Friends didn't invite me to a sleepover?
Is this Rude or am I Overreacting? I had a sleepover a few weeks ago and invited my two best friends. Then this new girl joined out group and kept on bugging me to invite her to my sleepover, as did my friends as they really liked her. So I did, I pestered my parents until they said yes. During my sleepover, the new girl sort of took over: we watched whatever films she wanted etc. Now, I've just found out they're having 2 other sleepovers, I asked why I wasn't invited politely and the new girl said "I can only invite 2 people," as did my best friend when I asked her why I wasn't invited to hers. I'm really annoyed and think it's really rude seems as I made a special exception to invite the new girl, yet they can't seem to make one to invite me. They're really leaving me out: they like all the same bands and want to turn emo so they talk about them 99% of the time; they make fun of my ginger hair until it's really not funny anymore; and they don't invite me to go shopping, visit the cinema etc. Tomorrow it's the first day back at school after Autumn break, and I know they'll be talking about their 2 sleepovers all day. Should I say something or keep my mouth shut and stay away? It's my best friend's birthday and I'm giving her a gift tomorrow, so I can't stay completely away. My mum and dad say I'm too nice: giving her a nice gift for her birthday, even though he didn't invite me to her party, and the new girl didn't either? Should I say nothing or stand up for myself?
What do you do when you have a sleepover with a friend and they don't wake up?
I would just text, play on ipod, or just get ready. Haha don't stare at your friend. I have a funny story. This should get me ten points it is so funny. (: Me and my friend 12 and in 6th grade. I had her sleepover And I never knew why she set alarms at like 5 A.m. and gets up and gets ready and stares at me haha. Well one day when we slept in a tent in the house and brought blankets in it and when my family woke up because I was still sleeping they thought it was odd because she was done dressed and like staring at me. When I woke up she was like let me take home this blanket and wash it because I spilt my water bottle all over it. Trying to be a good friend I was like no its okay my mom can wash it, its just water, no big deal! She had it folded in her hands in wouldn't let me see it. Then later when she left and my mom was about to wash it, it was actual pee on it. I found out from other sleepovers she wets her bed. :o She wakes up cleans it up then changes. She won't tell me and she doesn't think I know. But yea my 12 year old friend wets the bed. XD
How do I wake my friends up at a sleepover if I'm up before them and I'm bored?
Ok, my BFF invited me and another friend to sleepover and we stayed up ALL night, literally till about 8:30 AM. Light was shining and we could hear her parents down the hall talking in the den. Then they both got super tired an went to sleep. I was wide awake, IDK why, but I was ready to get up and run around. I spent the next 4 hours playing games on my phone and her iPod, and snooping through the stuff in her room. They will NOT wake up! I'm bored and I sound bratty like, "Eh! I'm bored wake up!" but I wanna do something before the day is wasted! And I can't just call my mom to pick me because I'm taking my other friend home too. How do I quickly but calmly wake them up without them knowing it's me? There's a TV in the room, but I don't know how to work it, so I can't just turn it on. I'm not pouring water on them or screaming in their ears, I want calm, natural ways. Plus this happens at every sleepover I go to. I'm always the first one up and end up sitting around doing nothing for 3 hours wishing I was home watching TV and eating popcorn. Any ideas I could use??
Is it weird I don't like sleepovers or meeting up with friends?
Okay I'm 15 years old and everybody always says how teenage years are supose to be your best years of your life and its when you should have fun with friends and go to parties... Well I'm the opposite. I can never be bothered to meet up with my friends and don't really like it! It's not that I don't like my friends...I get on with them really well. But I see them everyday at school and tbh I'd rather sit indoors on my iPod and tv then having to go out. I also hate sleepovers. I just feel really uncomfortable in someone else's house also when ever someone's at mine! I also kind of have OCD about using other people's cutlery and I don't like eating anybody else's food apart from the food me and my family make and in restaurants. So I force myself to eat food or else I feel rude. Also I'm really shy and don't like talking to new people. I get so stressed out about school and friendships and it makes me really depressed which is one of the reasons I prefer to be alone in my spare time. I also have low self asteem so I don't like to go out because I always feel like I'm being judged and people are looking at me an thinking rude things, even when there not. I have really bad anxiety over it. Also because I'm really shy, I'm a bit of a pushover so whenever my friends ask to stay round at my house or invites me to go out with them I have to say yes or else I feel rude. Is this hormonal or will I stay the same? I just feel that life for me will be so much better once I leave home, finish school and start university SORRY IT'S LONG AND I EXPLAINED MYSELF TO BE REALLY WEIRD BUT I PROMISE IM NOT THAT WEIRD IN REAL LIFE :)
My parents won't let me go to a sleepover at my friend's house.?
It's just the two of us and we're both 13 year old girls. My friend invited me to her house for a sleepover tonight. I called my mom to ask her if she was okay with it (she was at work). She said no because my friend has two older brothers and she thinks something bad might happen. This isn't the first time she said "no" for this reason. I tried telling her that I'm old enough to handle myself, but it's "too dangerous". My parents used to let me go when I was younger, but not anymore. We always have our sleepovers at my house and I'm getting really bored of it. I only have a younger sister, but she's a nuisance (another reason why I want to have the sleepover there). One of my friend's brothers is like 20 (he's home from college on weekends) and the other is 17. I've known my friend and her brothers for 8 years and her brothers have never tried to physically hurt me or start anything. I definitely don't think they will start now. They usually just ignore my friend and I, so I don't think my mom's reason is a problem. We're barely ever in the same room for crying out loud. I'm kind of ticked off about my mom's reason because she cares too much about this part of my life (independence and relationships) and barely anything else in my life. My parents don't care about my happiness, mental health, interests, grades (not that they have to, I'm pretty much a perfect student), fun, or anything except my relationships and independence. They don't even know that I might have depression (never got it tested, because they don't take it seriously). They won't let me go anywhere myself either. How do I convince my parents to let me go to my friend's house? How can I tell them to stop caring about this part of my life and start caring more about other things in my life?
I'm going to a sleepover and i'm on my period?
Help please i'm going to a sleepover at my friend's house. We're sharing a bed (not in a wrong way!). I'm scared that during the night i'm going to "leak" and ruin the bed and everything. My period is very heavy and i wear BOTH tampons and pads. But still manage to leak somehow. Help. What can i do to make my period lighter? Or how can i prevent myself frum leaking?
My bisexual friend wants to have a sleepover with me?
Don’t do it. It’s TOTALLY obvious she’s into you. She’ll try to seduce you and it will work, because bisexuals have magic powers.
Is it strange that my friend wraps me in blankets during a sleepover? (Also, before people say, she refuses to tell me why she does this.)
I think you answered your own question when you said, “she will wrap in a soft bland that she knows I like…I feel cold a lot….” Seems that when you are a guest in her home, she wants you to know that she listens to you, and telling her you like this soft blanket, and telling her that you are often cold, are the reasons she wraps you in the blanket.Depending on her cultural background, it could be that when you know about a person’s discomfort with the cold, you show that you are a true friend by wrapping them in a blanket that they like. I am also assuming that you might reply when this happens with something like “Thank you…I like this blanket because it is so soft.” That would be another reason she continues to wrap you in the blanket. You thanked her for doing it.Sometimes the answer is right in front of you, but you’re looking elsewhere. I imagine this young lady likes you as a friend, has been raised to care for her friends, and she enjoys having you as a friend. She may like to have something about her home that you like, so this makes her feel good.Of course, you could always ask her if she thinks you are always cold in her house or something like that, since she always wraps you in a blanket. Explain that you don’t want her to think her house is too cold. You could say you didn’t want to make her feel bad that her house was too cold for you. This should lead to a little conversation about the blanket and then you can better understand.