I'm married,but have a fantasy about being with a woman. Am I a lesbian, help.?
All it means is that you have a rich fantasy life. Could there be a chance that you're bisexual and didn't know it? I suppose, but it's unlikely -- I don't speak from experience, but I would be willing to bet that true lesbians and bisexuals would have experienced some level of attraction to the same sex at some point before they got married. That you're only experiencing it now is just natural curiosity. I seriously doubt your husband would hate you for having this fantasy, though he may not understand it completely. It really depends on him; guys are funny that way. Even guys who are the most vocal in their disgust over gay men will usually allow lesbians in their world, if only in the vain hope that they might join in at some point. I'd mention to him casually that you had a funny dream where you were making out with a woman, and see how he reacts; I'm willing to bet good money he'll raise an eyebrow and say, "Reeealllly??? Um... what happened next?"
Sleeping with a married woman, she wants to end marriage?
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Do married women have sexual fantasies?
Before I was married,the girls I dated were open about their sexual fantasies. Even my wife before we were married was VERY open with me. She mentioned sex in public places,threesomes,making videos,etc. Now that we're married,she wont open up anymore. We've been married a year. Our sex life is pretty much the same.To be honest,sorta boring.I tried new things in the bedroom and she shot me down. I tried to spice it up. I bought a game about sex and we played it. One of the first questions she got was to talk about her sexual fantasy. She said she has some,but embarrased to talk about them now. I'm her husband,and she should share these things with me,because whatever it is she wanted to do(besides the 3-some) I'm down with
Do all married men fantasize about other women in their marriage?
I don’t know if all men do, but I would guess yes. I know I definitely do. I hope my wife never finds out the extent to which I think about women I see, but they are just thoughts. When I said those words, “I do”, I meant it. Our marriage has been rocky for these first two years (three in May), with ups and downs. Mostly my fault. We are working on it, but some of it just comes with what happens when you have been with someone for five years.I have gotten off track.Thinking about something is different from actually doing it, and thinking about something is different from thinking about doing it.Actions are different from thoughts.Thoughts are thoughts.I am no hound dog. I respect women and I respect my wife.But when I see a hot chick around my age (late twenties-Early thirties) at work or out and about I will take a second glance, I will try to estimate her cup size, wonder what those puppies look like.What do you want from me? I quit looking at porn. The occasional fantasy about a real woman is really the only connection to the outside world I have left.But as perverse as this may sound (and ladies, don’t even try to say you don’t do the same) I love my wife.Look, people. You are going to run into people that are hotter than your wife. There are probably women out there that are better at sex than your wife. There is probably a better fuck out there. Probably a woman who would have better chemistry with. Someone who would connect with you better…Someone who would have more of the same hobbies as you….some one who….someone who…..someone who…But you decided that she was the one. That you loved this woman. There were probably many others out there who you could have gotten with. Who knows, maybe in other universes you did get with them. But in this one, you found your special someone and you married them.And marriage matters. So you work on that marriage. Sometimes marriage is amazing, sometimes it sucks. There are ups and downs. That is what makes it a relationship. That is what makes it beautiful. That vulnerability. That trust. That connection.None of which I have with that girl I look at and fantasize about for thirty seconds. Sure, maybe I had a quick bang in the recesses of my mind.But then I went back home to my love.
Now a days my husband fantasize wife swapping during love making. I am very worried, what I should do?
Here is my advice First sex is at least 75% mental, Your husband is just trying to spice up your sex life. During sex he probably does like the thought of wife swapping but before and after he would probably not want to try it. The easy way to tell this is ask the question. Does he talk about it when you are not having sex or just when the hormones are flowing during sex? What my wife and I agreed to was this " What we say during sex is not to be taken seriously and only meant to be fantasy" That is a perminate agreement. So we are both fee to bring up all sorts of things during sex without having to worry about how the other will feel about it. It make the fantasy's more real but safe.
Do married women think about other men sexually, and if so how much?
Yes they do. Few not all. And most of them control it anyway.I mostly think of my husband's younger brother who lives in our same house. But I do not control it. Every week 2 or 3 times we make full sex. This started when we begin getting close to each other after my marraige. He also loves me sexualy. Good thing is that we are simply attracted to each other and never put pressure for sex.I like him most in doggy style. The best sex experience is when he fucks me hard in doggy style and holds my swinging boobs in his hand in front of mirror. He fucks harder with more force, however he is not long lasting unlike my husband.Finally I still like and love my husband and he is top priority for me than any other person.
I am a married woman. Last night I dreamt of being with another man. Could my dream mean something?
The interpretation of your dream will be affected by additional factors you're not mentioning.So here are a variation of interpretations:You believe you've fallen out of love with your husband. that you know.Take a look at the person in your dream who you bedded. Who is this person or what does he represent?And take a look at the feelings that are coming up. These bring up new self-awareness that you need to be with and understand.Was the person in your dream-fantasy a mystery man? one with qualities you find exciting? if your husband had these qualities would he be attractive to you again? would any additional awareness that came up in the dream point to the possibilities that you might be able to rekindle feelings between the two of you?Or was the subject of thd dream-fantasy a person you know? are you fantasizing about this person because they have qualities that are attractive to you? what were your feelings---surprise, longing, frustration? be with those feelings and see where they're projected---yourself, your spouse, this man, his current partner, etc… answering these things for yourself will tell you much more than I can tell you.Next, consideration. Is the man in the dream-fantasy a celebrity who you're not attracted to at all in real life OR attracted to? again, any feelings that come up,, andwhere they're projected, will tell you more things that are going on in your subconscious.Were their intense feelings that were truly sexual, was their loneliness, was their satisfaction or frustration?Your dreams might tell you many things about yourself that you have been avoiding, and not been processing consciously.Your dreams tell you to pay attention to the truths, or lies, in your life.If you're honest with the feelings that come up, these dreams might help you make changes that either take your current relationship to new levels, with mutual respect and effort, or take you further apart.Your intuition and own self- awareness is there to help you make the right choices.I wish you well and that and hope you come upon the answers that help you find truth and balance in your life. Many blessings.