Advice on having gay sex for the first time?
Hello. I don't know if this question is really allowed... but if it stays on then I guess it is. I'm 15 years old and gay, my best friend is 16 and also gay. We're both virgins and we decided that since we're close friends, are first time might as well be together, because we trust each other and we both want to experience it before we get older and start getting with other guys. So I bought some condoms and some lubricant ready for us. I want to be the bottom (I think I'll be one) and he's going to be on top. I'm quite nervous, as I've heard it really hurts! So can anyone tell me how best to get pleasure from it? I want to enjoy it. I know I should relax etc, but any other advice would be good! I read somewhere about poppers and how they really help, but I'm not sure where to get them, or if they are a good idea. As a last question, my friend said bottoms can get quite loose, and you can and should do exercises to stay tight... is this true? What do you do? Sorry it's so long... please don't say anything about me being too young for sex, because I'm going to do it anyway, like all boys will.
First time I had sex and I'm 14?
Sorry it's long but please read all... Okay well I stayed the night at my friends house and it's only the second time me and we brother met. We kinda starts to talk about stuff and then he would touch my boob or my ***.... Then we started making out. Well I have him a quick ******** in her kitchen but it wasn't enough. So about 30 minutes later we start texting because his family is like everywhere so I couldn't say anything. Well we had to wait for everyone to go to sleep. Around 2:15am I went into his room and dropped to my knees and immediately gave him a ******** that lasted about 20 minutes and then he layed down by this time we were both completely naked and I was in top of him. Well it hurt at first. Then it got better. We then switched places... The sex lasted 10 minutes and then we both found our clothes in the dark I went back into my friends room and he went to the bathroom. Well I texted h a little and he was like ignoring the subject and now I don't want it to be awkward. He wet to bed and I'm still up it was my very first time. It was his second. We are not dating as we barely know eachother. I dont know what happened it was so quick. So what do I do? Do I tell anybody he told me it was between me and him. And I just have this weird feeling that I wasnt good enough. By the way we are both 14 but he's almost fifteen. He's a freshman and I'm in eighth but the school year has 2 weeks left. Also we used a condom. And now I have this alward feeling that I'm going to get pregnant and I just got in trouble at home and I don't want to piss my grandparents off more. Any advice on what I should do.?
Daughter's friends house is disgusting?
My 6 year old daughter was invited over to a classmate's house last weekend. The girl had been to our house once and is really a sweet girl. Anyway, when I picked my daughter up the mother invited me in. The house was soooo filthy I was speechless. I'm not talking messy with toys, I'm talking disgusting and dirty! It smelled so bad I couldn't wait to leave. There was animal hair all over. The garbage pail was overflowing onto the floor. There were burn holes all over the carpet. There were just dirty dishes everywhere - in the kitchen, the living room. I could go on I could go on and on. My daughter was invited over again this weekend and I told the mom we had other plans - I lied - I really don't want my daughter over there anymore. My daughter asked why she couldn't go this weekend and I just said because. Any suggestions on how to handle this? I told my daughter she could invite her over to OUR house anytime, but she still wants to know why she can't go over there. Thanks.
First time home alone at night?
Yeah, I'm 15 and I would be a little scared too. Just hang out with your friends a lot and have sleep overs with them. Don't think so much about being scared though! Think about how you can do ANYTHING you want now. But don't get so carried away and throw like a party or something. By anything I mean spend the whole day in your bed, watching TV and stuff like that ahaha :]
At what age should I allow my daughter to sleep at her boyfriend's place?
I guess she is still living with you and your husband at home?I can only base my opinions and my decisions on my background, my sense of morality and the temperament my children have. You have a different situation from myself so you can only take my advice so far. I don’t think high school age it is appropriate for boyfriend/girlfriends to sleep together. I would not allow this. I do understand that kids at high school age often do actually have sex. But I feel they are not of the age to handle the kind of intimacy that comes from regularly sleeping overnight together. I have seen what happens with the friends of my kids when this happens and I don’t think it is healthy.But after high school (18 and older) things get tricky. These young people are often still not fully mature and need some protecting. However technically they are adults and should have the ability to make many of their own personal choices. My oldest is 21, still at home and we do allow him to sleep at his girlfriends. But he does not do this all the time.Refusing or making a fuss about a young adult sleeping with a boyfriend often creates a situation where your young adult will stop confiding in you and will develop dishonesty with you and probably some resentment. So you don’t want to create that.But you are not really saying if your daughter is asking to sleep at her boyfriends. You are just saying now she has a boyfriend and has never had one before. If she is over 18 I would allow her to make her own choices. But you have a right to some consideration if she is still living in your home. I think she needs to tell you when she will be home and where she will be sleeping. You don’t want to be up late worrying. I also think you need to talk to her about birth control.