What do you do when you love your bestfriend
Don't wait. You'll waste your time lovings someone that may not love you back the same way. I've just gotten through with this. Tell this person how you feel, its really that simple. If you know this person doesn't feel the same way, do it anyways. You'll feel so much better. When told this other person, she did love me back in a way that makes us even more special. I go to her when I have problems or if i need a place to stay for the night, whatever. I personally have moved on and found someone else, but im still really good friends with the other person. Don't mistake yourself with conditional and unconditional love. People come and go, but realy true feelings are rare. Listen to the song "Hold on Loosely" by .38 Special, and listen to the lyrics. Cry, do something to make you get over this person. I know its tough and it will take time. Be very patient. cheers.
Help! Im in love w/ my best friend?
Usually when you get together with your best friend, things seem pretty great. However, on most TV shows, it ends up screwing up in the end and you end up losing an awesome friend. It really depends on how you want the relationship to work- if you want it to be extremely intimate, you'll need to take things slow, but if you want it to be casual, go for it. Just be careful. Don't take things too fast, and just bring it up in normal conversation. Don't be too forward. That'll scare him away. :)
My best friend loves me. I don't love him. What should I do?
“Love and Friendship”, both the words have their own importance. Love gives us pain and frienship gives us peace. Love is unconditional but it's a need. Friendship is forever but it's a Joy. Love is eternal and friendship too. But in love you think about the other person and forget youself, but in frienship you love the other person not by forgetting youself. Frienship makes you stronger and loves makes you weaker(Exception are always there). There is a very thin line between love and friendship.Both the words are very powerful. If u say , “you love him as a friend” , that means you love yourself first and then your friend.If u say , “ you have fallen in love with him”, that means you love him first by forgetting yourself. He’s more important than your life.You got to understand this, “Everything that falls, get broken”. Without a heartbreak you can't say , that you have been in love ever.Now just take time, and think. Do you love him or not.??Is he your friend??OrIs he your lover??OrIs he your soulmate??As of now. By looking at your question. I think you are puzzled in your own thoughts.Solution to this is : Get distinct from your Bestfriend. Stop texting him for few days. You would get to know the real truth of yours. Just listen to your heart. Imagine that he is not your friend anymore. You would get to know , the feeling you are going through is love or it's just a friendship.If you are clear on this, that he is just your Bestfriend! Nothing more than that. Then why are you so much concerned about him.If you think , that he is your Bestfriend than just go to him and tell everything straight forward.Why are you hesitating ??If he is your Bestfriend , he would totally understand your situation. Because friendship is more important that love. If he is your true friend, he would choose friendship over love.Don't get conscious. Be brave enough to face it. Wether it's a breakup or rejection. (In terms of frienship).P.S - Friendship and love are like worshipping a god. Needs more devotion and patience. Don't destroy it. It takes million of days to build it and a second to destroy it.All the best.
I am in love with my girlfriend's best friend, what should I do?
First: Tell your girlfriend that you’re sorry, she’s a wonderful girl and she’s gonna make someone a wonderful girlfriend but she’s not the one you’re looking for and in the interest of minimizing pain all around, you think it’s for the best if you call it off.Don’t be an asshole about it. Don’t hedge your bets. Don’t keep her hanging on just in case this other thing doesn’t work out. That’s not fair.The sooner you cut her loose, the sooner she’ll get over you and find love again. It might be kind to help give her a great reputation by talking her up to give her a head start on finding love again. Always leave people in a better position than you found them. Consider this your good dead for humanity.Let that settle down before you make your next move.Now, go talk to her best friend. She’ll have far more respect for you for treating her friend with kindness and respect and now have a conversation about how you two want to proceed. Your girlfriend will take it a whole lot better if you were kind about your split too. She’s far less likely to cause you problems or blow up their friendship if she sees you as a good man who would be good for her best friend and it could be a win all around.The key is respect and kindness. Don’t make things more complicated than they need to be.