My boyfriend wants me to sleep with a girl?
I think your question is how do you find a girl to join you, not should I dump my boyfriend. So I'm assuming you are open to his suggestions rather than him bullying you into doing something you don't want to do. Obviously if you don't like the idea then don't do it. If you want to take it further then I would suggest a swingers dating site where you can both explore the idea together. You both might decide its not for you or a m/m/f option would be more fun. Which ever option you take it must be something you both want and decide together. You will need to open a profile and try to be honest in what you say. Explain that you are new to the idea and that you are simply exploring different options. Upload a few photos and a video clip and the replies will come flooding in.
My boyfriend wants a threesome with my best friend?
For a threesome to work and not to leave you feeling bad then you must want to participate in it. My personal feeling is that your boyfriend is in a relationship with you and not anyone else. If he cannot accept your boundaries that you will not negotiate then should not be dating you. Furthermore I question if you are not confusing love for another type of feeling like not wanting to be alone or the need to keep a boyfriend at all cost? Nonetheless it is not for me to decide what is happening here and I will provide you will some options for your consideration. Foursome: Foursome here would be your best friend, her boyfriend, your boyfriend, and you. It would give you to give him what he wants and you could interact with her boyfriend thereby allowing yourself some sexual empowerment. Downside to this situation is that feelings may develop and it could be a destructive situation that ends up destroying both relationships. Threesome: This is something you stated you are uncomfortable doing but nonetheless it still remains an option. Threesome (soft-swinging): Threesome happens but the boundary is your best friend does not have sex with either your boyfriend or you. She becomes a part of the mix but does not have sex. Advantage here is you can technically give him what he wants. Disadvantage boundaries may be broke and feeling unfulfilled. Additionally there may be added pressure to have a full threesome. Hybrid situation: You allow your boyfriend to have sex with your best friend as a one time thing without you being present. Most likely it will leave you feeling bad about yourself and probably would ruin your friendship. Do nothing: You can tell that you are not interested in the idea right now but leave it open for sometime in the future. Hopefully he might outgrow it or you can develop enough confidence to be assertive with him by telling him 'no.' This might be the best way forward for you.
Fantasizing about my boyfriend best friend?
Ill start with that I love my fiancee. We have a child and a great relationship. The thing is that I cant stop fantasizing about other men, especially his best friend. I dont want to cheat on him, but I honestly feel like if I dont stop feeling this way that is inevitable. I have researched open relationships, but I know he would never go for that he is the most jealous person I know. He gets pissed off when a guy even looks at me. Any time I go out to the club with my sister he interrogates me on what happened all night,(if any guys hit on me, if I danced, how I danced etc..) I dont want to break up our family thats for sure, Ive tried to talk to him about it, but he just gets pissed off and thinks that I just want to leave him and dont love him anymore. Ive only had sex with two other people and I was his first. We had a threesome and I didnt even get jealous as I watched him having sex with another girl. I just cant stand the jealousy. Its ridiculous!!! Even if he wasnt so jealous I would still want to have sex with someone else so I dont know whats wrong with me. I dont know what to do, ive talked to friends and they dont have any answers so can someone please help me!!!!
How willing are teenage boys to talk about penis size, masturbation frequency, fantasies etc?
ok i am just interested in conducting a survey type thing, please only answer if you are between 13-18 years old include your age. would you talk to a best friend about: penis size masturbation frequency what porn you liked your semen your pubic hair masturbation techniques private things you do with a girlfriend genital problems eg diseases, warts etc fantasies... anything like this at all that i have forgotten, would you be comfortable talking about it? then also please answer the same but for a person on yahoo answers and a mate but not your best friend. thanks, i am an open 15 year old who would talk about any of this stuff to the first 2 categories of person and most of it to the last type of person i am interested in seeing how other people compare. thanks
Recently I'm feeling too much for my best friend and also missing her at the same. I'm a girl also. I had a dream last night that I'm having sex with her. I'm too confused. Is this a lesbian feeling or not? I don't want to burn in hell.
Oh dear, i was like you at your age.Babe, i was so in love with a girl when i was 14. I thought she would be the only girl i would ever like and that i was straight, well i was so, so wrong. I'm 32 now, and i'm as lesbian as i can be. I love women, i accept myself and i'm happy. I love my girl, and i will marry her.Maybe you are bisexual, maybe you will still like guys.You are not harming anyone. If you were born in another country, like Japan, you would be a buddhist for example. Religions are just a scam.But if you do believe there is a god, i think the god you believe in, the god i used to believe in, created you, so he would be crazy to hate someone he created. I think, he would love you as much as he loved all his sons.Good luck with your life little one. I really see my younger self in you. I was absolutely terrified and devastated when i discovered i could feel like this for another girl.Years later here i am, everything will pass, please believe me. I live in Perú by the way, so it's difficult, it always was, but i love myself, and I just want to be happy. I'm not a bad person, i deserve to be happy.
I want to have a threesome with my girlfriend and her friend, how can I convince them?
My girlfriend has told me she wants to have a threesome with me. She's even begged me to have one. Naturally, I'm all for it. The only problem is finding that third partner. She's too shy to ask somebody she doesn't know or to ask somebody who is her friend. Her best friend is extremely attractive and I've heard my girlfriend complement her in a sexual way (mostly her boobs, they are epic!). We all have chemistry and I think she would be the perfect partner. The only problem is, my girlfriend might get weirded out and I don't know how to bring it up. How do I convince my girlfriend it's a good idea and then how do we propose the idea to her friend. I can't stop thinking about how hot this situation would be and it's driving me wild! Please help!
Do men who watch porn fantasize about the women in porn during sex?
If your live in girlfriend asked you to stop watching porn would you? Honestly, I think I'm the only girlfriend in the world that really disagrees with my boyfriend watching porn. I've discussed it with him before and he said he would stop... but everytime I'm cleaning around the house I find a NEW dvd. It causes arguments alot. Yes, I know it's NORMAL, but I've had issues w/ my self esteem forever including eating disorders on and off and he knows this. I mean we're together alot and he;s rarely at him by himself, but when ever he is he HAS to watch it? Then when I find it he lies about it. When I see it on my PC history he lies about it. I think the lying part is what pisses me off more. So, I 'm not looking for advice to get over it. I'm wondering is there a way I can successfully communicate my feelings to him? Will he stop? Is there such a thing as a man who doesn't watch porn? Also. Do men fantasize about the women in porn while being intamate with theirpartner?
What do you do when you find your girlfriend cheating?
From someone who has been in this situation, lete give you some advice that will actually help you. No one else addressed these issues here, so I am doing this in incognito mode.When she has cheated on you, she has left you for good. You need to pick up the pieces and take care of yourself.Tell yourself,I come firstOnly I matterI live for myselfNow translate that into action.How?Well for starters if you break up with her right away, that might boost your self respect. It might also give you some temporary closure. Not to mention the satisfaction of revenge.But within days you will be miserable. You will be alone and miserable. You will have lost your support system and company. You won't have your emotional and physical partner with you.On the other hand, she will already have found a new partner(the person she slept with). She will land on her feet while you crash and burn. She will find herself comforted while you find yourself deserted.Moreover, this guy who took great care to wreck your nest will be the real winner. He will have gotten away with a vice and earned a girlfriend out of it.Imagine that smug jubilant smile on his face.Trust me, you don't want that.So this is what you do. You play the game.Don't break up with her immediately. Point out to her how unfair she was and try to make her get out of that affair. Try to connect with her again; propose a fresh start.Now when you have secured your home front, start looking for a new partner. Someone who treasures loyalty, preferably someone who has been cheated on herself and loathes disloyalty( not that difficult to find really) ; someone who will have your back for a considerable period at least.If you find someone like that, and manage to pique her interest and feelings, now it is time to leave your girlfriend. However, make sure your new gf never gets to find out about your ex. Difficult, but do-able.Breakup with your ex.Don't feel sorry for her, she brought it upon herself. She looked out for herself treating you as a door mat. Now it's your turn to look after yourself and ignore her needs. There's nothing vile about being a survivor; there's nothing mean in winning a game someone else started. There's nothing wrong about easing yourself into a rebound. Rather, that's the only way to do it.Put yourself first, make your interests your priority. That's how you bounce back from a unfaithful relationship.Thank you.
How does it feel to have a girlfriend who you do not find beautiful? When you go out and see someone else who has a girl much more attractive than yours, do you feel jealous? If she has a hot friend, do you fantasize about being with her?
I called her ugly whenever we got into fights.Back in college, I had a girlfriend whom I did not consider beautiful.I did not like it when she roamed with me on roads or in my college.I did not let her meet me in the college.I did not let her meet any of my friends. Every other friend of mine had a girlfriend who was ' beautiful'.I was embarrassed of her.I called her ugly whenever we got into fights.I broke up with her mainly because of this reason.She came from 25 kms on a bus atleast 5 times to convince me to be with her.She cried over the breakup. Tried knowing about the real reason but i always gave her something other than the truth.I left her with the hope that i will find somebody more 'beautiful'.And I did. I found a girl. Girl who were more beautiful conventionally . Girl who knew what makeup to apply to look more attractive. Girl who knew to play hard to get to be more desirable.After my ego subsided after a month, I felt empty of myself. My life was empty. I lost some friends One thing was missing. The truth was missing. The new girl never told me the truth. There was always games, manipulations (sometimes from my side). She cheated on me and I left her.I felt lonely and cheated.Tried fighting it with alcohol and weed. I did not have any good friends to share real stuff with.Never got into a relationship again.Forward to the last year of college, I Gave up on human relationships.Stopped talking to friends and parents. Spent almost all day after the class in last year of college just sitting blank in my room or sleeping.Considered suicide because of depression. I am fine now.Yesterday,She sent me a text saying " Thanks Madhur. Thanks for leaving me. If you wouldn't have gone, I would not have the one with me."And even now, I felt like I could tell her the truth, Truths About how it was a mistake, Truths about the real reason behind my depression. Truths about a lot of things about me. But i did not. I wished her best of luck and typed "congratulations".I am happy for you. You are beautiful.