Any gangstas interested in sum danger?
Any gangstas interested in sum danger? #Yolo Sup yahoo! lookin for specially trained killaz to rob some shizzle Must be at least 8 years old and not a pussy swag.
Why are people suddenly more interested in me when I'm quiet?
I share the same store. Depression and anxiety became my best two friends after experiencing high school. Although I was shy, I was somewhat of a blabber mouth and I wasn't afraid to exhibit my true personality around people. I was bullied because of it. I also lacked the confidence to pursue girls I was interested in and had very low self-esteem. Going into college and later years, I locked myself up, thinking, "Forget the world, I don't need people." However, later on, like you, people everywhere began taking an interest in me for reasons I can't explain. I don't have to approach people and I find myself making new friends. Girls I find attractive are suddenly attracted to me as if I simply flipped a page in a book. Yet, the depression remains and as of now, I have no motivation or interest in the people interested in me. I've been mad at the world for so long and my style of thinking has become so single-minded, lacking little to no empathy. To sum it all up, the social world is too complex and unusual for anyone to fully comprehend. As people change and mature, so does their interest in relationships. So in the long run, maybe it's not such a bad thing to be quiet and quite possibly, the people who are becoming interested in you are looking for something other than what society is currently offering them. Consider yourself a rare breed.
How do you tell someone you don't want to talk to them anymore?
Personally, I don’t normally have to even say anything. I often use the ‘silent’ & ‘delayed’ treatment and soon they would just get the idea implicitly.For example, if this someone:Calls you, you have to let it be a missed call. Call back a few hours later (depending on your relationship / context)Messages you, again reply only after some time, never immediate.Talks to you face to face, you just keep quiet most of the time and let the person do the talking. By not engaging, he/she would soon realize that you’re not interested. Nobody would continue interacting with someone who doesn’t reciprocate.But for whatever reason the above suggestions don’t work, and you must tell them explicitly, then consider:Telling them the reason why; Because you don’t have the time, because you have some other commitments, because you can’t handle too many relationships/friendships etc. Never point that the problem is with the other party. We don’t want to burn bridges, do we? The use of reason will soften the blow. More often than not, the reasons don’t really matter. When they get the message that you don’t wish to talk to them anymore, they’ll stop.How you say matters more than what you say. I have very little information on who this person you are trying to dis-engage with. So to be safe, say in a very cordial, friendly manner. Watch your tone, your body language and expression. After all, we are trying to have 1 less friend / acquaintance, not have 1 more enemy.
How does a person answer the question, "Tell me something about yourself?" in a social situation (not in a formal setting like a job interview)?
The opinions of other people is the average of all the information they know about you, not the sum total.If you want to impress the person asking or people listening (social or otherwise), keep it short, stick to highlights, and have a great segway out of the questions.I'm socially awkard, and have always dreaded that question. I've found a lot of success by talking about stuff I find interesting and then finding common ground and asking someone else (typically the person asking) about something they enjoy or are interested in. Pro Tip: listen to what they say, be interested, ask follow up questions.
Why do people treat me like I'm invisible?
Hi Claire! Firstly, you need to have a positive outlook of yourself. A very simple method of doing this is to set a clear goal for yourself each day. E.g. "Today I'm going to say hello to my neighbor if I see him/her." And if you do, that's a step forward already! Secondly, don't be afraid to go up to a person that you reckon is nice, and say hello! If they feel awkward and put off, just apologize and tell them that you want a friend. Your three friends, don't give up on them too! Try to talk about them, like, "Hey friend, how's your day so far? :)" Lastly, there's definitely other people like you who feel the exact same way as you do. Perhaps try looking out for people who are always alone, and try to make friends with them as well. They're the kind who feel lonely, and will be easiest to make friends with cause they feel the exact same way as you do. These friends are the kind worth dying for. :) To sum it all up: 1) Stay positive and have faith. 2) Go out, make friends! All the best and I hope I've been of help. Also, I hope you find buddies soon :)
Would anyone be willing to be my online bible study buddy?
I can't chat, but I have been looking for someone to study the Bible with. I'm like you, none of my friends are really interested and I recently moved away from the ones who are. Would you do some type of email Bible study? I really need another Christian to talk to because no one in my family is Christian and because I just moved, I don't know anyone here very well. You can email me if you want to at abigail.brielle@yahoo.com. Sorry that the chat wouldn't work, but I go to school and work, so I can't stay up past 2:30. But really, I am looking for another Christian to study the Bible with.
Is my life ruined? Im 18 years old now?
I'll try to sum up my 18 years of life in a short way. Basically ive never had a family. I rarely talk to my family and honestly ive spent way more time with friends than my family. Ive only had like 5 good friends my entire life because I was shy. People in my classes always tried to talk to me but I was just awkward and didnt talk to them that much. When attractive girls tried to talk to me I would just look down. In high school I was basically the same way. I always had low confidence and I didnt participate in anything. Coaches in high school told me that I should join the football team but I didnt because of low confidence again. Ive never had a girlfriend, job, I didnt go to prom, I was almost a loner in high school. Im going to college next year and im wondering how people will view me. My resume has basically nothing on it. I got pretty good grades, respected people and never got into serious trouble. I was voted as nost shy by my graduating class of 700 kids, so that sucks. How would you view someone that has basically done nothing in their life up to now? Im a lot more confident now and I bet if I was confident when I was younger that my life would be x10,0000 better now. Honestly though why would any girls be interested in a guy that didnt do anything when he was in high school? I created a youtube channel and it has a decent amount of views. I played tennis in high school but why does that matter at all? Can my life still be worth it?