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Not sure what to do with my mom anymore....?

This is quite a rant. Think its time you moved further away to eliminate the problem with your mother. Living somewhat close to her allows her easy access to you and she is having a problem allowing you to be an adult..../

I'm not sure what to major in anymore! How do I choose?

Most people make that decision during their Freshman year of college.I entered college thinking I would major in Physics.By the start of sophomore year I was majoring in Aeronautical and Astronautical Engineering.One does Not have sufficient exposure to the breadth of majors and careers while in high school.  All you can determine is:In general I would like to do X and maybe Y and a little bit of Z.So, make certain that the college you attend has a good reputation in X, Y, and Z.I was Lucky that I was at MIT which is superior in both Physics and Aero-Astro Engineering.   Therefore, the only thing to make certain is that the college you attend should have Engineering as one of the majors.If it has Engineering, then it will have Everything......{Even at MIT, I could have majored in journalism or political science which were my fall back areas.....}But what great journalism school also has Engineering?

Not sure what to do anymore? So, I'm depressed, and have been for over 2 years now. I've tried many different antidepressants, nothing's?

worked. I'm just completely unsure what to do anymore.
(I've attached a screen shot of a word document explaining my situation since this is too long to fit in this box)

Am I innocent anymore I'm not sure?

Hi I'm a teenager and I've been playing around with my BF and we've been toucking & stuff. I've been trying to not go ALL the way with him (cause my family is religious) but it's really hard to resist honestly. The other night though we were undressed down there and he was rubbing himself on me and inserted "it" for like 5 seconds. I pulled my hips back cause it shocked me and "it" came out. Am I a virgin anymore? Also do you think I should go all the way since I went this far? Kinda like "no turning back"? thank u...

I’m not sure anymore. What should I do with my relationship?

“Having no reason to stay is a good reason to leave”

I've been crying for hours. And I'm not sure what to do anymore?

You're lucky. My parents were rich, and I still only got new shoes every 3 or 4 years. I had to go to 5th grade wearing Barney shoes. THAT was embarrassing. And so what, who cares what your friends think. Tell them that your parents are being jerks and won't buy you new shoes. And whenever I did get new shoes, mine were either from the thrift store, or at walmart. They never paid more than $10 for my shoes. And sometimes, I got my sister's old shoes.

Is that the only pair you have, or do you have an old pair that still fit you that aren't falling apart. Maybe you could wear them. Or if you have an older sister with more than one pair of shoes, you can ask her. Or if you have a couple dollars, you can go to a near by thrift store and buy some for yourself. I know you're probably thinking, eww gross, old ugly shoes that somebody already wore and threw out. But my friend works at a thrift store, and she said that whenever clothing stores have something on the shelf for too long, they give it to the thrift store for free just to get rid of it. So sometimes I go there, and get brand name clothes and shoes for me and my son. Its pretty cool. See if your dad will take you to one just to look around. I've also gotten purses from thrift stores. And you know those little trucks with motors in them for kids. They are like $400 at walmart. I got one from the thrift store for my son. It was $5 and the motor still worked. There is tons of new stuff there. Just take a look. :) Hope I helped.

I’m not sure if I want friends anymore. They make me sad and lonely most of the time. Should I look for new ones?

The term “Friends” and “friendship” has always puzzled me.Our friend circle is a reflection of ourselves only. It's a saying that we are average of five closest people in our life.Instead of trying to fit in, you'll feel more comfortable/ satisfied with people who are more like us. Who share our basic values.And I feel friendship is not like a digital signal comprising of just two values i.e. 0 and 1 . Or u can say extremes.. You can have friendships of varying degrees. Some can be close.. some v close n others just to tag along.Friendship can't be equated to loneliness. Loneliness is completely different arena, and you need to work on your self for eliminating it. You should not need a friend to fill a void. You should be complete in yourself.Friends are there to make us grow, help in bad times, be there when you need them, and think of your well being ,at least.Friendship like any other relationship is two sided. Both parties should put effort. If your efforts are not being reciprocated or your boundaries are not being respected, you have wrongly identified those people as your friends.And yes, this world is constantly in momentum…people change with time.. so why deny yourself the opportunity to meet with New people!!!

I'm not happy in my relationship anymore?

Are you sure you've fallen out of love or have you simply gotten past the "lust phase" of the relationship? Love is comfortable, caring, compassionate, understanding. When we find someone we feel these things with and about, we love them. There isn't some huge, continual mass of firewoks all throughout a relationship.

I think that one thing you could do is figure out a way to get involved with other people and into some interactive activities that will lend you some outside experiences. You might start with doing a yahoo search on Overcoming Social Anxiety Self Help.... and work at this. You CAN make friends, it's just going to take a bit of work on your part to relieve some of the anxiety you experience. I realize how it feels, i have some social anxiety too.

Perhaps once you find a place wherre you can experience interactive time with others, you will be able to look at the relationship with your guy in a realistic light. Perhaps you don't know if you're in love with him or not... you could be going thru a bored phase, or any number of things.

I'd like to suggest some things -- volunteer at an animal shelter, join a bowling league, consider a softball team membership, join the YMCA or a gym to get out and around others, see if there is a support group in your area for people with social anxiety (call your local mental health clinic and hospital to ask). Take a ceramics class or art class. I'm sure there is something you might find interesting to do out in the world which would put you in situations with other people, but at the same time, keep you focused on a task, if you see what i mean.

I'm not sure what you need, but i do know it would help you to "see" things more clearly if you had some sort of activity or outlet outside of the relationship, hon.

xx

I feel like I don't know what's real anymore?

You're describing depersonalization and derealization, usually brought about by high anxiety. Depersonalization is a symptom of anxiety disorders, migraine, epilepsy, ocd, caffeine, alcohol, stress and anxiety.

Depersonalization feels like you've changed and the world has become vague, dreamlike, less real and/or lacking in significance. It is a disturbing sensation since it feels like you're living in a "dream." You may also experience a divorced feeling from your own body sensations, feelings, emotions and behaviors - like they don't belong to you, or are unreal or hazy. It affects short term memory too, you may find it hard to remember anything you saw or experienced while in "third person."

Chronic depersonalization is a dissociative disorder known as depersonalization disorder. It can come about usually as a reaction to severe trauma, developmental trauma, or prolonged stress/anxiety.

Depersonalization refers to unreality in the sense of self, while derealization refers to unreality in your surroundings (like with the jacket in your lap). Derealization can also feel like the environment is lacking in spontaneity, emotional coloring and depth, there is a feeling of detachment, sensory fog, pane of glass or veil, like you're watching life on a tv screen, or like life is a movie or tv show. It too is a dissociative symptom.

Depersonalization and derealization run together. It can also be caused by Lyme disease, Alzheimer's, multiple sclerosis (MS) or any other neurological disease affecting the brain.

Depersonalization episodes usually resolve on their own. If symptoms last longer than 6 months it may become depersonalization disorder.

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