Have you ever felt strongly drawn (like a magnet) towards another individual?
I knew my husband, in a group setting, for several years. We were only friends. I admired his heart and mind, but never in a million years did I think we would be a 'couple'. I really wasn't attracted to him in 'that' way. Then, one evening, he came by alone and *zing* our friendship became a love affair! Oh, wow! For the first time in my life, I understood why every love song was written, what every poem to a lover meant, I understood love and it is dynamite! I understood how two can become one. These had been just words to me, but now....Wow. To this day (we have been married ten years) when I touch his hand, a thrill goes through me! This 'unseen' magic is a gift...from where, I don't know. We had both been on a spiritual path for years, we both love to dance, love music, love nature and have a thousand books! :) Our kitty cats are our babies...love them, too! Also, on a subtle level, we 'come from the same place'...I understand him, admire his mind. There are so many subtleties to all of this. It is a sort of magic. Edit: firefly, I think it's neat that you have a chameleon for a husband! ;) Love those kitties!
Should I friend this guy that I felt strongly connected to (but always missed the chance to properly introduce our names to each other) on Facebook?
Hi, being direct is great. You can send him a friend request. But your message maybe ignored in the other box. Just write, "Hi, I have met you on the campus a couple of times and would like us to be friends." For all you know even he has thought of you. Going through a common friend, as Patrick suggested is also good. It develops trust and acceptability faster as there is are common friends.Good luck.
What does it mean if I've never felt strongly in love with my boyfriend but feel comfortable and safe with him?
Wow, that means a lot.Feeling comfortable and safe is HUGE.‘Strongly in love’ is a fleeting stage of romantic relationships. It is the ‘junk food’ of your emotional life.Comfortable and safe is the meat, fruit, and vegetables of your emotional life.I met my spouse Hector in my mid 50’s. Now I am 60. At this stage of my life I don’t care about the ‘strongly in love’ stuff.I had that earlier in life, and never found it actually meant you were going to have a good relationship.. it was just hormonal fizzing and drama.
Why is it that I have such strong feelings for one girl that I have never felt for anyone else before?
Every so often that feeling happens for most of us. It might happen once in our life or it might be many times, that same feeling with other individuals.When you’re ‘involved’ your focus is typically on the object of your desire. As long as that focus remains you will feel they are the only one.One girl, like you say, might truly be strongly connected to you more than anyone before. She might trigger such a response that gives you that feeling. The feeling you never want to end. It could be triggered by visual or physical appearance, style, scent, their aura, emotionally, mutual attraction, common views or your imagination projecting whatever you want her to be.I think when people marry it’s often while they are still connected with this love focus, believing in a romantic sense it’s possible to stay that way for ever.The minute there is an issue where that thread is broken such as lack of caring, loss of trust, interest, harsh words, one flirting with others or having an affair etc, then your focus shifts elsewhere leaving you wondering why you ever felt so strong about that person. It’s easier to observe when you’re on the outside.So, whether it’s a major connection to this girl or reaction to the presence of that individual, i think love is still you projecting that feeling which mirrors back at you in some realityMy two cents? Begin on the sweetest note possible and enjoy the feeling for all it’s merit and don’t question why.Why is not important!
Have you ever had a dream where you felt a strong connection with a person ?
Some time ago I had a dream where I was with someone with whom I felt a very strong connection. It was as if I knew him very well and he did too. Now, I've never met this person in my life - In fact, I couldn't even figure out his facial features (they were blurred) - but he made me feel very good and positive about myself. It would be interesting to know if you've ever experienced something similar in your dreams? Did it come true?
Is it possible to feel a very strong energy from someone and they feel the same way?
Yes, absolutely. We are all made from energy. You can be very sensitive to people’s energies and receive information that you might not be consciously aware of but has been processed into your subconscious. Dreams can be a powerful way of transferring huge emotion packages of information into your awareness.If you are in love with someone, your energetic bonds of connection are very alive, aligned and tuned in. And yes, you can definitely be telepathic to his/her emotions and the other person will be telepathic to yours. These energetic relationship cords of connection always run both ways. The only exception is if one person in the relationship is ‘energetically’ pinching the cords because he/she fears the energy that is flowing to them.
When a guy says he has a strong attraction to you and he feels the vibes, what does “vibes” mean?
If you have to ask, then you don’t “feel the vibes” like he claims he does. He most likely “feels the vibes” like he does when he encounters most females: keep trying until it sticks.If you don’t also “feel the vibes,” then he’s just being a guy.Not sure how old or young you are, but have you not ever simply felt a strong connection when chatting with another guy, where you and he both couldn’t help from smiling a lot and you kinda know “something’s going on here,” and you’re pretty sure he feels it, too, but you don’t quite want to just acknowledge it openly?Them’s “vibes.” Pheromone connections, spiritual connection, a little lust connection, whatever. You’ll know when it happens.They’re rare, and they’re too important to ignore. Trust me.Good luck. ;)
How can we feel such a strong connection to a person we've never met?
Similarities.Last year I met a girl when I had just joined the college. For one week we sat in the same classroom but never interacted with each other. We met for the first time while registering for a society.“I love food more than humans”“Hey! Me too”“I thought cheating was illegal when I was a kid”“Dude! Me too”“I don't watch movies that often”“Seriously stop! You're scaring me. We are soul sisters”And then for the next one year I felt the strongest connection with her. Our similarities connected us in our first interaction.Emotions.Do you know why we connect to a certain Quoran even when we have never met them?That's because one their sufferings or joys matches yours. You can understand their pain because you yourself have gone through that.What's better to connect people than their emotions.
I fell in love with this guy while chatting.i have strong feeling for him.we have exchanged our pics and we?
Don't worry, I'm sure everything will turn out just fine! Just have patiance and wait for his responce. No need to feel depressed. But hun, please be careful with the internet. I hope you've atleast seen a cam instead of just a picture. Picture's are so easy to fake, I could be anybody I wanted to if I just went to myspace.com or buddypic.com etc etc. Make sure you really know who you're falling in-love with before you make any plans to meet up. And if you do, I strongly suggest bringing a friend along, a cell phone, and letting your family know where you are when you plan to be back! You can never be too safe with that sort of thing, even if you feel possitive it won't happen to you! But just for some inspiration on the net relationships, and some advice I'll let you know this.... I know of two people who dated online for a full two years, then met in person and have been together now for about 5 years in person! A lot of people don't see how you can fall in-love with someone merely over an emotional connection, but the net allows you to become so much closer to somebody so much more quickly than it does in person. You can open up to eachother so much more easily because there's not such a strong fear about being judged etc. And even on your bad days when you think you look like the most ugliest girl ever, you can still spend time with him without feeling gross. It really allows you to get to know the inside of eachother, then explore the outside instead of visa versa! But as I said before, just be careful, a lot of people who have net relationships don't take them seriously, are way differen't in person, and are fake. Just try to make sure you know for sure who this guy is, don't make moves too fast even if you're dying to take the relationship to the next level (meeting in person). And also, long distance relationships are the hardest things ever, so to keep it interesting explore new things to keep it active! Phone, letters, etc. I prolly just gave you a lot of information you're not even thinking about yet, or that hasn't come up due to not knowing his feelings, but it's always better to know before hand so you're prepared for if he does want to be involved! Good luck!