My girlfriend says she was sleeping but her WhatsApp message says she was online at 3am. Is it possibly a WhatsApp glitch?
If you are going to have a relationship with this woman, it needs to be based on honesty and trust. Be honest and tell her you know she was on line at 0300. Ask her to share with you what she was doing on line at that hour. Apparently, she has already lied to you, so I think you may have a problem in your relationship with her. If you were sneaky in determining she was on line in the early morning hours, then you also have been dishonest with her. You need to decide what kind of a relationship you want to have with this person. The best way to do that is get everything out on the table to resolve and understand what’s going on.
I think my mom is being scammed by an online dater?
my mom is having sometime of mid-life crisis, shes not herself. she has fallen in love with some man she has never met. she has been talking to him through emails and phone calls for 3 months, never meeting in person. he says he works at an oil rig in London and my mom says he is very wealthy.......but he told her he cannont access his money from his workplace, so he needed her to send him money....totally doesnt make sense right ? he said she can transfer his money into her account, but there is a transfer fee, so it costs money .she has been taking out loans and borrowing money from her family and friends to send to this man. my mom doesnt know that i know all this. she asked her long-time friend to co-sign for a loan, she said her ex-husband (my dad) left her with huge bills when they divorced ( 9 months ago), but the truth is that she just needs the money to send to this stranger. he also says he cannot come see my mom until he leaves london, and things always happen to come up and he ends up staying there... Im sure anyone can look at this and say that it is a deffinate scam, but she is blinded, she does not think this is a scam at all. i am really afraid my mom is going to loose her money and end up broke, not to metion getting her heart broken. I told her how i feel but she wont listen, even her sister and friends told her, she wont listen to anyone. has anyone gone through something like this before? is there a way i can get through to my mom? if only i could prove this man was fake. or find an online dating account of his and email him with a made up email. i just wish my mom could open her eyes. is there anything i can do about this ?
How do you know if someone is actually online on viber but status says otherwise?
If their status in “online” they are in fact online - connected to the service, it doesn’t mean that they are currently holding the phone and looking at Viber :)If the status is not “Online” it means that they are not connected, but not necessarily mean they won’t get the message as sometimes the push message might wake up the app, allowing it to connect
My daughter is 'in love' with someone she met online?
She just turned 16 and I remember telling her strictly NOT to add people on Facebook that she didn't know. But the other day I opened the account and behold - she didn't know half of her contacts! I was so ticked and busy deleting them when she started crying and literally pleading me not to delete this one guy that she had added. Apparently they had exchanged their pictures and now she was head over heels in love with him and wants to meet him in person - even though she has never met him and has only 'known' him for a month. I honestly have never heard of something so absurd and when I told her that she said 'Do you have to be so heartless?' and burst into another onslaught of tears. Is such a thing even possible - I mean - is there something wrong with her? How can I help her or talk some sense into her head? Is this even normal for her to be so emotional about it? I find it all very unnerving....As a parent, what would you do?
Coping with colic?? 3 1/2week old baby and new mother?
I too had a daughter with colic, when she was 2.5 weeks old we found out about Doc Scharenberg he is a local chiropractor who amazingly turns out to live in Wichita, KS (so do we) and has been treating colicky babies for over 30 years. When our daughter was about 5 weeks old she was completely colic free. I know Wichita is a little far to travel, but he is working on creating educational information for people out of the area so he can train mom's to do the treatment he created. Give him a call and see if he can help you 316-945-0075. Until you can get in contact with him here is some helpful advice he game my husband and I. 1. NO gas drops. Colic is an underdeveloped valve between the small and large intestine. It allows gas to travel backwards through the digestive system causing tremendous pain for the baby. 2. Use body language to determine if your baby is hungry or in pain. Kicking legs, pulling legs up to chest, pulling hair scratching face are all signs of pain. Flailing arms are hunger. If your baby is throwing up chances are it is over fed. 3. Diet. If you are breastfeeding Doc has a diet that needs to be followed, if contains only non gassy foods. This will help prevent your baby from being in more pain. You can find the diet at http://docscharenberg.com/coliccure.html 4. No swaddling. I know it is against everything you read, but if you do choose to swaddle do it loose. Imagine if you were in pain, would you want someone to wrap you up and prevent you from moving? Chances are no. 5. Use a bouncy seat in place of a bed. Babies with colic will not sleep laying flat on their backs. Make sure you strap them in. If you have enough money there is a Nap Nanny that would work as well. 6. Bounce. Bouncing your baby will help relieve some of the gas pain in their belly. 7. CALL DOC save your baby from the pain. If you are hesitant at all about the truth behind this Doc has a colic support group on facebook and all the moms can testify to his treatment. www.facebook.com/ColicSupport.
My mom told me to kill myself and I'm starting to believe that I should?
What does life offer to me anymore is what i'm questioning now. -I'm fifteen, female, live with my single mom and younger brother. Everyday, my mom tells me mainly that I'm crazy, and a 13itch, but also a little piece of sh!t, a$s-h0le, bi-polar, freak, psycho, worthless, your just like your daddy, and more I can't think of right now. I don't understand why she does this to me and my brother just adds to my misery too. Today to impress his friends, he got lemon salt and shook in my ears, hair, and eyes and then got a carrot, put it in his pants and tried to shove down my throat, and shot me with BB's 4 times in my back. And he did not get in trouble but just because I didn't wake up in time to get a package from UPS that was not important at all, I got screamed at when I just woke up, even though I thought the package was coming tomorrow. I also have been trying to learn how to drive and she made me cry and she even was screaming at me because I was crying. And that happened all today. -A few months ago I decided to kill myself, I wrote a suicide note even, like anyone would of cared. I decided to kill myself because my mother made me feel so bad over me losing the internet security code and that she would have to buy another one.She won't stop yelling at me, that's the reason why. The thing I couldn't believe that she thought $60 was worth more to her than her own daughter. I didn't go through with it though. But she still encouraged me til I found the code. And my brother even was going to show and tell everyone about my note. I really hate my family. -The reason I don't stay with my dad is he is just as bad. He has debt to his eyeballs, he's an alcoholic, and he has a women living with him that he is not married to also. -My grandparents are too old to take care of me. -I have no friends. -I'm an atheist, so I can't be helped that way. -The town I live in everyone knows everyone, so my mother puts this reputation of being a good mother but she's not really but people don't know that, and I really do not want to call the police or CPA because of that. I'm also afraid to call them because i don't want to be put in a home also. -What do I do? What other options do I have to get out of this situation? Is it my own fault why I'm like this? Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm begging you. I want out so bad.
What does it mean if she says goodnight, but she didn't go to sleep? Why did she lie?
Viber conversation:Him: Have a good day.Me: You don't want to talk to me anymore?Him: I just wished you to have a good day, what's wrong with that?Me: You are dismissing me.Him: Oh my God, I hope I didn't wish you a good day.…………..Him: Go to sleep. Good night.Me: Why are you sleeping now?Him: No, but I have to do some things. You go to sleep coz you are working tomorrow.Me: Ok. Good night.Instead of going to sleep, I stalked him if he is still online/active on messenger, WhatsApp and Viber. And if I see him still active after saying good night to me. I feel soooo bad. Then I think that he is texting someone or chatting with somebody else. Then I get paranoid. Then I will cry to my heart’s content then in the morning, I look awful because of too much crying, not sleeping well from crying and too much thinking. At work. I cannot function well and was like a zombie. That's what happens when you do that.I was like that. Sometimes I still am. But I try to check what's wrong with me. This is a sign of neediness, clingy, low self esteem and whatever you can add to that. It’s a sure recipe for disaster. The reason of those behaviors? Trust issues.She may or may not lied to you. That's not the problem though. The problem is with you. You don't know how to respect her wishes, her decision. It is because you are insecure. Whatever the reason for that, you have to dig in and think about it. There is a bigger problem within and you have to solve that one. I have been like that. I know how it feels. It sucks.
Girlfriend isn't willing to sneak out to hang out with me?
I've been with this girl for about 4 months now and she's a great girl. She's really good and I really love her for that. Though we aren't allowed to date, we still see each other maybe once a month at church stuff. We text every second of the day to make up for that. Recently I've tried to make suggestions for us to cleverly hang out. (for example, both meet with a mutual friend, tell them the plan and then she and I can spend the day together and I drop her back off with her friend after). She said she would feel too guilt to do stuff like that behind her parent's backs. I told her it was fine. I respect and understand her response, but I just feel so bummed about not seeing her. I'm thankful for being able to text her, but I wish we could do more. I mean, I will stay up late texting her despite me having to wake up early the next day, and it almost feels like she just isn't as willing to put the effort in. What should I do?
My girlfriend doesn't respond to my text even when she is on her phone. What does this mean?
Like some others have said, we don't know either of you so it is hard for us to tell you why she is doing something or what it means. The only one who can tell you, is her. This is my advice though based off of what you put and in general:Give her some space and don't be so overbearing. She told you that she was going to be with family, which means she is going to be spending quality time with them. She may not want to answer your message because she wants to be with them and spend time with them while she can. Checking her phone doesn't mean she is ignoring you or doesn't want to talk. It probably just means that she was checking her phone. Half the time I see my family, we hang out, but we also play games or show each other pictures. It is probably not a big deal. But the fact that you are monitoring her to see what she is doing since she hasn't responded, is. It is not okay to treat her like a criminal or like your child and monitor what she is or isn't doing. It has been 2 hours and you have no idea what she is out doing or why she may not have responded. You need to cut her some slack.I think you should back off, calm down, and stop coming up with worst case scenarios. Depending on how long she is gone, if you haven't heard from her by tomorrow, text her again. But only say something like, "hey!" or "Hey, hope you're having a good time." And nothing else. IF she keeps ignoring you and not replying, let it go until you can talk face to face. I guarantee that if she is not responding for a reason, the more messages you send will only make things worse. When she gets back, talk to her, explain why it bothered you, etc. But don't make the situation worse than it is or cause it to become a huge fight because you don't know what is going on yet.