Do you also feel like you are just slogging through life, without purpose? Help me with your solutions please!
I do believe life sucks sometimes. But have u ever questioned yourself about what are u doing with your days? do u work? do u make money? for what? do u ever see the sunshine? do u ever see the beauty inside the nature? inside some humans? do u ever touched somebody somehow that u changed this person's life? why are u so focused on uorself? you are the only one who can change your lifestile...I do hate living. But i love being myself. I dont care what people think. I dont care for money. I dont buy things that tomorrow I cant have those! i try to add knowledge to my mind! I read, i listen good music, i talk to old people to learn about life, I love peace, I walk my dog, I do jogging to make my body usual, I bring up new conversation. Check out how many children are born without food, family. Check out how many people kill each other for money. Check out how fragil we are! But living is not only what u can see! You go for good and you will see u can make a little difference to someone........just is what I am trying to do with u now! to send u a big hug to say u r not alone ever!
Girls, Help! My boyfriend just told me I have fat thighs. I have 17 days and i'll do whatever it takes?
My boyfriend just told me i have fat thighs. In a nice way of course. Alright, i see this precious guy in 17 days and i dont care what it takes to make them thinner, i will do it. I have a really thin torso and I gain all my weight in my thighs and arms. Yay genetics. Give me reckless diets, strenuous fat burning cardio workouts, anything that works. Anything that will get rid of fat the quickest. I live on a college campus, so i have access to whatever food they have available at the cafeterias. Just share whatever has worked for you in the past please. I dont care how crazy the ideas are. If you lived off of lettuce and tuna fish and lost fat quickly, ill take it.
How to not get angry in sports.?
I try to relax and take deep breaths, I tell myself getting angry won't help. I never really thought of myself to be a perfectionist, I half *** a lot of task. and its not the first mistake that makes me angry it's like the 3rd time i do it that start me getting angry, then it just builds from there. i really try not to be angry though
Basketball tryouts! I'm nervous---help please?
This friday Im going to try-out for a travelling basketball team and Im really nervous ill explain whats goin on. the last couple years soccer has been my #1 but once I started playing basketball for my school team I knew i had found my sport, I made a big descision to quit soccer this year and focus on basketball I started every game this past season for my 8th grade team and got som emajor minutes, there were a handful of games where i played the whole thing but still im not the best player, I just hustle a lot and am not afriad to get on the floor and dive for balls going out of bounds and stuff.. Ive been practicing a lot, but i livein illinois so it's really hard to practice during the week when i cant go to a gym I'm really nervous about try outs because the team is supposed to be really intense, and Im not sure if i can stand out, Im tall for my age so I usually play down as a forward or center how can i stand out? Im not a really strong offensive player but am good @ D
Help, mastubating problems?
First of all, masturbation absolutely CANNOT cause blindness or any other ridiculous thing you've heard of. If you treat your penis too roughly, it may get sore, but that's the worst that can happen. Don't be scared. I guess it's a cultural thing, being scared when you start masturbating. A lot of boys your age masturbate. There's no reason to feel guilty when you masturbate. If you don't want to do it, feel free to stop. If you CAN'T stop, get your mind off it by playing sports, or jogging or something. It's hormones, dude. You weren't sexual, and now you're feeling sexual and that scares you. Stay cool and stop if you wanna. You can always pick it up again later once you're more mature about it. Don't believe ANY masturbation myths: blindness, hearing, zits/pimples, hairiness,whatever! All fake. Ask anyone. In fact, you need to generally get info from your parents on this kinda stuff. If you don't feel comfortable asking them, ask some teacher or something. Chill out.
Ok, i got a few problems... please help xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox?
You say you don't know who you are, yet this seems largely because you don't have a fixed sexuality, liking just one thing. Whilst much of the world may want us to be black or white, our real selves is often far from it, and our understanding of what we like is also likely to develop over time, coupled with any decisions we may take, about who we would or would not get connected with. You also say you want to 'sort yourself out'. I guess you mean by this that you'd also just like a single choice over who you find attractive, and yet you also say that you're not one for categorising - presumably hence another possible reason that you're in turmoil, you're holding conflicting beliefs and goals there. You seem to prefer relationships with the guys that you've dated, and this may be because you're compatibility is higher with guys, or for other reasons. I guess the main thing from all of this that I pick up is that you don't fully accept yourself, and that this is where you could direct your attention. Couple this with attention to your self-esteem, particularly relating to your sexual/emotional issues, and you would likely find that you would improve your happiness as well as satisfaction from your life. Perhaps some of the major stuff that you could address would be around deciding what you want from life, what's important to you. If you can dovetail any goals and values alongside increasing your self acceptance then you could well find that you're feel more aligned, and less out of synch with yourself. I don't know what goals you have, or whether you have in some ways wanted to conform, but if you're wanting things that conflict, then this isn't likely to be a recipe for calm and balance in life. In the meantime, I'd recommend that you spend time talking this through with others, so that you don't tie yourself up in knots, through massive internal analysis/paralysis. Message me if you'd like to discuss this at any point. Hope this helps. Good luck! Rob
I think I got my cousin pregnant?
IF YOU CANT HANDLE A BABY DONT HAVE SEX. AND WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU YOUR COUSIN? lol
So i just left my boyfriend of 3 years.?
I left him yesterday to give him a reality check. He has a very bad anger problem. And is a bit controlling. well I miss him a lot and I love him too much to just leave him but everyone keeps telling me not to go back. What if I try to get him help and go with him? Is there a chance he will change? What should I do. I'm torn up inside, and I know he loves me he was abused by his mom up untill he was 18. Help please what should I do?