Has Cheating ever make your relationship stronger?
Yes it's true i hate to say that but in my case it is true I'm only speaking for me now. I think what happened for us was the fact that him and i married to young 21 when we were married. He was 37 when he cheated i guess he thought he missed out on something and she the skanky co-worker was right there to show him just what he had been missing. I'm not saying that to excuse his cheating because there isn't any excuse good enough that would justify infidelity at least not in my book any ways. They went out having fun drinking together which i don't drink. It was exciting sneaking around feeling like your getting over on everyone. He was feeding her the same old lines about how bad of a wife i was and how we stopped sleeping in the same room which was all lies. We never did stop having sex that was never our problem in fact he told her that i think sex will solve all our problems. After she the (co-worker) started demanding a little more from my husband that's when he started realizing that what he was looking for was in his own back yard the whole time. Most men never realize what they have until they go out and do something stupid and this goes for women also. It's been 10 years now sense the affair and our marriage is still very strong and we love each other very much but we make it a point to say it every day. I would have to say that our marriage improved 100% after his affair. It took me years to heal but i did and if it wasn't for the love and affecting he was given me i would have left him. I don't know what it did to him but he became the perfect husband. I have read so many books on infidelity and 90% say that most marriages become stronger if you stay with your mate. So many people walk away from a spouse who cheats and later regretted it after they had time to calm down but unfortunately it's to late and they later become the dragged EX that their new partner hates because she or he is jealous of their relationship.
I cheated on my wife, my biggest regret ever. How can i help her forgive me?
About a year ago I WAS CAUGHT (DONT GET IT BACKWARDS) by my wife cheating. Not in the act, but still the same. We were going to get a divorce. At that point i realized every thing in my life i took for granted. I then saw what i was about to lose, my everything. We decided to not divorce and work through it. Or so i though. I dont know if she has or will ever forgive me. We are both military and both currently deployed. We have been apart for almost a year. This all went down right before i deployed. Such a horrible time. She never wants to talk about anything that has to do with our relationship. It makes her mad. She tells me she doesnt have the time or ability to handle it right now. She keeps saying she needs space. She never really seems to want to talk. Like it is somthing she feels obigated to do. I am starting to see in her what i once saw in myself. Distancing, anger, defensivness. It scares me so much. Ever since we decided not to get devorced my entire life has been directed at her and our relationship. But she seems to not care. Just....wants her space. I am reaching out. I pray someone can show me how to handle this. How to help me and us heal. I just dont know. I am filled with so much unsure things it is killing me inside. I dont want to break down. Please someone tell me somthing to help.
My ex loved me now she acts like she hates me!!?
I was in this relationship for about 4 short monthes, this girl was crazy about me, but I wasnt to crazy about her. My feelings for her wasnt as strong as her feelings for me and she probrally noticed.. We broke up because she got tired of my negative behavior but now I realized that this girl was the bet thing i've had and I really love her... she's not buying it, now she says she doesnt feel the same way about me and she doesnt want anything to do with me anymore...... I really love this girl ... We've ben seperated for like 3 mos during that time i've been dating other girls but still cant get over her... any advice!!!!
Why do people hate Chennai Super Kings? When Chennai Super Kings lose, the entire nation seems to be happy.
I've seen a lot of exaggerated questions on Quora. But most of them made sense though.Many people mentioned about the management, they were involved in betting. But, none of the players were found guilty. And Meyyappan, the one who involved in the betting, lost 60 lakhs. So, when people accuse CSK as fixers, better check your facts. Lalit Modi, the founder of this big event, has accused CSK as team involving as many as 4 fixers. But still, no proofs are provided regarding that. So, the entire argument saying that CSK as fixers and the entire team is involved in this dirty saga is pointless.And there were some people stating people who were in CSK was given preference in the Indian cricket team. Names were also taken- Jadeja, Mohit Sharma. Jadeja was once ranked number one in tests and ODIs. After Kohli's captaincy, he's donning only the white jersey. He's currently ranked number 4 in bowling in tests. Mohit Sharma had 2 excellent seasons with CSK. Why should he not be picked?People accuse Dhoni of taking all the credits. Smile and move on.And Fleming said “ We are not here to train youngsters, we are here to win”. People found this rude. Yes, I thought so too. But when you look at other teams, CSK was no bad. Please don't brand me as a hater but this is pure comparison. I looked at the playing 11 of RCB. Uncapped players were Mandeep Singh and Pawan Negi. In CSK, it was Deepak Chahar. Mandeep Singh and Negi are experienced campaigners. Deepak Chahar hardly had any chance to prove himself. In CSK squad, they bought 8 youngsters/rather players who haven't been given proper exposure. In other teams, I think the count is equal/less. And even if the other teams didn't say it explicitly, they are also not here to train youngsters. Stakeholders invested millions to win and not to train.And to answer your second half - The entire nation is happy. Have you seen the Twitter battles? Did you watch people chanting CSK even in the away stadium? Did you see the crowd cheering for Dhoni when he walks to bat be it home or away? Have you seen the video which went viral when an MI fan who was cheering for MI up until that point and changed his jersey to CSK when Dhoni walked to bat?The hate is due to jealousy. The hate is due to their inability to understand the betting saga. The hate is due to Dhoni being so successful. Yes, we don't have any neutral fans like DD or RR. People either love us or hate us- but that's how people treat top teams like Real Madrid and Barcelona.
My ex husband hates me still.why?
we were together for 7 yrs. I got pregnant after 4 months.it all started when I was in labor w my first child he went to the restaurant across the street from the hospital while I was in pain. after I had my child he'd always say he wasn't his when hes his clone! we started having issues we broke up when we were off he made out w one of my friends and he got another girl pregnant I didn't no this when we got back together the week of my wedding she texts me to tell me not to worry she got it taken care of (abortion) I was so hurt to think someone else could of had his child. idiot me still married him. im not too affection about my feelings but I knew I really loved him when I walked down that isle n cried the whole way down. he got controlling to the point i lost all my friends at the age of 22. one yr later i waa tired of his controllingness i went out to a bar. i bumped into an ex and i cheated. i felt so guilty i told him the next day. he decided to stay w me but always called me a whore n i let him control me cause i knew i deserved it. a yr after that we decided to have another child.everything was great as long as I didn't go anywhere without him. I got pregnant he wasn't as excited as I was but I thought it was a guy thing. at the hospital my child had to go to ICU my husband didn't spend the night w me but my mom did. after I was released he would stay up late playing games when id be up w the baby he'd go to bed when I still could barely walk. then one day he was changing the baby n says "I wonder who ur daddy is" after all this I left I told him I wanted a divorce.about a month later I found me a rebound which he fought at a bar. after a yr and half after our split, he's dating a girl for a yr I'm w someone for 9 months. his gf is a long distance thing.I miss my ex all the time but anytime I'm nice or bring up the past he says it doesnt matter but hell always hate me. why? he did hurtful things to me too n I don't hate him I'll always care for him. ??