As a woman, would you sleep with an exceptionally attractive man that looked as good or better than a supermodel right away? If he asked you for sex would you accept? Do you still prefer more warming up in this situation, or a date prior?
No, I wouldn’t sleep with them right away. Why?There’s multiple reasons for this. The first being that I’m in a monogamous relationship and that would need to be discussed with my partner. And I’ve yet to meet someone who’s that attractive and interesting and enticing. I don’t find supermodels that attractive. I like lanky, but not too thin, and not overly meaty. Even though I like assertiveness, I don’t like being too much smaller than the man. And models tend to have similar facial features. Strong, not necessarily classically beautiful facial features are way more attractive to me. I’m one of those people who finds Cillian Murphy attractive, because of his specific features. Your chances multiply if you look like my partner or Tom Hiddleston, however. I am biased towards dark hair, light skin and interesting eyes/browlines.Secondly, attractiveness does not imply being good in bed. I wouldn’t hold my breath that every hot man I see can outdo my partner. This also means that the chance it won’t be worth my time is rather high. Comparing to someone who’s known me inside and out (pun intended), my expectations would be difficult to meet. Considering the fact I tend to close my eyes anyway, looks don’t really carry that much weight.I would need to sit down with that person over tea or coffee, discuss what they’re into, why they’re interested in doing anything with me, and what reasons I could have for wanting to have sex with them. They’d need to be able to bring something new that I haven’t tried and am interested in, there would need to be damn good chemistry, and they’d need to be intelligent enough to handle sarcasm and layered humor. It’s not impossible, but quite a few traits would need to be present in order for me to even consider it. Let alone consider it for long enough to raise the subject with my partner.Finally, you’re gonna need to stand out, be comfortable in your skin, be comfortable with being weird and nerdy, and handle death and sex related humor, lets put it this way. But then that also applies to my friends.So no, I wouldn’t jump on it. I don’t need to. And yes, I’d definitely need warming up - I need to have a damn good reason for it, as being sexually frustrated isn’t one.
My boyfriend is very attractive and I am exceptionally ordinary. This makes me insecure. How do I overcome it?
Say the sentence again, my boyfriend is very attractive, physically and I’m exceptionally ordinary physically.You haven’t told me about how you guys are emotionally, mentally and energetically.There is a reason he got attracted to you, there’s a reason he fell for you. He would have seen the other bodies. Emotional, mental and energetic. I bet you haven’t seen yours. Go and introspect.Not everything is physical. We now even have the science or ways to know about the other bodies.If you care, read The Energy body, The Astral( Emotional) body and the Mental body by the author A.E Powell. Get to know your other bodies and then you will know why very attractive (physically) people fall for less attractive (physically) people. No one is dumb you see.You have exactly all that he needs. Just become the best version of you and stop comparing or fearing.
How do I get an attractive boyfriend?
Be careful what you ask God for because he sometimes answers your prayers. I am sure you can get an attractive boyfriend. Other women will find him attractive too and lure him away from you. Your attractive boyfriend may be lacking in other areas such as wealth, intelligence, kindness, honesty, caring, health etc. Concentrate on improving yourself so you are desired by the largest number of boys and then choose carefully which one you like. That means be a healthy weight, get educated, avoid drugs, learn how to be nice to everyone, dress nicely etc.
Can guys be just friends with girls they find attractive?
It depends on what you mean by “just friends”. If you mean in the sense of, can a guy maintain a friendly relationship with an attractive woman without actively pursuing her, then the answer is yes. But typically a guy only reluctantly gets there—after he’s clear he has no chance with her anyway.Now if you’re asking, can a guy be just friends with an attractive woman without wanting to pursue her for at least a casual physical relationship, the answer is no. You can blame human nature for that.Attractive women who want to have social but platonic relationships with men usually have a tacit understanding that a certain amount of uninvited ogling and/or flirtation comes with that package. For this reason, many attractive women legitimately decline all male friendships. For those that do not choose that route, it is either because they enjoy the attention, or they have decided they value the friendships enough to tolerate—while still rejecting—their male friends’ amorous intentions.On the other hand, there is a very small percentage of women who have plenty of male friends and none of their male friends ever show any interest in them. Frankly these women tend to be extremely low on the attractiveness scale. It’s a bit of a double-edged sword: you don’t have to deal with unwanted attention from men, but you don’t get the opportunity to deal with wanted attention either.In short, men generally desire all of their attractive female friends. Their female friends are aware of this, but usually overlook it for the sake of other benefits of having those friendships. Out of appreciation for the women’s willingness to maintain the friendships in spite of their lack of interest, many men keep a lid on openly expressing their desires for their female friends. On the other hand, in rare instances, men truly have no romantic interest at all in some of their female friends. This is usually an unspoken indicator that those particular female friends are very unattractive.
Why are some really attractive women so stuck up?
There's a girl I know that I work with, who is extremely physically attractive, she's 22 and seems that she can date any guy she wants. When I met her she seemed cool and the conversations were pretty general as far as subject, but I found out a little bit later that she was making fun of me behind my back and whatever, so I don't talk to her anymore. I wasn’t trying to date her, I didn’t even attempt that because I felt that she was out of my league, and just thought she was a friend, so I have no idea what she wanted to prove from this. She was also dating some guy for a couple years, but during the whole time was cheating on him, she flirts with every guy she comes in contact with, uses people, and pretty much treats people like crap. Anyways, my question is, it seems that she can go around and do whatever she wants with no consequences, and I personally think it's only because of her physical appearance. It's kinda upsetting to me, because for me it's a struggle to even get anyone to talk to me and I always treat people well, and I never did anything to provoke her. I've heard that girls that are really attractive don't last to long or may become really unattractive, and the average girl will have an up on her in a couple years, is that true? Why does it seem that every really attractive girl I come in contact with has a horrible personality? What happens to people like this? What I mean is, there are some really great girls out there that are really beautiful and have great personalities, but for some reason they don’t really grab your attention, why do the girls with these types of personalities draw so much more attention to themselves?
What does it mean when someone calls you exceptionally beautiful?
Yup. Whoever said that thinks you're reaaaalllyyy good looking. You should be very flattered!
How do you know if a guy finds you physically attractive?
He treats the other girls different to the 'attractive' girl and smiles at the girl and is nice to them, as far as I'm concerned. =]
Do men feel exceptionally good when they get compliments that they are handsome/hot/attractive?
Some men do. Some don’t. Men are very similar to women in many aspects, and can become more and more like women, just like it is possible to do it the other way around.For example, it is extremely important for teenage boys to be complimented and be considered hot and handsome. As they gain more confidence (which is common for men), the need dwindles.For me, personally, if someone says I’m handsome or attractive I just feel weird. I particularly dress not to impress, to be very casual and normal. So if I stand out, I am out of my control and don’t like it.