Im starting to hate my parents ????
Hold on till you are out of the house. Then you only have to see them on your terms. I heard this same stuff as well. "I am sorry I had kids" blah blah blah. It is spoiled selfish narcissism on her part. Just be who you want to become and soon you will be out of her hair and she can be free of children she doesn't want. And you can be free of a selfish woman who doesn't appreciate how good she has it with you. Good luck. Once you are on your own, you can create your own "family" of friends who love and appreciate who you are. They can fill the void left by a selfish parent.
Why have I started hating people?
There can be many reasons for hatred towards others. Maybe its frustration inside you coming out as negative emotion or some anger bottling up inside you. You need to change your environment or at least take a break. This can happen to anyone and is not a big deal unless you make out of it. - You can sit silently and just observe our mind without judging others for a moment. - Write down your thoughts on a piece of paper. - Distract yourself and best way to release stress is to do physical workout regularly. Believe me it clears your mind and later on you can take proactive steps to solve your current situation with conscience. - Spend more time with your near and dear ones. Its you who decides your company and self satisfaction. - There are numerous fake people around us. They do not deserve your attention at all so, do not distract yourself and shift your focus towards them. It will be alright if you stop feeding them and just focus on your life more, they will apparently repel you after some time. Chill out, its not hard, just initiate the process and feel the change. :)
I'm starting to hate white people. How do I get rid of this feeling?
I find the number of white people who responded by telling you to be the “bigger person” and to be “better than the aggressors” very interesting. Because if it was just as easy as being “better than the aggressors,” then you wouldn't have written this question. By simply asking this question at all you're already better than the aggressors. The question that you're asking is how to reconcile the sincere love you have for humans as a whole with the injustice that has been done to you and stop the internal conflict that's happening in your spirit as a result. I'm going to try to answer this question as someone who is currently experiencing the same thing.The fact that systematic racism exist is indisputable at this point. The fact that white people will most likely come out ahead in every aspect from wealth to love to fair representation, and that they can abuse others without receiving any repercussions even to this day is just that: a fact. And it's a fact that should make (and probably has made) every non-white person angry as hell. James Baldwin felt this anger. MLK felt this anger. Malcolm X, Rosa Parks, Frederick Douglass, Olaudah Equiano, they've all felt this anger. And you know what? It's natural and it's justified. But as you probably have already understood, living in anger isn't a healthy way to live. That's why I say, feel your anger. Express it. Let it out of your system in a healthy, non-violent way. And then after your anger is totally spent, choose Love. Don't choose it for white people. Don't choose it because you feel like you have to to be a good person. Choose it for yourself, and for the preservation of your own soul.In writing this, I released a lot of my own anger, and I hope it helps you too.
As I grow older, I'm starting to hate certain people and how the world is. Is this okay?
It’s understandable, sure. But it will only harm you in the long-run.We do not live in a utopia. You have to accept the chaos for what it is, get involved in it, learn about it. The moment you wish it wasn’t so is the moment you start to struggle with it. Some, sadly, spend their entire lives in such a state.Stop looking at the world and people through a lens of ideals. Everything is imperfect and impermanent. We are all victims of our own nature. Learn to appreciate the complexity of it all and learn to appreciate that everybody processes life in a different way.You can’t control other people’s behaviour. Perhaps you can influence it, but, ultimately, they will do as they please. You have to learn to accept this reality and focus on your own behaviour. You have complete control over that. Through promoting healthy and constructive behaviour you can help to improve our condition.
Why do I hate people?
lol Laura. I wish it was that easy. I have actually kicked her out several times. Unfortunately she doesn't have anywhere to go. Short of having the police come and remove her there isn't much I can do. She literally wont leave. I have packed her stuff up and put it in garbage bag on the lawn. She gets home and puts it all back in. Honestly I think I am going to have to go to court to get legal custody of the kids and then I can have her removed. I really just needed to vent. I am having a very angry day. I did like the song Sam Hall.. lol I may change my name.
Im starting to Hate my own race, am I wrong?
There is nothing to worry about. You seem to be determined to bring a change. Since you are not finding a way you are starting to hate. Blame is something that is in between these. Most people care about themselves only but few tend to care the world around them. You are one of them. These people tend to be better leaders. For most of the history the leaders from african american society were trampled and not given a chance. With prejudice moving away we see new african americans stepping in as world leaders like barrack obama, oprah, halle berry, michael jackson, tiger woods,usain bolt and so on.
I am starting to hate Facebook!?
People are so negative, trashy, and over dramatic! It hard to get a single thought out without some I-know-everything a**wipe posting on your wall like for example this young girl posted "Watching lifetime this dumba** got prego and she's hiding and scared to tell her parents don't you know your parents will be there fo you no matter what"? Lol I don't know what to think it's this attitude that our teens are becoming less and less aware of the struggle and pain that they will have to put up with everyday Idk maybe it's me? P.s. Deactivated my account don't know how to permanently delete it
Why do I start hating people around me? I hate everyone, I begin to be an anti-social, and feel like I am not in the world where I am. What can I do?
You don’t see the world as it is.You see the world as you are.If you are hating the people around you, it is so because you are filled with hatred within.All hatred starts from inside and you first hate yourself before you start hating other people.A person who hates the world is a person who actually hates himself, often without being aware of it. This happens due to several reasons like.You are unable to fulfill the promises made to yourselfYou are unable to control your weight despite your best desiresYou are not as perfect as you wish you should beYou are unable to follow your ideals of lifeYou are unable to appreciate yourselfWhen you start hating yourself because you are unto the mark in your eyes, the hatred within gradually starts spreading for other people around you just like the people who are infected with a virus start infecting others with the same virus.You start hating other people for the same reasons which make you hate yourselfYou hate people because they don’t fulfill their promisesYou hate people because they are careless about the weight and personalityYou hate people who are lousy and carelessYou hate people who have no idealsYou hate people who have no quality worth appreciating.The only way to stop hating others is to start loving yourself for what you are with all your strengths and weaknesses.Once you start loving yourself, you can’t hate other people in the world as you would be able to love them for what they are rather than expecting them to be what they should be.Awdhesh Singh (अवधेश सिंह)
R&S, I'm starting to hate christians....?
Your energy is being depleted by the most polarizing, discriminatory, ignorant, and/or vocal of Christians. I encourage you to find some likeable Christians in the real world and not in a forum that attracts radicals like mosquitoes to a bug zapper. Believe me, they do exist- I've met quite a few.