Why are women so easily offended?
@ professor, what has objectified all women as sexual objects? if there's a picture of a girl that's just simply very pretty and dressed rather provocatively, then women automatically acuse that of "objectifying" women. It seems to me as though women are jealous of the one that is being objectified. A Victoria Secret add that shows beautiful women in lengerie isn't objectifying all women, and I don't know how people don't understand that. Why would that ad even try to make people objectify a 200lb woman, when no one is going to ever think of her as a sexual object. As I said before, I believe that it's pure jealousy. The thing is, I'm rational enough to "leave well enough alone" and not think twice about the dude with the 12" weiner that's up 4" on me, therefore making me look retarded...lol no, but seriously, be realistic, think logically, loosen up, and try to not be pessimistic towards everything... nobody's out to get you
Why is it that sometimes my boyfriend takes joking to far?
This used to happen with my husband and I too. It probably means your "heart to heart" has gone outside of his comfort zone and he is trying to get things back into his comfort zone by making jokes. Sadly when we (women) have heart to hearts we become a bit vulnerable too and generally dont appreciate jokes being made about whatever it is, especially to the extent guys sometimes take them to. I think you should let him know you dont appreciate these jokes during this time, but don;t let it turn into a fight. That spoils the heart to heart. Maybe you could jokingly say something about his inability to get to his feminine side or his sensitive side. But make sure you are joking. If you both end up feeling offended it will just turn into a fight. Like others have said, most guys grow out of this or at least become comfortable with this as the relationship progresses. My husband an I have been together for just over six years and we can talk about anything,
How do you know if you're losing your mind?
I know this one has been asked before, but hear me out... I sleep too much, eat too much... I can't make myself do the things I know I need to. Absolutely none of the things that have brought me pleasure in the past 24 years of my life do anymore. I feel alone though I know I'm not. I feel ugly and when I look in the mirror I don't ever like what I see. I'm always depressed. I have always been an artist though in the last year my hands won't do what I want and know they are capable of-- ie if I am trying to play a video game where I know the sequence of keys by heart that I am to press my fingers will constantly press different keys.. I smile so rarely that my facial muscles truly ache if I do. I want nothing more than to be happy and pretty but I look at myself and see a hopeless ugly stupid loser, though I know I am unique.. I have naturally jet black hair with 2 different colored eyes, and a rather ample bust, I graduated high school after only 2.5 semesters with a 3.6 g.p.a. and everyone who takes the time to get to know me seems to like me... but to every guy I've ever dated I am something to use and throw away though I love with all my heart... I am treated by most as though I have some crazy infectious disease... And lately I am getting angry all the time... and I don't get angry like this... this is not me and I don't know who I am anymore and I don't like it!!! Am I losing my mind? Is there something wrong with me?
Ok Tell me everything I can do to PISS an Aries Off?
I just got insulted,heartbroken and diss by this April 8 1986 born Aries...AND I WANT TO GET EVEN!...I'm tired of being the nice guy, always emotional and kind. They use your weaknesses against you and push your buttons like your heart is a toy..NO MORE! Tell me.. what pisses an Aries off.
If someone calls you a psychopath, do you get offended?
People have called me sociopath, psychopath, have said I have a huge ego, arrogant, emotionless, monster, having no heart, sick etc. but for some reason, I like it. It makes me feel good. I know I can sometimes seem very mean and laugh at things that I guess "shouldn't" be laughed at, but everyone who tells me that are extreme hypocrites. They're the ones who make fun of people for no reason to make themselves feel better. I guess I don't do that, since I sort of already have confidence and feel as if I'm more than others. I know it sounds dumb but it's how I feel. Like I always need to be in control of others, and if I lose, I'm the one who let them win and no body controls me. it might be a personality disorder but eh, I'm not out of control. I feel as if I'm different than everybody and no one is like me, but I like it that way. I'm not a loner, but still. I also have less sympathy and empathy than others, and instead of feeling sad or something, feel awkward. I've also always never gotten nauseous or felt bad when viewing morbid stuff. I watch videos of beheadings, murders, very sick things, but don't feel anything. I just watch since I'm curious I guess. Polls and Surveys sucks. I asked what is your favorite soda and it got reported.
Im TIRED of being a nice guy...how to be a jerk?
Just be yourself. Don't focus on being a nice guy- focus on being yourself. If being nice is who you are then don't change that. The problem sounds like it is giving your heart to the wrong women that will take advantage of you. There is nothing wrong with being nice. The problem comes in when you do not know how to tell people no and see when someone is using you. Everyman and women in America has been taken advantage of at one time or another. But you just learn from those mistakes and try not to get hassled again. I bet if you look back over those relationships you can honestly say that you saw signs that these women were no good for you. But you thought you could change them once they saw that you were so good hearted and nice. Well that is a good answer but I can tell you right now that is not how most people think. If they can use you then they will use you until you are used up. So be who you are but remember if someone shows you who they are then please believe them. And do not say you will change them or they would never take advantage of you. We all learn from experiences so now just use them to help you make better decisions in the future.