Help! Im in love w/ my best friend?
Usually when you get together with your best friend, things seem pretty great. However, on most TV shows, it ends up screwing up in the end and you end up losing an awesome friend. It really depends on how you want the relationship to work- if you want it to be extremely intimate, you'll need to take things slow, but if you want it to be casual, go for it. Just be careful. Don't take things too fast, and just bring it up in normal conversation. Don't be too forward. That'll scare him away. :)
How do I tell my best friend I'm in love with her?
My best friend proposed to me two years back. I was a nerdy-type of a girl belonging to a conservative family. I had no idea how to respond. He mailed me a love letter and I freaked out after reading it. My mum read it too (it was unexpected and my mum was sitting right next to me while I opened my mail). I ignored him and deleted the mail.I pretended like nothing had happened, so did he. But it had. The barrier surrounding our uncomplicated but hidden friendship had been shattered. And the worst part was, while I was unaware of his feelings, the girls I used to hang out with used to tease me about him. They knew that he liked me, I don't know how.Needless to say, it was awkward. We didn't talk for almost a year, until the school farewell. I was starting to miss him and I wanted to talk to him. We had gone from being best friends to strangers and it was upsetting.After school finished, but before starting college, I took matters into my own hands and messaged him, apologized and requested to continue the friendship. I felt cruel and selfish for doing that but when he told me he wanted us to remain friends, all my doubts went away.College started and our friendship resumed. Some time later, he told me about this girl in his class that he had a crush on. He's a happy boyfriend now!The thing about falling in love with your best friend is that if the other person doesn't share the exact same feelings, it becomes the biggest what if of your life. I love him, but it isn't a romantic kind of love.The positive aspect is that your best friend knows you better than your other friends, so the relationship doesn't feel much of a strain. I don't claim to be an expert on relationships, or dating for that matter, but I think you should go ahead and tell your best friend how you feel about her. Talk directly. A phone call, or a face-to-face chat. Start it as a question. Ask her how she feels about dating. Take her out to a place special to her. Don't be afraid to lay it on thick. Tell her how much she means to you. If she doesn't feel ready, go slow and let her know that she will always be special for you.PS: I had to go anonymous because the said friend is on quora and I don't want to hurt his feelings. Don't hate me please!!!!!
I'm in love with my best friend but we're both girls?
I'm 13 so ya I know I'm young and people are gonna say I don't know what love is, but I want to know if my bestfriend likes me back. We hang out a lot and hug eachother a lot and sometimes a kiss on the cheek. We watch movies and either I'm leaning in her shoulder or she's leaning on mine. She also puts her legs on top of mine. But just on the couch we'll lean on eachother and lay across eachother but I think I have a crush on her. I felt this for another girl when I was REALLY young, like in 1st grade, and a boy in 3rd grade. I wonder if she likes me though. Like when we touch, I get some weird feeling and It feels good. Here's the questions: 1) Does she like me? 2)How do I tell her I might like her 3) when do I tell her? Please answer them all! Thanks Oh and whenever we sleep over at my house she sleeps in the same bed as me and we also kinda cuddle like not in the bed but you know, just hanging out She's also always telling me that we don't know what we are yet, (bi, lesbian, straight) since we're young. I don't think I should try kissing on the lips yet though and I really want to tell her and not push her away. She said shed accept me no matter what, however.and she also sleeps with me even in a group sleepover & she treats me different than anyone else. She doesnt touch anyone else she only hugs me and im kinda her only friend. I think she might like me what about you? Today in school at lunch I was giving examples of stuff like saying what if I was... And I mentioned a few things until I came to "what if I was bi?" And she said, "I wouldn't care, I'd accept you no matter what" and she also grabbed onto my arm in class yesterday because I asked her something and was going back to sit down and she's like "STAYYY" I know that's a best friend thing, but that's not what she's like. Id always ask her if she liked another friend of ours, but she made it clear that she Didnt. Joking, i called her a "homophobe" and she said, "no, its just that would be disgusting to be with (insert name here)" which i think shes hinting me there. But today she kissed my hand and I know its not just a bff thing I know it. NO HATE
Im IN LOVE with my SAME SEX BEST FRIEND. HELP!?
Have you discussed this with your friend, it sounds like she may have the same feelings. If you are attracted to both boys & girls you may be bi, but that is nothing to be ashamed of. You should be with someone who makes you happy not who society deems you should be with.
I'm in love with my boyfriend.... and my best friend?
First off, I have been with my boyfriend for four years. "Ryan" and I have a happy life together. We are both in school but plan to move in together once we graduate. From there, well time will tell. We are comfortable with each other and we support each other thick and thin. He is the love of my life. Second off, my best friend is a guy. We have known each other for quite some time and we can talk to each other about anything. Day to day issues, relationships, anything. He has well earned his title as best friend. Yesterday, "Jake", my best friend tells me he has feelings for me. He has for a while. He won't let up on it. Another hitch is that he is leaving in a few weeks and he refuses to leave without settling this with me. What is the real issue is that the feeling is mutual. I know that if anything happens in my current relationship jake is the only other person I could see myself with. We are perfect. I love them both but I don't want to do anything to jeopardize my relationship. I need help, advice, someone to tell me to stop being so stupid! please