approximately PDA and gown code, yet dancing became into yet another concern. i don't comprehend of absolutely everyone who have been given interior the slightest subject for even the main provocative dancing. I incredibly have even considered people blatantly grinding and making out on the dance floor. in an attempt to respond to your question, maximum probable your college ought to not care much less with regard to the dancing at dances as long as you reside for the main section clothed.
School dances /grinding question?
Alright, I guess I'm going to be the only one to answer this differently... bring on the thumbs down!XDDD Let me make this very clear first and foremost. First, I'm not and have never been sexually active, nor have I ever drank, smoked, or done drugs. Second, most of this is exclusive to my high school days (I'm 19 in college now... I rave, but you don't want to grind random people there...). And here are my answers: 1. Sure. As long as everyone is okay with it, it's fun! 2. I did. I don't know why it was fun. The music and atmosphere gives everyone a lot of energy, and I tend to be a pretty touchy-feely person anyway. I never thought of it as being very sexual, but more as a release. I've always been one of the geeky girls (proud of it!) and dances were a way to just be WILD! And it really isn't sexual. I would usually grind with my sister, just because she was best at itXD We would have a whole line going, with no order to guys/girls. It was all in good fun. 3.N/A 4. Never have, but my boyfriend said one time (Prom nonetheless) that he felt a mutual friend of ours...o_0. That's the only instance I've ever heard of, though. 5. I also "club dance" (not slutty club dancing, just moving to the music), jump/rave dance, and glowstick (although I'm trying to learn glowstringing right now).
Are you supposed to have a ***** when dancing with a girl?
If she didn't stop dancing with you once you popped up against her, then she probably liked it too. Personally I don't grind with guys I don't know since it bothers me when they get hard against me. As for a guy that I like and if he likes me too, then I like it if he gets a *****. ';-)
Is it okay to slow dance with your sister?
Your classmate is just pointing out a generalized rule of thumb, but the sort of socially constructed dances you are talking about should not be placed in the same league as "bumping" or "grinding." While one advantage slow dancing has in building up potential romantic feels is due to prolonged eye contact of the couple, you and your sister should be fine. Keep the mood light, talk or joke while you dance (after all, dancing is meant to be fun!), and don't worry about it so much. If it personally bothers you, try changing partners. For larger group dances, try positioning yourself away from her for the majority of it. When all else fails, "trip," say you "sprained your ankle," and spend the rest of the night at a table drinking "punch." Okay, not sure why I put that last part in quotes, but it just felt right. Just have fun tonight.
How to grind as in the dancing?
You just follow the girls lead so the same way or you can just stand there.. In my experience most of the one when I grind on a guy at a party I bring him over to the wall and he just stands against it while I dance on him! Good luck!
Girl and Homecoming Advice?
im a junior so im not an oldie, okay? hahaha. when you pick her up, comment on how she looks but dont overdo it. you can be general like, "you look gorgeous." dont get all nitty-gritty and complimenting everything; that'd be annoying. you talk to her on fb and school, so talk to her about what you usually talk about, but probably nothing class related. who wants to talk about grades on homecoming night? if there's awkward silence, turn on the radio and ask her what her favorite station is, what music genre she's into. or keep the radio (or your iPod) on the whole time. when a guy drove me home he did that and it wasnt as painful as silence bc we were singing the whole way hahaha. dancing. loosen up and be yourself. dont be too self-concious on how youre dancing, but dont be too crazy. in my opinion, the worst dancers are the ones flailing their arms everywhere haha. watch your buddies and see what they do. depending on how close you are with your date, you might grind. when a slow song comes on, ask your girl if she wants to dance. if she says yes, cool! (see a youtube on how to slow dance if you need advice on that.) if she says no, to save yourself from an awkward moment, be like, "okay im gonna get something to eat/drink... want something?" use the song as a time to catch your breath. corsages. nobody at my school gets corsages for homecoming, only prom. but i would ask your friends if theyre getting their dates corsages. HAVE FUN and have a great time!!!!!! :)
Need help planning for the next dance!?
ok, so here are a few ideas of mine (and i'm sorry if they don't work out for you...) ok, just wondering first of all... what grade r u in? jw.. 1. skirt is a good idea, but the whole tank and tee thing... u can do it if u want... here is what i normally do... if that girl was all over the guy u like in her short shorts and tight top, don't go slutty back, but accent ur accets. umpire waists can really flatter a lot of body types... they also draw attention to the chest... and if you are ever self consious about your stomach, a umpire waist with a flowy bottom is a great way to not feel like you have to suck it up every three seconds. a skirt would look nice. here are just a few examples i found online... http://img.auctiva.com/imgdata/2/9/9/1/8/9/webimg/97499357_tp.jpg http://cn1.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/8b/a/AAAAArG8jMIAAAAAAIuuRw.jpg ok, number two... mostly, the best way really is to just ask. just walk up and go, hey, u wanna dance? a convo might be better first, that way its not so random... 3. when it comes to older girls, all i can say is good luck. try to show up and start talking whenever she starts hanging on him, but if ur younger, telling her to back off probably won't go over too well... to impress him... start dancing. if ur friends refuse too, find some other people to dance with. if u look like ur having fun, then chances are, he will want to have fun too. -but really, how old r u? just cuz i am in high school, and i haven't been around people who don't dance since like 7th grade. really, the whole slow dancing thing, and people laughing? immature! next dance, if ur friends start doing that, ask, "what, do boys still have cooties?" go to a high school dance... slow dancing will probably be the most appropriate thing you will see. good luck! i know what u mean on the whole "be yourself" thing. sometimes it works... sometimes it really doesn't. i am totally guy shy, and ended up with a date to homecoming, cuz i just asked and he said yes. so sometimes, you just have to be bold and remember... everyone gets rejected. it may be embarrassing, and hurt, but in a few years it won't matter and youll be more confident. i hope this helps! have fun!