Help !!! im KINDA bein bullied?
well from what ive been through teachers will do nothing if they think they'll get away with it and too often they do i was gonna tell u to get someone to beach him up untill i read ur adition info so maybe what u should do is not give the school a second the breath constanly report everything he does even if its the smalles thing dont give in and for the bigger things get ur dad to go in keep at them soon they'll learn your not going to put up with it and they'll have to do something about it unfortuanly we live in a broken system where bullies get away with everything they do cuz teachers dont want the hassel so u have to give them more hassel than they'd get if they tried to reolve the problem good luck !!
I am kinda being bullied?
That's horrible, but you shouldn't feel like you have to move school or anything because of them. You have just as much right to an education and to feel safe in school as they do. Can I ask which year you're in? If you're in Key Stage 3, this kind of behaviour is common because a lot of boys suddenly get REALLY immature and start doing things like you described. Luckily, most of them grow out of this by Year Ten. Hang in there, it does get better. For now, stick with your friends. Bullies tend not to approach the people they want to tease unless you're alone. If they say anything, calmly get up and walk away. Just keep doing what you're doing and trying your best in school. If it gets really bad, do not hesitate to let a teacher know because this can be stopped. Stay strong. xx
Poll: HELP ME! I am kinda being bullied?!?
So like it all started when this girl and I were put into the same table group... She was ok at first but she becomes very bosy and mean to me and some of my other team members when we do projects. So I told mt teacher and my teacher told the head of the school. Then the teacher told her and she starter to be even meaner... She is on my bball team too and there is another girl who is also mean to me. When I would mess up they would say WHAT WAS THAT?!? or exclamaing my name rlly meanly. They would gossip behind my back and say we lost the game cuz of me. I try to fight back but she is just even meaner. I am not the type to be bullied cuz I am funny and hyper. I am active and fit in but yea... 99% of my whole bball team are popular I am the average people... I am basically a loner on the team, everytime i want to fit in they wld just ignore me. They are sometimes mean only when i come in contact with them... Plz help!!!
I'm Being Bullied, Help? :(?
Listen to me. Do not kill yourself. It is NEVER the answer. NEVER. Don't self harm. Don't commit suicide, don't do ANY of that. Listen there. These people, who are talking smack? Watch where they're going to be in a few years. They think it's cool now and they think they have "swag" now? Mhm, sure you have "swag". Will "swag" pay the bills? No. I'd love to see your "swag" when your working at McDonald's. Honestly. I'm 13 and I understand a lot for my age, including lowlives like this. That guy doesn't live you? Give him a reason! You sound like such a nice person, honestly. These people at your school, I'm sorry for saying this, but these people are all dumba** wasted idiotic morons who have nothing better to do than to make up crap and talk smack. These people, my friend are called lowlives. They've honestly got nothing better to do. I know how you feel because this was me too. It got so bad I moved schools and now I'm much better. It's all about the people in your school and who they are as a person. These people (from what you've mentioned) ? Not good people. If this is affecting you this much, move schools. Trust me it works. If your mom doesn't let you, then kiddo you have to put up with it. I don't care WHAT "director" or "teacher" or "principal" is there, if that guy talked smack about me, especially FAKE smack, I would have UPPERCUTTED him ! Beat him up, and show him. Usually, I'm not one to endorse voilence, but this guy sounds like a complete ahss. He needs his ahss beat. Trust me hun you'll get through this... Remember what I said. Never think about anything horrible like you said up there. If you can't make friends, you've got me :) my names angela [: <3. Email me: percyjacksonlover@icloud.com Oh yeah and P.S, if they touch you, call me and I'll personally kick their ahssez. Much love, Angela.
Being bullied?
We are sorry to hear you are being bullied. This has to be very difficult for you to deal with everyday. Most importantly, know you are not a loser. The person/people that are bullying you are the ones that have some issues to deal with. Telling your mother about being bullied is a good thing. She will be able to help you process things, help teach you ways to stand up for yourself and just be there to help support you. Have you thought about telling a teacher at school or your guidance counselor? Letting someone at school know what's going on would be helpful so they can look out for you, help you deal with it and make sure you don't get hurt. Just be honest with them about what is happening, who is doing it, when they are doing it, etc. If adults don't know, they aren't going to be able to help you. Come up with a safety plan (ex. Never walk alone, if someone is bullying you, go to the nearest teacher and let them know what's happening, etc.). Hopefully you find some of this information helpful. Hang in there. Please know that there are people who can and will help you with what you are going through. We would encourage you to consider talking with a counselor at a hotline. There are many hotlines that are 24/7 and will work with you and your situation like yours. Some even have email and/or chat if you would prefer. Hopefully, you will continue to reach out! HJ, Crisis Counselor
Im being bullied. please help?
I'm sorry you're going through that, Hun. Have you discussed your problem with your parents and teacher? If so, tell them as soon as the bullying starts. If that doesn't work, have your parents schedule an appointment with the principal. If all else fails, go all the way to the top and have your parents contact the superintendent and school board. You have the right to feel safe at school, and the adults who are in charge of you are responsible for ensuring that. In the meantime, remember that bullies pick on those they perceive as weak. They will attack you if they think they can hurt you. Show them you don't care by letting the rude comments roll off your back. One way to accomplish that is to laugh with them at the mean jokes. If you lead the bullies to believe that their insults amuse you as much as they do them, they're going to wind up looking awfully silly and likely give up trying to hurt you. Also, are you involved in any activities? If not, pick one that interests you. Not only will it give you the opportunity to make new friends, but it will build your self - esteem - a natural bully repellent. One activity you may enjoy is martial arts. It is great for gaining a positive self - image and discipline, and I guarantee people will stop messing with you when they know you can throw a punch. :) Keep your head up, and I hope this year is better for you.
Im bein bullied.. please help?
This is a serious issue. You absolutely need to talk to a counselor. Make sure they hear you out and know how serious this is. Bullying needs to stop. I knew this boy, Tom, who committed suicide because of stupid, insecure bullies. You can see his story here: http://www.battlebullying.com/ Please know that you are worth so much more than anyone can ever tell you. People are ignorant, insecure about themselves, selfish, and just plain mean. Don't believe their lies. I know it seems hard now, but when you are older, you will look back and see that this part of your life was just a small picture, so you need to make it through this to get to all of the wonderful things that are to come. Get help from someone who knows what to do (counselors). And stand up to the bullies if you have to, or else leave that school. I posted a bunch of sites that can help you with this. The last one is of MANY celebrities who were bullied in their youth. They made it through, and they tell you all about it. I'm sorry that you are going through this. I'm glad you are looking for help, by even asking this question. Keep pursuing help until this stops. Most importantly, keep your head up!
Kind of being bullied, Self Defence?
You need to learn Psychology, in Chinese it is called Ho Ga. It is not only learning when and how to fight, it is also learning why and why not. Wisdom should also be a part of the main ingredient that a BB possesses. This " Wisdom " should be how to diffuse most encounters with an act of either body motions and or language. It is not saying that it is a sure road to safety, but rather the most logical approach. When it comes to Martial Skills you need to understand that most the skills that are learnt were taught in countries that the combatants had intentions to seriously harm one another. Today if we do this we go to prison even if we are correct in fighting, as it is simply an overkill approach and about as acceptable as guns. Learning Martial Arts should be about self discovery. Either that you are a real athlete with this avenue to become that in life, or a dedicated soul that can carry on a tradition that has been carried by similar dedication for centuries due to the belief and health they offer. This belief is the Ho I speak of, and what you need. Go to a school counselor and get educated. They are taught Ho Ga, maybe not Tsoi the Kicking and Punching, or Li Ga the Leverages , etc, but the " Wisdom " , and that's what you need in this situation. All school counselors are taught a form of Ho Ga in their job's, let them be what they are and do good in school. How and What to be in Life is and should be your main goal, not how to fight in and at School.
Im being bullied and i dont know what to do...help?
Im being bulird severely at my college. I know how that may sound but hear me out. Ive got aspergurs am on a unit in my college. For the past 5 months, this mainstream studant has. Been bullying me severely. We were friends in school. (I will get to that in a bit) He started bullying me after i saw him and a few others attempting to steal from the jar of money we raised from a charity event, he found out that i 'grassed him up' Thats when it started. He often punches and cuts me with pencils and other things me when i walk passed him. If he saw me alone he would harras me and keep me pinned against him or a wall. And he tells me the most disturbing and upsetting things about what he would do with my mum. I will always come home in floods of tears. Im really scared, because he knows where i live. (He used to come over for tea after school) I looked out of my window yesterday and saw him outside . He looked at me and started taunting me. Pretending to hit and stab me! Im so scared. Im covered in cuts and bruises. If my mum saw and knew what happened to me...she'd be heartbroken. How do i tell her !? She knows something is going on, but dosnt know what. What should i do!? How can i tell anyone! He threatens to kill and rape me if anyone finds out. Someone help me