I am a loner and I'm depressed . Help!?
I am a major loner and im depressed. I'm a male in high school with barely any friends and just the people I say hi to in the hall way or whatever. Im never invited to parties or just to hang out. I never had a girlfriend because I'm ugly (seriously) and other guys just pick them up like nothing. I'm picked on by those who say they're better than me because of my weight and appearance and that doesn't bother me that much but it's just annoying to hear them talk about me when they could be worrying about their life and education.I tried sports and clubs but it never really worked out and i just didnt feel into it. And family... UGHGHGHH pain in the you know what. I need some help or some advice about this please.
I am very depressed. What should I do?
First things first. Dont do anything stupid.Why? Because it wont help you in anyway. The situation you are facing now is what almost every plus 2 student goes through. But they are still going on. Aren't they? As for your 'love' life, its not love! I dont know what that feeling is called but i can assure you that its anything else but love. And i'm saying this out of experience. Even if you do find 'love', then what? You are just going to waste your time chatting or texting him. Of course you are gonna feel good. But thats just temporary. By the time you realise it, your two years up and you will have achieved nothing. And there is high chance that your 'love' life too has run its course. So now, you are not all prepared for your boards and entrance exams. Plus you have a broken heart to tend to. Whats gonna kill you more is that deep down you always knew what you could have done to avoid it but you didnt. Ultimately you ll start having crazy(stupid) ideas. So what must you do? Start DREAMING. Dream about where you want to see yourself 8-10 years from now. Start planning about how you are going to achieve that. Study for your exams. Instead of wasting time on facebook, read articles and blogs as per your interests(not articles about love). If you dont have people to talk to when you are down, go to the most secluded corner of your house and talk to your self. Trust me, it helps. Most importantly , keep your mind busy. I came across the following line when i was down - " you do whats right,let the pieces fall where they fall ". Good luck
Help i'm becoming very depressed?
ok well its high school, rumours go around all the time. Ignore them, if people ask correct the rumours and tell the truth and people will get over them and move on. Rumours never last long. Also why are you getting depressed over some rumours? Everyone has rumours going around about them, sure its upsetting but its not that bad, no matter what the rumour is. Think about all the people right now who are starving, being abused, the people who have lost a close family member. Those are things to get depressed over, not rumours. Sorri but i feel very strongly about the subject. I think it is stupid how people continually complain and say they are depressed when half the time they do not understand the meaning of the word. Just ignore the rumours and walk on with your head held high, they are only words after all.
I dont feel alive and im so depressed. help?
Please help. I've gone to a psychiatrist and been diagnosed with OCD and depression. im on 60mg prozac. and hydroxizyn for as needed but it doesnt help. im very very depressed and have thoughts about dying quite often. i have derealization/depersonalization and im so tired all the time and right now i feel cold and numb and so so so unbearably sad and hopeless. how on earth can i feel better from this and feel alive? i cut myself a lot to feel alive and release emotional pain that is always there and never goes away. its like life is one long, boring, depressing, sad, numb, weird, terrifieing lifeless dark tunnel that i can never stop unless i cut, and then its like a reset button on my life, in my mind. please please help? ive tried so many things and i see a counceler but i still feel this way and its not normal to feel this way is it? i really want xanax, but they never give me any. im really hoping that next time they will. how do i ask them in the best way so that they might give me some?? thx
Please help me im very depressed. Made me cry typing this out?
You are on a VERY high dosage of seroquel... I'm going to recommend this to you because this is what i had to do with my daughter... Effexor xr start w/ 75 mg Abilify 5-10mg Ativan 5mg when needed no more than twice daily When you are hospitalized they put you on a lot of drugs at first if you are showing signs that it is not working, the thing w/ doing that is that most of these drugs take time to go into effect! Once again contact me on messenger, i can calm you down and let you enjoy your day, your brother is making me upset just reading this, as is your family. They don't have the right to treat you this way. You need some counceling, if you don't want to go to a councelor, i understand..... I'm not a professional, but I DO have alot of experience in dealing with people with mental health issues, i've been told to become one.... i don't want to because this was a gift given to me to help others. You need help... I'm here. amber3_6 is my name on messenger.
Please help. im very depressed about my future.?
Congratulations - You have acted very responsibly by sharing this here, and you love your Mom very strongly, and you have shared your depression of yours, it is a very healthy sign. It happens, to most of us, I guess, in life situation at times. There is a very nice song it goes like - "Everybody Hurts",, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, dont insult your ownself. If you did not have self respect and if were not responsible, you will not have started working. These are the truths you yourself have mentioned. Enjoy this below, PLEASE READ IT COMPLETELY, IF POSSIBLE TAKE A PRINT AND KEEP WITH YOU - i have never shared this thing about me before.... Here are my naked truths, a real life story- I hope and you better believe it, if you doubt it, I am prepared to send you real evidences or links or something which you can test and validate below. I come from a family background were each one from my Father to each of his brothers and sisters have great academic achievements, and all that crap,,, to cut it short.. I have failed in my higher secondary school examination. Re-attempted twice, but failed further. I had faced this before, it happens the scorns of neigbours, the exhilarations of neighbours or friends of your parents, that withheld pleasure on your failure, that show of sympathy, that cast-out feeling, and as u mentioned, you dont feel like talking to anyone. It happens, something inside gets broken, it will take time to heal. Believe me you will enjoy your life ahead, this broken thing, will cause you to achieve things, which you have already begun by taking the first step, by being responsible to yourself in the first, doing actions, working now, worried about your MOM. Please trust me, you will enjoy your career which you are going to make, I have made one, one the best careers I have build, and I am damned proud of each brick I have laid, each building block, god dammit,,,,, TRUST ME,, you have a great life ahead.
I'm really sad and depressed someone help?
My "friends" and I have just gotten into a big fight and they hate me. I just want them back :( I ve already apologized but they seem not to give a **** and actually do hate me. I m praying to God I get them back. They were my only friends and now they re acting like my enemies. My life is falling apart I just feel like dying. I've stopped eating and everything I feel like committing suicide.
I'm 20, confused, and feel very depressed. What should I do with my life?
Below are the points to kill depression and anxiety at zero level.1- You are a good human being and always be like that..Don't change yourself just because what other think....2- Go into the logic and than believe ..Means don't believe in anything just because it was happening in past.3-And nothing is bad in this world only your your thinking makes that good or Bad4- Try to build confidence so start this slowly.5- Don't be hesitate too much ..Do open talk and discuss than only you will come to resolution.6- And most important ..You must have someone your life with whom you can discuss anything worst to worst or bad to bad.7- To take advice from multiple people is dangerous... Always take the advise from the person who is more intelligent than you and much experienced8- Explore many things so that you will indentify you passion..9- Passion means something which you can do 24 hours without eat , without money but not feel tired.10. Don't judge people in short time spend valuable time than decide.11. Everybody does mistake and learn from mistakes because we are not God...Even God may do mistake.If still any confusion I am only a message awayviresh.graphic@gmail.com