First time drinking alcohol?
for the first hour slowly drink about 2 to 3 shots and have a glass of water after every shot, it dilutes and also hydrates you as alcohol dehydrates your body and also numbs your stomach. dont drink too much as you will get smashed and have a masssive hangover in the morn and trust me u dont want that, yea dont try to drink too much and u might puke as its ur first time, drink lots of water and dont i repeat dont drink very strong stuff voka straight up, dont skull em either if u friends chant u on or stuff just dont do it health is more important u can die from skulling drinks like vodka, try to drink low alcohol percentage drinks, beer would do fine and maybe a little bit of vodka but not too much, also get some carbohydrate into your body like pasta or a nice big solid meal before you go, not too much but something that can help absorb the alcohol, hope this helped have fun
I'm almost 18, I like partying but hate drinking?
i really like going to parties , but i feel like i dont need to drink to have to have fun . I already feel really high from all the happy energy at a party. I never drink or smoke or anything like that. I like being sober and safe lol I had like a drink at a family party once and hated the taste of alcohol Is it weird if i ever go to college and dont drink but go to parties? Are there people in college who party but dont drink like ever? Would i be able to find people like me? Cause my high school friends either drink like crazy and party, or are boring and dont drink and dont party. Why does drinking and partying have to go together?
Imagine that you go to a party with a friend who starts drinking alcohol.?
firstly it depends on the individual. everyone handles alcohol differently, the biggest difference being between men and women. women get drunker faster. also timing is everything. the more time (and food) you put in between drinks the less drunk you will become. but if you're talking about someone, say a girl, who has never had a drink before it might go something like this: drink 1: lightheadedness drink 2: giddy feeling, tingly sensation in stomach/elsewhere. drink 3: loss of some inhibitions (ex: if that person was shy they probably won't be any more) which will continue to get worse overnight. also frequent urination and dehydration. loss of fine motor control drink 4: blurring of vision drink 5: decreasing memory of event, horrible motor control drink 6: possible blackout long term alcohol consumption in the case of an alcoholic could be excessive weight gain/malnourishment, liver and kidney failure due to the alcohol poisoning them over time. ibelieve stomach and intestinal ulcers also can be caused by alcoholism too. http://www.mckinley.uiuc.edu/Handouts/al...
My 15 year old daughter Drinking Alcohol?
Please talk with her first and get the scoop on things. She might not really have been serious about drinking. The talk might have just been hype. I don't know what her dad is like, but mine makes so much bigger of a deal about things than my mom does. It will be better if you just talk with her, and only bring him in for back up if you absolutely have to. At fifteen she's almost grown and she'll appreciate it if you just have a conversation with her instead of lecturing. Ask her if the drinking is just a social thing or if it's something she does for handling pressure or whatever. If she's just having a sip or two of beer at a party it's not a big deal. I mean, I know it is to you guys, but it honestly isn't, and if you blow it out of proportion she'll be annoyed. I'm not saying you shouldn't tell her not to - you should - but just........try to not be too harsh. If she's drinking on her own or if she's ever gotten really trashed, then.........that's something else. Don't yell or anything, but be really, really frank about how there are so many kids who've died or gotten seriously sick from alcohol poisoning or been in car accidents. The most common thing I know is girls being taken advantage of while they're smashed. Then they self-loathe....and a whole world of hurt happens. If you're really worried, then don't let her go to the party. The big thing is to build up her confidence so she'll feel strong enough to say no to drinking when everyone else is, and to value herself too much to put herself in harms way. This is what my mom said to me, and it worked. I'm also a straight-A student & I've never gotten into super serious trouble, but I have totally done the drinking & partying thing, and when my mom talked with me from a medical / emotional / logical point of view instead of just lecturing me like my dad will do.......I really learned and I appreciated her... I changed my whole view point on it all in a way that just punishing me wouldn't have done. Expect her to be seriously peeved you read her logs. I'm not criticizing you, but I can't stand it when my parents do stuff like that. Best of luck!!!
What is the best way to convince a girl to drink alcohol with you?
You could say"There's no way anyone sober would want to talk to me, so, why not have a drink?"I doubt it would work, but you never know. On the other hand, if you already know the person, and she doesn't drink, why are you trying to convince her? Also, you should be careful about legal jeopardy.TL:DR Don't try to convince people who don't want to drink to do so.
Am I missing out if I don't drink alcohol or go clubbing?
I am reminded of my time as a 23 year old. I also did not drink socially or otherwise and sometimes doubted if there's something wrong with me that I do not like drinking when everyone else is going crazy about it.in hindsight, I have the following insights to offer you.I had a social circle and a close group of friends. I sure missed some fun in the social gatherings as I was mostly missing in them. But my closer group of friends never judged me for my choices regarding drinking and still valued me. I saved a lot of money at that age as going to pubs and drinking alcohol is expensive. I could save that money then as I had no liabilities. Later in life savings became difficult with a family and so many bills to pay.I never made friends in a state of drunkenness and of course took no decisions when inebriated that I regret later. I still made many friends in social gatherings as alcoholics always needed sober friends to take them home safely. Yes, the parties lasted a bit too long and the wait for dinner was never ending when you are not drinking. I enjoyed the peanuts and kebabs.Most of the people start drinking either through peer pressure or to look cool. Whenever I announced I am a teetotaller, I always found someone confiding in me that he/she also does not like drinking that stuff. Everyone has a story on how he/she eventually fell into the trap. Remember it's a trap. Actually a vicious circle as getting out of an addiction is not easy.Of course there were friends or colleagues who always thought I am crazy not to drink free booze. I thought they were crazy to ruin their health with cheap thrills.In my mid thirties now, I can see the effects of leading a high lifestyle of those people. Some reckless alchoholics don't have many savings now. Some are starting to have health issues. People who used to drink in moderation are fine so far. But alcohol is definitely not a health drink and it does have some negative effect on our system.
My girlfriend drinks but, I don't. What should I do?
Rational answer:You say (repeatedly) that you two love each other a lot. My suggestion is based on the assumption that it is true that you love her. (If you don’t, my answer is all wrong for you.)If she drinks, but is not addicted, there’s really no problem. It’s a choice she’s making. You don’t like it, tell her. If she stops, good. If not, deal with it. She will do hundreds of things in life that you won’t like. You’ll have to deal with them all, so start dealing. She takes pictures with dildos, deal with it. As I said…If, on the other hand, she IS addicted, then what? Then, she’s ill. She needs treatment. At this time, she needs you more than ever. I think it’s terrible to abandon someone who is sick. So try not to abandon her. Keep trying, keep trying, keep trying to get her to take treatment. One of two things will happen. One: She will (finally) accept that she needs help, and take therapy. Stick by her side. If you had a child with this problem, you would do this for him or her. The girl you love deserves no less. Two: Despite your great efforts, she will not accept that she needs help, and will continue on the path of self-destruction. At this stage there’s nothing that you can do for her. Threatening to leave her may jolt her into accepting treatment. So threaten. A threat that’s not followed by action has no meaning, so if the threat doesn’t work, leave her. This sounds heartless, but it’s logical. She’s going down anyway. It’s unreasonable to go down with her, however much you love her. Of course, how do you know if she is actually addicted? Best if you ask the appropriate physician. Else think carefully and decide. Nobody can be always right—this doesn’t mean we can’t take decisions.
When was the first time you drank alcohol?
I go to a few parties ever now and then, and a lot of my friend, and a lot of upperclassmen drink. I'm 15, and I only drank once, but never got drunk. Not to be lame or anything, but it seems kind of scary! At school we talked about how date rape can happen not only from pills that people can put in alcohol that make you unconscious but basically being too drunk, stuff can happen. Haha, yeah. Do you drink a lot at parties? How old are you? :)