Overly attached girlfriend?
So this is a high school relationship I am currently in, and its been a year and almost 2 months. But I'm starting to realize that she is too attached. She told me where ever I go she goes so she doesn't let me go places with my friends that she doesn't even know without her going. Its kinda annoying. Also I get that people would celebrate monthly anniversaries but even though its been one year she still wants to do it. I have friends that are her friends too and they agree with me that it shouldn't be something she should do every month. Is she too attached?
I'm too attached to my girlfriend..?
The first thing you should know is that your deep feelings are very rare and beautiful. I congratulate you for that! Now for the problem: - you should understand that maybe she can not respond/be there every time. If you insist too much you could lose her. Not seeing her for 1 month or maybe forever is longer than one day or two, don't you think? :) - the problem is not her here and is not your love for her either. the problem is that you are insecure. insecure about yourself. you should find another things to do. not to forget about her, but to occupy your time when she's not around. play basketball with some friends, make new friends(boys), learn to play an instrument, read, go for a walk, do things that you know you'll like. things that attract you (except her), things that you would do if she never existed. I know it could sound hard to do, but it is better for your relationship and for you, and with a little bit of work I am sure you can do this! Start to believe in you, because she surely does. Be happy! You ARE with the one you love, you can spend time with her, you can respect her private time, you can do something else while she's not around. You don't have reasons to cry. I wish you the best! Later edit: Don't worry about Norman Reedus she'll get over it. It is just a star obsession, very common nowadays :)).
Girlfriend is scared to have sex because she'll get to attached.?
She's not ready, and the whole getting too attached story is just to try to get you to wait until she is. The best thing you can do is stop bugging her about it and wait.
Can friends have sex and keep the relationship on a friend level?
This is a very tricky question if you ask me. Sometimes this can work itself out into a wonderful FWB (Friends With Benefits) relationship or… it could destroy the friendship that you currently have. Even if it does blossom into a FWB your friendship will forever be changed. So that is something you really need to think long and hard about before you guys just jump right into bed. Oh another thing to think about would be lets say you guys decided a FWB is a good idea…you jump in bed…and then later on decided you dont want to sleep together anymore…Will you and your friend be able to hold on to that friendship? Not everyone can and thats ok but if you really value your friendship this is something to consider.If you want to talk more specifically abut your partner drop by my stream and send me a message :)Technically friends can; there’s nothing in the concept of friendship that prevents them from doing so. On an individual level, some people are able to be friends-with-benefits and some cannot help but become emotionally attached or detached, being entirely disoriented when their understanding of “friendship” and “sex” clashes. .I had a quite fun friends with benefits relationship over the summer. It was brief, as far as these things go, but we both went into it with the mindset of this will never turn romantic (we were both just off multi-year committed relationships and very gun-shy) and we ended up having a very good time together.
I've got a great girlfriend however I don't feel anything l anymore?
Perhaps, you have too much of a good thing, then you are feeling bored of her now. You are not facing a challenge and neither a threat from her and so perhaps, you lost interest. In other word, being with her is not thrilling anymore.Almost all relationships have reached that stage of staleness, especially, once you become too familiar to each other . You know everything about the person- flaws and strength; the relationship loses its spark. No more mysterious stuff between the two people. Nothing much too explore between the two of you, that is why you know, many marriages collapsed, parted and end in divorce.Many people said having different interest of a couple is a good thing because once they get together, they have so much thing to talk about. However other people have different opinion, otherwise. Other people have thought that a couple should have the same interest in life to keep relationship happy, fulfilling and lasting.If I were you, do not drop her just yet. If you were no longer enjoying her company, just keep your distance-do your own thing and let your girlfriend to do her own thing. Have a space with each other. Maybe, that is all you need to kick your enthusiasm to her.If you drop her now, you may regret. Do not make a quick decision.All relationships are not plain sailing. Smooth and rough patches are parts of it and so think about it carefully.You cannot find a person that will excite your spark at all times. Therefore, be a realistic.
How to not get attached to my friends with benefits?
I just recently became friends with benefits with this guy ive been crushing on for a very long time. i mean serious crushing. We had talked about how we were just gonna have fun with each other and not let it get complicated. I just got out of a relationship with the father of my two yr old. My crush made it obvious he wasnt rdy to deal with a child even though i said he wouldnt have to plus he said our lives are on different paths so we probably last if we tried. im trying to enjoy this while it lasts. i barely see him and we barely talk but when we do its a super high for me and i cant stop smiling or feeling the happiest ive ever been. i love him so much but dont wanna ruin our friendship and scare him away. i need tips on how to not let my feelings get out of control so i can enjoy this time hes willing to give.
Can you ever truly be friends with your ex? Even if you want to be friends, can you really become the best of friends?
No. Definitely not if you still have true feelings for them.There are so many possible reasons for this.You still have deep feelings for them and you still love them no matter what has happened . You still love them for who they are and somehow they don't share those feelings anymore.You can't fake like you aren't hurt by their decision. Most of the time it hurts, but you respect their decision and stay away. Sometimes you try your best and they fail to realize, so you stay away.What does friendship mean? You actually can talk about all possible things in the universe. Will you be able to talk to her/him about some other person that she/he can actually be involved with? You can never if you truly love them. So there you get an answer of why you can't be friends. Friends are honest and you can never fake honesty with the one you love.You will always love the person if you love them truly from the bottom of your heart. If they have decided to end it, and after you have tried enough if they still end it, friendship isn't possible for a while. One can be mature to atleast have hi bye kind of interactions, but some people aren't even willing to do that.May be you don't want to see her guilty or hurt. This is one of the main reasons why I stay away from her. I can't see her hurt anyday. I still love her but in silence. Can't just be dishonest by being like a friend. That's dishonest to both her and the friendship.We can't be like before. Love makes emotional connection and attachment stronger. But when that person wants to leave, you question yourself, love, life and everything. You simply cannot be friends with the one you truly love. We can care as a friend, but can't fake like a friend and be opportunistic.Finally, friends can be lovers, but you can't be just a friend with someone you genuinely love.
What do you do when you miss your ex-girlfriend?
First, im sorry about your breakup…..it hurts like crazy and everyone around doesnt really GET it.I can understand, its just something that you need to make your peace with.A few things you could do to stop missing her-Do not see her for a few months. Staying friends is an urban myth. You can be a good acquaintance, but never a friend especially if you harbour feelings for her.Delete pics. If that seems daunting, transfer all her pics to a file in your laptop, but get it off the device that you regularly access.Contrary to popular belief, you should visit all the places you did as a couple. It will get you to detach from the memories attached to the place. With time that is. Atleast in the future it wont feel like a punch if you suddenly get to a regular hangout.If possible, unfriend or unfollow her from all social media accounts. You know what, ask YOUR friends to do the same.Stop talking to her friends. Completely. Dont want to end up talking about you-know-who.With time, you will forget her. Little by little. Have a little faith.You dont need to be a mature adult over it. Feel free to be angry at stuff….just do it in front of people who love you. People who dump can afford to be dignified about the breakup. If you are suffering fron a broken heart, no one expects that from you.Hope i helped :)
I don't care about having friends and I don't get attached to people. Can anyone else relate?
I can relate exactly to what you are saying. There are a lot of people in this world, and I have tried really hard to connect with them. But I don't have any "friend-friends" either. I have a lot of acquaintances, but I have realized that I don't want or need close friends.Most of it is because previously my close friends either took and took and took from me and I realized that they really didn't want my friendship, just my stuff. Or they tried to give me advice, and when I made choices that didn't agree with what they had told me to do, they would get really mad. I actually told one person to stop trying to be my mom or my personal shrink!Some of us just thrive on independence, and solitude. Maybe you are one of those persons.