What should I do if my crush has a crush on my best friend?
HiI have read almost all the answers given over here for this question...But actually I am not here to give an answer to this one.” Just to make myself relaxed” I think u got it....Even if I give an answer I am sure that no one will agree to it. (there may be exceptions..) . As the answer will be as usual ‘forget him /her and be happy for ur friend' The real truth is that we will be not able to do so.. Forgetting a person is not that easy as others think. It becomes even more difficult if that's the one we like..There is no answer to this question which can bring a smile in ur face.. Everyone will be saying or advising us the same as I mentioned above.. But the real pain behind, that can be felt by one who has gone through the situation..So one thing on which we can rely is Hope... And that's the only hope...I am pretty sure that everyone will not be able to relate to this article...One thing which is to be made sure is our approach.. Don't be rude... Be calm as usual and treat them nicely. This matters..The only thing I can say is don't loose hope. May be these all are the part of our life which can lead to something else which can be much more interesting....
I have a crush on my best friend. What should I do?
You’ve caught feelings for your best friend. Now what? Do you ignore it to preserve the fridship? Or do you take a chance and tell them? Growing romantic feelings often become hard to ignore if not addressed head-on, and when a friendship is involved, a crush can feel like nothing but an inconvenience. Telling your long-time friend that you have feelings for them is risky business, so here are some questions to consider:If you do tell him/her, do you have legitimate reason to believe that your long standing friendship will be ruined?Will not telling him/her continue to eat you alive?If you tell him/her and you’re rejected, will you be able to accept it and move on with the friendship as is? Will they?If you tell him/her, hey admit mutual feelings and want to start a relationship, are you both willing to accept the risk that if something goes wrong, your friendship will likely face permanent damage?If you and your friend have a long history, you probably have very little to lose by telling them, even if the outcome is not what you hope for. After many years, you both probably value the friendship enough to not let a little crush ruin it. However, be prepared for anything. If you know the risks and decide to spill the beans, remember that they are first and foremost your best friend. Don’t back them into a corner. Don’t pressure them. Don’t give ultimatums. If they don’t share your feelings, respect it, and accept that there is little to nothing you can do to change their mind. Make sure they know that no matter what, you will still value their companionship just as it is.
Im gay and have a crush on my friend?
When you say he doesn't mind if you kiss him, what kind of kiss are we talking about? On the cheek? On the mouth? With tongue? If you don't want to just ask, try moving a bit forward with the contact. If you kiss him on the cheek, kiss him on the mouth. Hold the hugs a little longer. See how he responds. It should be pretty clear if he is comfortable with it or not.
I have a crush on my gay guy friend?
To start, I think this crush is the most futile thing I have ever heard - he's gay. He doesn't date girls. By you "not accepting" his sexual orientation, you are basically telling him you don't accept him. Period. That's not even a good friend. You should learn more about being gay in today's world (It's not even a fad - it's been around for thousand of years, can you believe it?) and ignore this crush, it will only ruin your friendship, if it wasn't already.
I have a crush on my friend's best friend. What should I do?
Enjoy it!Having a crush is a beautiful feeling, enjoy the phase and don't overthink about it. There is no harm in it. In fact, having a hopeless crush on someone is the most freeing and exciting feeling in world, as long as it is harmless. Do not overthink and give yourself a hard time by analysing a simple and natural feeling of a healthy heart and mind.If you expect something in return, then a problem might arise. So just come clean to your friend and tell him/her about how you feel. Be honest, a “friend” will understand.Who knows, something beautiful might be in store in the future!
Is it weird that I have a crush on my friend?
This is coming out of personal experience. Feelings are not meant to be kept inside. It’s always best to tell someone if you like them.Life is too short to not take a chance, before you know it someone else might have taken the step you were supposed to.You end up shutting out a beautiful path that your life could’ve taken.
What can I do if I have a crush on my friend but she already has a boyfriend and their relationship is really strong?
Thank God! you said you have a ‘Crush’ on your friend. If you would have said that you are in ‘love’ with that friend,then my friend it is really a concerned issue.First figure it out whether she is your crush or you are in love with her. If you have a crush then you need to understand that you can have crush on anyone. Who knows you find someone more attractive and beautiful girl in the future,then your interest would shift towards this new girl. In case you have a crush and you express your feelings to your friend, if she is a sensible girl then she can mitigate the problem by having mutual discussion. If she takes it in a wrong way saying that ‘I always liked you as a friend and I did not know that you think like this!’ or she can say ‘I have a boyfriend and I love him and I think you are jealous of him’ and many more things can come out of her mouth which may worsen your situation my friend!Beware of the consequences of your moves. Be a secret admirer of her and protect and support her. It is my personal experience that girls share more with you when you are their best friends. When you take the position of their ‘boyfriend’ , they become extra conscious about what to share and what not to. If you find that the girl is happier with her boyfriend and he is also honest with her. Then you should feel happy for her. And in the end note one thing that she has a ‘gem’ like you in her life, that is going to be there cherishing her in all ups and downs.
I have a crush on my best friend, we're both girls. What should I do? :(?
OMGOSH! same thing happening to me right now. i have a crush on my best friend, we are 17 girls. i think its just a phase. i consider myself straight and my best friend is definitely straight too. the problem is that nowadays, it is very common for teen girls to act "in love" with other teen girls. we say "love ya" and we put married statuses on facebook and hug a lot and stuff like that. it seems lesbian to an outsider even! but that doesnt mean that we are all lesbian. its just a phase, and im not worried about it. did u know there is a thing called a girl crush? watch Jenna Marbles youtube videos. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylVlkv1el... i would not tell your friend that you have a crush on her. she is most likely straight and would find that creepy. just go along with life and accept that this is just a phase. enjoy it when she hugs you and stuff like that! haha hope this hhelps!
I have a crush on my enemy's friend, What should I do?
I have a huge crush on my enemy's friend, and the only way I can contact with them is to be friends with my enemy. I used to be friends with my enemy but then she started acting like a rich B, and trust me she is rich. The point is, What should I do??