How does it feel like having a one-sided love?
Thanks for A2A Krishna.How does it feel like having a one-sided love?To be very honest, it isn't the best of feelings. I feel angry, very angry. This is because everytime I see her, I say, "I love you Katrina. Gosh! What can I do to have Katrina Kaif in my life?" :-PBut she never says anything to me. She never even acknowledges what I am saying. She never talks to me. Nor does Deepika Padukone, Priyanka Chopra, Huma Qureshi. Nobody. Such ego. :-P :-DOkay, getting serious now. Ummm! Its very difficult to answer. Not the question, but the feeling is very hard to describe. Your insides cringe everytime you see her somewhere, knowing that howsoever you love her, you can't get her. Atleast mine does. Whenever I see her with someone else, a part of me dies a brutal death. The more I try not to think about her (Katrina again), the more she comes in front of me and makes me realize : You can never have me.One-sided love, or unrequited love as they liked to call it in the days of Shakespeare, is one of the most painful things. To care about someone who doesn’t feel the same way back leaves you feeling hurt, crazy for having the feelings that you have, and totally out of your mind.I'll keep it simple. I don't know much about it. I have been lucky enough that my love was never one-sided for anybody. I got my share of love, care and affection back. Its not about just girlfriends. No. Parents, friends, relatives, neighbours, animals, trees, nature, wind - I love them all and all of them make me feel, all the time, that they love me too. It depends on person to person how you handle one-sided love and what do you think about it. For me, there is no one-sided love. Its just love. When you love someone, it doesn't matter if the other person loves you back or not. What you want is that the other person should be happy all the time, even at the cost of your own happiness. Whether that person loves me or not is none of my concern. Love is just love.There’s no bargaining/dealing in love.Cheers!
Does God helps if love is one sided but true love?
Dear,If love is one sided, and if it's really love, you don't need anyone else. Not even God; not even the other person whom you love.If it's really love, it's complete within itself. There is no need of the physical presence whatsoever of the entity you love.If you really love someone, let it be one sided, because only then it will live for lifetime. There won't be any chance of love to end.One of my closest friend loves a girl for last beleven years. Lets call that girl X. The same one sided love that you are talking about. And I haven't seen any better example of love than his'.He often says, “It's not that I don't get proposals from other girls, or I don't find people beautiful, it's just that even if I think of getting closer to someone else I feel that I am not being sincere to X”Have you seen such dedication in love? What else do you want? If you truly love someone, be like this guy.And once you become like guy, you will find that you don't need God to help you in your relationship.-MB
Why does sex feel better with someone you love?
Hey there! Sex is about more than just the physical feeling. Although a lot of people see sex as just a "deed", the purpose of it is really for procreation (making a baby). You'd want to have a baby and start a family with someone you cared for right? Having sex (from a girl's point of view anyway...) and allowing a man to enter you, to give him a piece of you--that really means something. It's about trusting each other, it's a way of showing someone how you feel about them. It's about accepting someone completely--you've already allowed them to enter your life, and now you're allowing them to enter you. I've had sex with 3 people my whole life. 2 of those people I really loved (the first guy was my 1st love and the other is the guy I'm with now whom I love deeply and hope to start a family with) and one of them wasn't love but a lust. I'm telling you from experience, having sex with someone you love is so much better. Gazing into their eyes, kissing them, caressing them, holding them against your skin, feeling their breath, feeling them inside you, making you feel good not only physically but emotionally--the guy I'm with now, when he makes love to me, I feel as if he's going deep enough that he's caressing my soul...that's an amazing feeling. That's the difference between having sex with someone you're in love and having sex with someone you're not in love with is.
One sided love?
When you go to a movie ... Do you want your parents there ? "No" I would think.. One sided love is a person that will be all over you, and far more love than can be returned. Girl;s want to feel loved, but not stalked. A parental love is called TRUE love .. Because it has no conditions attached. Relations are not TRUE love.. They are more based on LUST... If she has none or little for you then, whats the point... I mean ... You can't make her like you... Move on... On the other hand.... Playing hard to catch might turn her on... I mean walk the other way once ! You know.. Love youself tonight and then in the mornijng your love for her will be lots less. We are animals, and as such we are driven by chemicals in our brains that force us to like someone for the purpose nature laid out. Satisfy this yourself... Yes.. I mean do your thing ! Get the it all out ! You will find that you will be more able to think straight and not be druling all over the place... Let her sense this lack of further interest. A girl that knows you are there anytime she needs you is not going to want you. A girl that senses you walking the other way might be thinking more along the lines of why? What is wrong with me...? Why is he no longer interested,,, Don't go overboard with it, but in the end... You don't want someone that has no interest in you. I mean come on.. If she shown no interest, get out of there... You are wasting your time, when you could be loosing other possible ones to us other guys... Hope this is the best answer for you... I think that I put your interests first in all this... Ignoring a girl works... Taking care of your business is a must if you're going to make that work though. Plus its fun anyway, and we're all doing it. I have a girl, and I'm still doing it all the time. If you don't... They own you ! So get busy now....
I feel like I'm in a one-sided relationship. Please help.?
I have been in similar situations as you. The first thing you want to do is talk to her. Start with "I love you very much and love being with you, but..." then outline everything you said above, the lack of commitment, enthusiasm, and effort put into your relationship, the fact that she never says I love you or I miss you, etc. If she promises to improve, then give her some time to do so - but not too much! See how she's doing after a month or so. If there's been no improvement, confront her about it and be more forceful, such as: "I feel I've given you enough time to improve, if there's something you want to tell me or you don't think I'm worth your time anymore, then you have to tell me." One thing that's important is to recognize when she's making excuses. Jobs, hobbies, and other commitments are a definite timesink but you are her boyfriend. It would not kill her or her schedule to spend a few seconds a day to tell you she loves you over text. If you feel she is dodging or avoiding the issue, break it off immediately. It will hurt but you'll be better off in the long run. Of course, I hope it doesn't come to that. Good luck!
What are the symptoms of one-sided love?
The phrase ‘One Sided Love’ is a very commonly used phrase. I would say, this is a disease which has affected 99% of people in this world at least once in their lifetime with symptoms being depression, anxiety, loneliness, rage, envy etc. and still there’s no medicine to it. Strange!But there are some ways which have been practiced overtime by those, who have experienced this and tried to come over it on their own. Now, why on their own? There is a reason behind this.This loneliness and depression or any relevant emotion is a result of your own overthinking. That is why, this is highly necessary for you to realize this, and the realization itself is the first step towards cure of this highly prevalent disease.Just take a look at your question. You have mentioned that this is ‘one sided love’ which caused you ‘depression’ and ‘loneliness’. This means that whatever you are feeling, you’re feeling that on your own. Basically, love is a shared feeling. Yours is affection. Kindly mark the difference. You can’t love someone if the other person is not receiving that love as love. *For more clarity, I can talk about this.*With that being said, the other ways to cure the disease are:Shift your focus. Shift your focus from him/her to yourself. Start pampering yourself. Then you won’t expect the other person to pamper you the same way, you are pampering.Invest your time wisely. Try to learn things. Read books, Cook good food for yourself. Learn dance. Go to movies. Go for a spa. And realize your love for yourself. Investing your time in yourself would help you come out of this depression.Stop Expecting. When we start expecting from others, our own feelings start betraying us. We don’t even get to realize that how we are being a nuisance all the more than being a help. Expectations kill every beautiful feeling around you. So, accept everything that comes your way and treat that as a gift.Let your emotions flow. Accept yourself the way you are. Write your feelings out. Share your opinions to those who listen to you, your friends, mother, father, siblings, being it anybody. Let people know how bad you are, don’t hide your true-self, at least not from yourself.There are more ways I can put up, tested and acknowledged by many scholars as well as by my friends too. But things happen only when you take baby steps. Start taking little steps one by one. And just remember,“Love happens on its own, when you start loving yourself.”Wish you luck. :)
Is one-sided love real?
“Ek tarfa pyar ki taqat he kuch aur Hoti hai.. auron ke rishton ki tarah yeh do logon mai Ni bat'ti.. sirf mera haq h ispe !!”Love is all about caring for somebody more than yourself.I believe one sided love is the purest form of love. In one sided love you care for him/her so much that you don't want to create chaos in your mates life by letting them know about your feeling and instead you trouble yourself every second of your life.Also it makes the person a better human being. It teaches you to love someone when you know you won't get the love back. It teaches to care for someone who even doesn't care if you exist or not. It's also makes you more optimistic. It increases the commitment level of an individual.As far as the question is concerned, YES one sided love is true. It can be experienced When the glimpse of a person gives you more happiness then the salary credited in your account, when her voice shievers you from inside and when all you can think about is her.
Who sings this '80s song?? lil wayne used it in something you forgot.?
Heart: What about love I've been lonely I've been waiting for you I'm pretending and that's all i can do The love i'm sending Ain't making it through to your heart You've been hiding, never letting it show Always trying to keep it under control You got it down and you're well On the way to the top But there's something that you forgot What about love Don't you want someone to care about you What about love Don't let it slip away What about love I only want to share it with you You might need it someday I can't tell you what you're feeling inside I can't sell you what you don't want to buy Something's missing and you got to Look back on your life You know something here just ain't right What about love Don't you want someone to care about you What about love Don't let it slip away What about love I only want to share it with you What about love Don't you want someone to care about you What about love Don't let it slip away What about love I only want to share it with you