Parents do you teach your kids if someone hits them to hit them back or to go tell an adult?
Get back out there and hit them twice as hard. that is what I was told by my Dad. I tell my son the same. He never starts trouble but if a kid hits him first they better be able to run fast cos he cant half pack a punch. But I think being able to stick up for themselves is a good thing. I would hate to think of my child being bullied when he starts high school, but at the same time I would hate to think of him bullying another child. I would never tell him off for hitting back.
PARENTS..... do you hit your kids when there bad???
If you dont....... i will pray for u...... Jesus and the Bibles says that children need dissipline..good luck with ur retched little monsters if you want to be a limp risted liberal pansy and not dissipline them!!!!! u DISERVE the crimes they will comit against u then!!!!!!!
Who thinks hitting your kids is bad parenting?
ok ive been hit as a child... now im really pissed when i look back... i WOULD let it go but imagine, a helpless child being hit... well, not like child abuse but more like spanking... i used to get hit in the butt by a stick... 5 times and soemtimes more... when i have kids, i will never discipline them like that... if my brother has kids and i see him hit them... i would punch him square in the mouth... i know that it's interfering with parenting but idc... who agrees with no hitting and no spanking?
Do western teenagers behave immorally because their parents don't hit them while they're children?
Yes, I am generalizing, but I want to be straightforward with my point: My boyfriend's (Indo-Chinese) and I's (Japanese) parents used to hit us when we did something bad, and made it CLEAR to us that it was bad and we had to follow their instructions to become moral adults. The same goes to most Asian families. When I look at my Western friends at school (I go to an international school so a majority of the students are from the west) they go clubbing several times a week, late at night, and don't come back until early in the morning, they drink and smoke even during school hours, they have sex with random people, they're rude towards teachers, other students and their own PARENTS, they swear a lot, and some don't do well with schoolwork. (This isn't the case with ALL the Westerners, but with at least half of them.) Isn't it because their parents aren't strict enough to teach them morals and manners? Why don't western parents hit or spank their children to teach them?
Disciplining other people's kids. How far should you go?
no, I don't think carry the child to the mother was wrong..she shouldn't have allowed her children to abuse your pet or your hospitality...she wasn't doing her job....and as far as offending these parents....It doesn't sound like they would be smart enough to get offended...or they would have know their children was doing wrong and corrected it.....your wife needs to look at this situation a little differently...people who respect others would not allow their children to abuse this persons home or animals.......whoever these people are...they didn't show much respect or consideration to you and your wife....... here is a suggestion, I am a mother of two children.....and when they were little I had encounters with old friends that had children close to my kids age...because of their children's behavior..hitting ,biting..screaming running and tearing up everything in sight... and their parents -my old friends- lack of doing anything about their actions..I distanced myself from them..I had to... for the sake of my children's wellbeing........you have a toddler ...if your child had been up when these people were there..their children would have more than likely been hitting your child as your cat..... that is what children do when they have not been corrected in this type of behavior...I doubt your wife would have liked for those kids to beat on hers...but that is liable to happen if they keep coming around...(know from experience)...If I was you and your wife..I would distance myself from these people....their kids behavior will only get worse as time goes on...and with their lack of parenting now...it strongly indication that this will happen....you don't want your child exposed to that....... If these people happen to come back ..when their kids start acting up this way...ask the parents to stop this behavior and explain that it is not allowed in your home...and if they don't do anything about it..than ask them to leave...they are not worth worry over.... by the way, if anyone should be offend over this situation..it should be you and your wife.....it was a total lack of respect these people showed you.......