Im scared i have no future..?
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Scared, & confused about the future?
Hey I'm 17 years old. That's a common feeling among teenagers. I suggest that you don't concentrate too much on your studies and hang out more with your friends. I took an AP class last year and am going to take 3 AP classes next year. I asked many adults and they told me that the most fun times that you'll experience in life is during your high school. College will be fun but usually not as fun. So I say don't waste your high school life by studying all the time. Have fun! About the future, don't be too worried. You seem like a diligent person who has good grades. You'll most likely be accepted in a good college. And btw, you don't have to go to a really good college in order to be successful in life. And also, wealth doesn't always bring happiness. It often brings thirst for more money. Lastly, trust in God. God bless you!
Have you ever been scared of the future? (gay/lesbian!)?
I get scared of the future sometimes. I'm almost 15, lesbian. Only my 3 closest friends and my dad know. If you were straight and never got a girlfriend, you'd spend your life alone, too. Don't worry, you'll find the right guy. You can adopt, or you can have a close female friend or other lady carry a child that comes from one or both or you and your partner's DNA. Many orphans need homes. Who cares about other people's thoughts. If they think badly of you just because of who you're attracted to, you don't need to be associating with them, anyway. Telling my dad was easy, he kinda guessed and he's really understanding- plus he's slightly bisexual. My mom, yea, she's never gonna know. I told my dad that when I get married, I'm calling him to invite him personally, but my mom isn't allowed to know or come. Friends are easier than you think. All three of my friends already kinda knew. If they're really your friends, they'll love you no matter what. If they don't accept you, they don't deserve your friendship and love. Don't worry, it all gets better in time. And no, you are certainly not the only one. I think just about every LGBT fears these kinds of things. Plus for me, I'm psychic, so I see my potential future. I see me and my best friend that I'm in love with when we're 18, 20, whatever age. And I always fear that something will happen and that will change, and it'll never come true. It's so difficult to have my hopes built up on my ability, but know that it could all fall down with just one little difference. I always try to do my very best to make it happen, and I always freak out when we fight or anything because I think it could mean the end of things. But yea, you're not the only one who worries about the future.
Im 15 and scared about my future?
Ok this is my story My dream is to become a doctor just like my dad But the problem is that i had problems at my old school and friends were bad so i left the school just because friends were immature to me im stupid i know because that school was sooo easy MY NEW SCHOOL IS FREACKIN HARD AND ITS IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE I USED TO STUDY IN ENGLISH NOW I STUDY IN MY OWN LANGUAGE AND ITS HARD AS HELL I just wish i could go back to my old school where i could nail easy marks but my dad says its bad and ur staying in this school its so hard i dont understand math HOW AM I GONNE BE A DOC i just miss my old life old friends old home and everything im just scared i wont ger any marks
I (16 years old) am worrying about my future and don't feel comfortable with it, what should I do to handle it?
I am 25 and I am also afraid of future.I will be 35, 45, 65 and I still will be afraid of future.Have you pondered on this question: what is future? No really, what do you know about future exactly? Pause and think. Right now.You done?Okay so you might be like, "future is tomorrow, next month, next year or some TIME when you think you want this or that to happen to you." Well let me tell you what it is. Your so called future is what you "think" it is at this point in time. In other words, future is an illusion created in your mind at this moment when you are anticipating it. Have you ever thought about something scary to happen to you in the future and it never happened? Have you faced any of your fear? Anything? For example, I was afraid of going to the university on the first day of school and I was terrified about being in a campus so far from home. I am an introvert by nature and making friends for me is the scariest thing in the world. I was nervous and was thinking all possible scenarios of how awkward it would be to see myself siting alone in the cafe while everyone is laughing and joking around. Guess what happened? A guy came sitting with me and started talking. After 10 min another girl came and started chatting with me. Then next and then next...and I made 7 friends in two days. What? I had not imagined it could be possible.For you this may sound silly. But to me it's one of the most unpredictable thing. Life is unpredictable. You'll never know what will happen to you. And that which you do try to find out, will never happen to you. Trust me. All it can do is ruin your present. Ruin you moment of cherishing what is in front of you. Life is a gift and you can only enjoy it when you are wide awake and present. You sitting in the corner thinking about future will add to nothing. Literally nothing. What does being afraid of future do to you? Make you sad, make you suffer?You won't go out with your friends; you won't talk to anyone; you won't do your homework. And in this case, you will lose. You chose to ruin your life. Because life said, "I'm here. Pay attention. Or else you lose the game." You die the moment you sit idly thinking about future. Living means being here and now. So drop it all. Stop it. Stay present and enjoy. You are so young. Enjoy your days. These are the most tension free days.
15 year old PCOS. Im scared!?
Hi Hannah . Have you joined support groups in your area ? there is probably a group of wonderfully hirsute women in your area that would like to share they experience with you and what you and your Dad can do. It can help to know other girls and Moms have been through it too . Rech out for their waiting love http://www.meetup.com/find/?keywords=Pol... All the best Hannah =)
Is my heart failing? im only 15 im scared?
That's not heart failure. Trust me, I'm 14 and I *do* have heart failure. Mind you I've also only got half a heart, so I suppose I can't have everything! Having heart failure means having swollen ankles, swollen feet and swollen legs, the kind of swelling that pits; feeling like you're drowning/suffocating if you try to lay down; always being cold; having fluid in your lungs; extreme tiredness; extreme breathlessness (I can't wash my own hair any more cuz I get too breathless, Mum has to do it for me); not being able to walk to the bottom of your road even though it is downhill all the way!
I'm 13 years old and already worrying about my financial future. Am I right to do so?
Oh young adventurer!Your whole life lies in front of you with all its possibility and you sit there and worry about the one variable that will NEVER be the same in it.Whether you appreciate it or not you are destined to have at least three to four major money movements in your lifetime.It means that money that you have and the money you hold will change so much that savings will be rendered useless and exchange of money will have totally changed.So why worry about money?Worry about important things like where you are going to be, what you are going to do and how you are going to learn to think creatively to get there.There was a university test where students were given a 50 dollar note and asked to make the most money with it at the end of the month. The winning team FORGOT they had the fifty and went about making ways to make money despite having the 50 dollar note.Look towards your skillset and your talents to drive you. And take a responsible attitude to money and learn to budget early.It may be time for you to look up Mansa Musa and find out why he was so rich and his successors so poor. Because he knew that money is the tool and not the outcome. And his successors all thought that money was the outcome and then forget to use it as a tool.There is a lesson for any budding adventurer to learn from that.